The issue isn't that she won't post your relationship; it is that she has posted past relationships but not yours. It is, sadly, a mystery you can only work out with her.
If everything else in the relationship is good, evaluate how important this issue really is. Is it worth risking it? If it really truly bothers you, just try to be sensitive to her feelings and patient. Let her know it isn't a deal breaker (is it?) if she doesn't post, you just need to know.
I agree, And It's not flaunting. Social media was literally made for things like that friends, family, connecting and sharing moments. Sure if it was every day I could see it being an issue but an occasional photo is not a big deal but I have a friend who's like that she's never interested in taking any photos unless it's all on her terms and conditions like if I go in for a photo as group or whatever she will literally No!! No photos!! And like storm our of the way lol it's kinda annoying.
Do you know how things go down in the dm. If it status say single. And you have a boyfriend. Guys be trying their luck for Days and won't see her as a slut. That jump from tree to tree like tarzan
It's a total red flag. You need to make her her understand that it amkes you feel bad. Either she is being oblivious or it's on purpose. All I know is that when I'm with someone I hype them up. So the question is, why isn't she hyping you?
Maybe. My ex definitely didn't post any pictures of us while she was cheating and messaging other men she would meet on Facebook. She didn't even say she was married. I'm not saying she's cheating for sure, but her single looking facebook profile could be little red flag to remember. Good luck
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Tbh, some people just don’t want everyone to know their business, and it seems like whenever social media becomes involved in a relationship it causes trouble. If she say she love you, and you believe it what’s the problem? People post their relationships up all the time and 9 times out of ten most of them cheating or got cheated on. Don’t let these social media couples fool you.
Ahh, is actually strange if you have years together. Two, to five pics don't do anything, why not share with others your relationship status?
Let's go back in time, when social medias didn't exist. If you found out your girlfriend or SO didn't have any pictures of both, how would that make you feel? Knowing that you both took pictures together. What I am trying to say is, depending on how serious and how long is the relationship, it can mean nothing or it mean something.
At first I was gonna say, she's just doesn't like to flaunt everything, I'm the same way. But then I read I that she's done it with her exes, so I'm not sure. Why don't you ask her?
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I've brought up how it bothers me to her on several occassions, all I get is an apology.
Maybe it's because nagging her is not a really postable event. And if she likes likes it's not really good for the likes if you post a /w my boyfriend picture. Because guys like girls that look single. You can post pictures with her if your want people to knOW you are together. But get over yourself. Damn you are with her who cares about what others think
Women who post their men on their social media are weird. I once did on BBM when it was a thing and took it down because I loved him and some bitch asked who that is and kept her nose in my business. I only post my cat on my page.
If she's one of those girls who likes to get lots of likes she probably likes the attention as well. She's less likely to get attention from people interested in her if her status says "in a relationship".
umm... is she cheating on you? cause usually guys are not too keen on doing that... but girls love to put pics with their bfs
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I don't know but every single other couple around my age (19) posts pictures of their significant other at least once a week. I'm not asking for once a week, but the last photo and only photo was 4 months ago..
I mean, she could wait to see if it's serious before telling everyone about it if you aren't together for a long time. I would do the same as I must feel comfortable and stable before being fine with anyone knowing.
I think she might have another guy in her mind so she doesn't want to risk it. . that would be the only reason I would try to keep it a secret if I had a boyfriend but if I were also into someone else at the same time.
Hm maybe dude, if I had a boyfriend I'd be screaming that shit from the rooftops. Youd see me and him on social media 24/7. I don't know ask her, she may have another reason.
That’s the real reason... she likes the daily validation train of emoji flattery, and having a boyfriend would spoil the illusion of accessibility for her adoring, fawning orbiters.
So your girlfriend is among the dateable. Congrats. you're not dating a little girl. you're not dating someone who needs to read "aww" or "congrats" or "cute" to make herself feel like you're suitable. I guess this is something I'd have to now ask early... "Where you from? Do you post everything online?"
The guys that follow her wanna see her tits not you. If anything you being there makes them disinterested because it cuts out all possibilty of them getting in her panties.
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most girls are about flaunting so yes be careful if anything
you want my honest opinion break up with her
im not saying they have to flaunt all the time but they usually like to let people know with a few pictures
and that's it men usually care less about showing off women on the other hand,,,,,,,,
should be pretty obvious just by instagram and pornhub alone
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The issue isn't that she won't post your relationship; it is that she has posted past relationships but not yours. It is, sadly, a mystery you can only work out with her.
