Wife confiding in her male friend?

[Anonymous]

I think my wife is discussing our marriage problems with her male friend. I understand she needs external opinions/advice as we all do so is this ok for her to do or should it be me & me only that she talks to? He may be helping her or maybe he's influencing her negatively? I do listen to her its not as if im ignoring her or not trying.

[Cmasterson]

I think she should be first talking to you, but I think it's okay, not all opposite sex have bad intentions. She may want an outside perspective, whether or not he gives her "good" or "bad" advice, she will make decisions best suited for your marriage on what she feels. At the end of the day it's up to her when deciding her choices and she should communicate those with you, as you're a team.

[HookingSwan]

that is a recipe for disaster

I really think you should be the one she discusses stuff with

[Analisa2015]

I mean, where do you draw the line between confining and consolation.

[Omar5881]

That's a big and fatal mistake really
Coz he's nit an expert he will just give a random opinion about it and not very accurate one
So u should have asked an expert and besides if u both forgave each other or whatever u will forget but people don't forget he will still think of it I say she shouldn't do that

[gapminder]

Nah I'm sure it's fine, you have female friends too right? ? Don't stress unless you see a tangible reason too.

[Sandcoloredhair]

I guess not if it bugs you

[ConsultantIsBack]

shoulder to cry on can become dick to ride on

[Anonymous]

You're just another modern, western cuck.