I love my best guy friend more than my boyfriend?

[fallenhalo]

me and my friend, are constantly talking never getting bored of doing it, I can tell him anything and he tells me everything

we flirt all the time and I just don't know what to do...

me and my boyfriend have a perfectly happy relationship but I just can't talk to him or have as much fun as I do with my friend and I feel so guilty for it

p.s. my boyfriend is also one of my best gal friends older brother

[Magma]

This [b]IS[/b] cheating and I suggest breaking it off with your boyfriend immediately, unless of course you're willing to stop seeing your 'friend' in this light anymore. This is not fair at all for your boyfriend, and your condign guilt is proof that you should take prompt action.

If you loved him you would be able to confide in him everything and more. Being able to seek security in common conversation and sharing of secretes with 'just a friend' when you feel unable to do the same with your partner is an absolute joke.

The longer you take contemplating your course of action, the worse your situation will become. Do you even [i]want[/i] to stay with your current boyfriend? I mean, you have such an appetizing venture before you!

If you've come here to ask if you should dump your boyfriend to explore the relationship between your 'friend' further. Ask yourself if the reason you 'cant talk to him' is because he won't listen, or because you don't feel assured talking to him, that your secretes are safe or if he can handle them. I don't think that you should keep seeing your boyfriend while emotionally cheating on him.

Why don't you just flip a coin?

[budphillips]

You are dating the wrong dude.

[Anonymous]

Think about it before you do anything do you really like him like that? I mean it's different for everyone but things might chane when he is something more for you. But let me also say that one of the best relationships I've ever had was with my guy friend he was my bestfriend.

[renee_2_7_5]

I have the same problem kindof. my guy friend is never a bore though my boyfriend seeems to be. ill let you know if I figure it out.. :/

[here2help]

well the answer seems pretty simple although it may not at the time. Your with the wrong guy. Now there may be some extenuating circumstances at the time with your current interest but you have to set that aside to find your chance at happiness. over all if its not meant to be, forcing it is just going to make things harder and harder until it breaks. If you have something wonderful with someone you should explore that entirely. You are young you have your whole life for relationships now is the time to explore them. So go out and find the one that could be the one.

-Thats the way it is-

[POTAME]

why don't you talk to him about yourself and see from there..