If everything else in the relationship is good, evaluate how important this issue really is. Is it worth risking it? If it really truly bothers you, just try to be sensitive to her feelings and patient. Let her know it isn't a deal breaker (is it?) if she doesn't post, you just need to know.
I agree, And It's not flaunting. Social media was literally made for things like that friends, family, connecting and sharing moments. Sure if it was every day I could see it being an issue but an occasional photo is not a big deal but I have a friend who's like that she's never interested in taking any photos unless it's all on her terms and conditions like if I go in for a photo as group or whatever she will literally No!! No photos!! And like storm our of the way lol it's kinda annoying.
Do you know how things go down in the dm. If it status say single. And you have a boyfriend. Guys be trying their luck for Days and won't see her as a slut. That jump from tree to tree like tarzan
It's a total red flag. You need to make her her understand that it amkes you feel bad. Either she is being oblivious or it's on purpose. All I know is that when I'm with someone I hype them up. So the question is, why isn't she hyping you?
I'm the same. Some people are just private and don't like flaunting their relationship. Or she thinks she looks bad next to you in photos.
Also people who post lovely dovey stuff about are happy they are is annoying asf.
They are annoying only to those who are JEALOUS.
Maybe.
My ex definitely didn't post any pictures of us while she was cheating and messaging other men she would meet on Facebook.
She didn't even say she was married.
I'm not saying she's cheating for sure, but her single looking facebook profile could be little red flag to remember.
Good luck
Tbh, some people just don’t want everyone to know their business, and it seems like whenever social media becomes involved in a relationship it causes trouble. If she say she love you, and you believe it what’s the problem? People post their relationships up all the time and 9 times out of ten most of them cheating or got cheated on. Don’t let these social media couples fool you.
Ahh, is actually strange if you have years together. Two, to five pics don't do anything, why not share with others your relationship status?
Let's go back in time, when social medias didn't exist. If you found out your girlfriend or SO didn't have any pictures of both, how would that make you feel? Knowing that you both took pictures together. What I am trying to say is, depending on how serious and how long is the relationship, it can mean nothing or it mean something.
At first I was gonna say, she's just doesn't like to flaunt everything, I'm the same way.
But then I read I that she's done it with her exes, so I'm not sure. Why don't you ask her?
I've brought up how it bothers me to her on several occassions, all I get is an apology.
Did you ask her why she does that?
It does seem strange considering she's posted pics of her exes. Ask her outright why she never posts any pics of you.
Have you met her friends and family?
Maybe it's because nagging her is not a really postable event. And if she likes likes it's not really good for the likes if you post a /w my boyfriend picture. Because guys like girls that look single. You can post pictures with her if your want people to knOW you are together. But get over yourself. Damn you are with her who cares about what others think
Women who post their men on their social media are weird. I once did on BBM when it was a thing and took it down because I loved him and some bitch asked who that is and kept her nose in my business. I only post my cat on my page.
If she's one of those girls who likes to get lots of likes she probably likes the attention as well. She's less likely to get attention from people interested in her if her status says "in a relationship".
umm... is she cheating on you?
cause usually guys are not too keen on doing that... but girls love to put pics with their bfs
I don't know but every single other couple around my age (19) posts pictures of their significant other at least once a week. I'm not asking for once a week, but the last photo and only photo was 4 months ago..
did you try confronting her about it
I mean, she could wait to see if it's serious before telling everyone about it if you aren't together for a long time. I would do the same as I must feel comfortable and stable before being fine with anyone knowing.
I think she might have another guy in her mind so she doesn't want to risk it. . that would be the only reason I would try to keep it a secret if I had a boyfriend but if I were also into someone else at the same time.
Hm maybe dude, if I had a boyfriend I'd be screaming that shit from the rooftops. Youd see me and him on social media 24/7. I don't know ask her, she may have another reason.
That’s the real reason... she likes the daily validation train of emoji flattery, and having a boyfriend would spoil the illusion of accessibility for her adoring, fawning orbiters.
So your girlfriend is among the dateable. Congrats. you're not dating a little girl. you're not dating someone who needs to read "aww" or "congrats" or "cute" to make herself feel like you're suitable. I guess this is something I'd have to now ask early... "Where you from? Do you post everything online?"
The guys that follow her wanna see her tits not you. If anything you being there makes them disinterested because it cuts out all possibilty of them getting in her panties.
most girls are about flaunting
so yes be careful
if anything
you want my honest opinion
break up with her
im not saying they have to flaunt all the time
but they usually like to let people know with a few pictures
and that's it
men usually care less about showing off
women on the other hand,,,,,,,,
should be pretty obvious just by instagram and pornhub alone