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The ''Friendzone'' is really the ''UglyZone'', Do you agree? (Page 2)
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No. Most often, it means I'm not attracted to their personality. Immature or too boring, usually.
Accidentally hit ugly zone, but I think it is NOT the ugly zone. It is zone for guys who are not adult yet (mentally). At least that is what I learned while being 10 years in friendzone.
10 years friendzoned? facepalm, it's you were kid 11 old.
okey I did not count, maybe 8, first friendzone was in my 13... but anyway, I stand behind what I said
If you have strong feelings for that person the friend zone will not work out well, If It's not the case there should be no problem been in the friend zone.
I mean if a good-looking girl I don't really have anything in common with were to ask me to start a relationship I would not just say yes and go with it. There needs to be some connection, looks aren't everything.
friendzone is cockblock zone. you brother to her... girl no want sexy with brother.
I don't think it is the ugly zone at all. I have many good looking male friends where there is no chance I would ever date them, most of them have don't have a problem attracting other women though. It's dependent on whether both people feel chemistry. Likewise I've dated guys who might not be stereotypically good looking but I have found them much much more attractive because there is chemistry there
Yeah, it's generally true. When I was 50 pounds overweight, the friendzone was a much greater hazard than it was after I lost the weight. Girls treat me much differently as a fit guy.
Do you think that you'd have a chance with the same women who friendzoned you before though, now that you've lost the weight? Do you think that your self-improvement has made it possible for them to see you in a new light?
@TheSkaFish Yes, it has, because they treat me totally differently now. When I was fat, they'd kid around with me in what *I thought* was a playful way. In reality, they were teasing me as attractive girls gently mocking the fat guy, things like telling me that a certain girl would probably go for me if I asked her out (knowing that she clearly wouldn't). That's all changed. They treat me with so much more respect now. They know I can get girls, and they even seem jealous when they see me interacting with girls who are attractive, maybe more attractive than they are.
I'm glad to hear it. I am trying to overcome a particular friendzone right now, someone I used to be able to talk to, but I made a lot of mistakes that I listed in my main post. I decided that things weren't going anywhere as long as I was staying the same so I decided to cut contact with her until I could figure out what I was doing wrong, change it, and come back later, after I've given her enough time so that the old me was less fresh in her memory. We fought about her friendzoning me a lot though, so it will be tough.
What would you recommend to do in order to get out of the friendzone, if it was you?
@TheSkaFish Cutting off contact was a really good move, and a necessary one to let things reset with this girl. I think the only way out is for you to be apart for awhile so that you'll be able to make a fresh start when you reconnect. It will take time, though, which may or may not be worth it based on how much you like this girl. Work on yourself a bit during the separation. Maybe get some new clothes (nothing drastic) and be diligent about workouts. One thing that makes a big difference is actually just getting a tan. Girls respond to white guys a lot better when we're tanned because we just look healthier. Socially, start interacting with other girls to keep your social skills up and build your confidence. The worst thing you can do is sit around thinking about your crush because it just leads into crazy thought patterns. Plus, it will help you to be more nonchalant the next time you do see your crush because having other girls around quells desperation.
Is friendzone the new word for rejection? A way to be a victim?
Yes I agree. Friends need to like the personaltys while coupels need to attract to each other to.
No, not necessarily. In some cases it could be the "ugly zone", but in other cases it's because of other reasons.
of course that's what it is, I know from experience. I've always been the friend but never good enough to have a girlfriend
Girls have 99% of the power?
You sure it's not because guys have dicks and we like to use them?
Heck no, I've friendzoned attractive guys mainly cause we just weren't compatible, nor do I want a relationship right now.
Yes. Where are the sluts? I need some.
Cut the bullshit!
Not quite.
I agree that "friend zone" isn't really the right word for it. But it's better named the "no sex zone." Being ugly or not isn't the only criteria that's going to get you in that zone.
I was friendzoned because our morals and what we want in life were different.
It's true its the ugly zone. If you can make her laugh, smile and have a great time, it's just that you not attractive enough that she wants to have sex with you, nothing else.
Friend zone= Thought we were just friends.
That's it.
Pretty much.
Your missing the point though, If he was nice you would friendzone him right?
If he was hot AND nice, You would try and date him right? Why would you make the perfect guy just a friend? But at the same time you would never have a friend who is an asshole.
This leaves the only type of guy eligable for ''friend'' status are not so hot nice guys.
I'm not missing the point.
If he was nice then of course he'd be my friend or acquaintance.
That doesn't mean I'm "friend zoning" him.
Do I have to date everyone just because they're nice?
You act like males and females can't be just friends.
I'm not going to date someone just because they're "hot and nice". There are plenty of people like that.
People should be decent human beings in the first place.
There really aren't plenty of people that are hot and nice though. There are lots of nice people. There are not a lot of hot people. There are also not a lot of interesting people. So to find someone nice, hot, and interesting is really rare.
Looks are subjective.
I know a lot of attractive people that are "nice" and that I get along with.
@TheSkaFish
Yeah all bitches do this. If you don't look like c. Tatum your pretty much destined to wind up like millhouses dad on the Simpson's.
lol what!!! did you say girls have power lol you know so little
As a girl, I have friend zoned some guys.. But not because they were ugly. Usually it means I really want to keep your friendship and I really like you as a person. Other times I've seen my friends friendzone because they simply aren't interested.
I've heard that before from someone. That they want to keep me and really like me as a person... but that I'm incompatible for dating. It kills me though, because me and this girl could talk so easily and enjoyed each other's company.
Do you think there's any way I could show her that maybe I am good enough for dating after all? Right now I'm taking time away from talking to her to work on myself and change into a better version, one that's fixed some of the problems I think she had with me. Basically I'm trying to be someone new.
yeah sometimes it can be a ugly zone but not always. friendzone is like like someone as friend like a brother or sister not as lover. just my opinion
No, it usually means "you're too spineless to be attractive."
Friendzone it's when you'd like to have a friendship with him and nothing more. and you think she/he is pretty nice)
I would say it is about half and half. Many people with decent looks but a sappy pussy ass personality will also end up in the friend zone.
So, what should these "sappy-ass pussies" do then?
A lot of guys who get written off as "pussies" really just have taste and common sense. They know that who you are inside is more important than having a macho-man image, and they know they have too much to lose to start acting stupid. But that's not enough for women, so what can a guy do who doesn't want to be a sleaze?
@TheSkaFish Maybe gave confidence and stop letting people walk all over them? Maybe not sit there all quiet about their true feelings and take charge? Maybe live?
I'm doing all those things. I am learning to have confidence in myself and my worth as a person, I speak my mind about my feelings, and I am living. I have interests.
But I'm not going to start going around changing my appearance and mannerisms to a macho-man style. That wouldn't make any sense for a guy like me. It would be like going backwards.
@TheSkaFish I agree. Maybe you are smelly or super ugly?
Nope. I'm quite clean and have been complimented on my looks by women several times, including one of the women who friendzoned me.
@TheSkaFish Testicles
Check.
I made the mistake of talking too much about my feelings to them though, so I could see that as a problem. Still, it seems like a stupid thing for the woman to friendzone me for, over, say, shallowness, low intelligence, ego, lack of ambition - and in one particular case, hard drug use/attempted suicide (so confident!), and almost going to prison. These are the kind of guys I've seen get the good women I was after.
@TheSkaFish There is a reason and it's deeper and somehow more simple than you can possibly imagine.
Well it's not my looks and it's not my interests. So it must be my personality. I read an article today that mentioned how some people never learned to cultivate sexual aggression, which is a key part of displaying masculinity. I feel like this must be it. I just don't have a very masculine personality. I never thought of myself as feminine either, but I could definitely see how I come across as boyish. I never liked talking or acting trashy about sex though, I found that distasteful and felt it was beneath me.
The problem is, women want a masculine man, no matter how stupid or shitty of a person he is - as I've seen. I guess I have to find a way to be more masculine, while still being true to myself. This is a problem as I find a lot of traditionally masculine things (tattoos, hard drugs, etc.) stupid.
@TheSkaFish Respond to me later and I will add you and spend some times helping you if you want it.
Yes that is exactly it!!!
I don't believe in the friendzone.
Interesting. No women disagree with me, but no men agree.
Do u believe in LUV? With meh baby 👄
lol these terms
No, friendzone does not equal uglyzone...
Umm the downvotes are not necessary, because I am right.
Yeah, what's up with the downvotes, guys? Isn't this actually GOOD news?
I think perhaps they think you're lying, PLLFan21.
Yeah I agree. Thank you. @Bluemax
No, it's the butthurt zone.
I call it the fun zone so they cry with other babies who didn't get what they want<--- saw this in a meme
It can be both. I've rejected attractive guys
I have friendzoned hot guys.
Why?
Don't believe a word of this
Its been too many to go into detail about but the last hot guy I friendzoned just didn't have the same morals as me. Good enough to be friends but not someone I bring myself to being in a long term relationship with. He was pretty close to my ideal type physically.
@jmmmfi2 LMAO >offers fist bump< He knows. lol
pretty sure, if are you fat girl? clearly you need Workout getting perfect booty for him likes you!
@Xi3s3r I have no idea what you just said or who you're referring to.
I think it means both
It's the stringing-along zone
90% of the time it is the uglyzone
It's worse being friendzoned by an ex lol
FUCKING UGLY NUMBER ONE
yes. the way you put it is harsh. but so true!!!
No I have also good looking friends
Friendzone is backburner mode
You might be onto something
Its a "sick zone"
I love this
simply put- yes
Friends are good