Is it suspicious that a married woman have a male friend who she wants to hide from her husband?

[Anonymous]

I mean it is normal and not bad if a married couple have single friends they both know they hang out with from time to time, is nothing wrong.

But people won't find ok if lets say the hubsand hangs out with single ladies by himself per se or the wife hang out with single guys by herself, it is ok when both hang out with single people at the same time.

So it is much workse when one of them spouses have friends (either married or single) who they hide from their spouse and they dont mention they have these friends. Dont you find it fishy?

Some say possible the spouse hide it from their respective spouse maybe for 1. She or he is cheating on him/her or 2. The one spouse does not get along with their spouse friend (and he /she kows who the friend is anyway) and simply dislike him/her but the spouse still is friend of the person and she/he continues to keep in touch with him/her. so the reason why the spouse does not want his/her spouse to know about the person and keep the friend in hiding.

I found out my sister has this kind of friend, I did nto know about it until last week I discovered it. I dont get involve in my sister private life, that is her business not mine, but I just wonder myself why she needs to hide she has a male friend she does nto want her husband to know about it. I mean I dotn know who the friend is but my sister told me she does not want her husband to know about the guy, cause the husband does not like the guy much. I found out beause during a trip together with my sister and her husband last week to NYC, my sister asked me to buy for her a NYC souvenir for her friend without her husband knowing about the souvenir. So I bought the souvenir pretending it was for a friend of mine and hide it after it in my suicase., just in case my brotehr in law asked me about the gift,

So my sister also told me; When we return to the country some days after I will stop by your house myself and pick up the souvenir"

[Espresso-Grande]

It's a definite red flag in my opinion. It shows they have an ulterior motive. It's very deceitful to intentionally hide their friendship.

If my husband had a female friend and intentionally kept it a secret from me, I'd question their friendship. I couldn't stay with someone who thought that little of me.

[Asker]

In my sister case. I dont know why she is hiding her friend from her husband to the extent that she even bought him a NYC souvenir that she does not want her hsubadn to know about the reason she ask me to buy it for her and pretend it was my gift to a a frien of mine. But I believe my sister told me that her husband does know the guy but he does not like the guy or get along well with him, so the reason my friend still have the friend cause hshe does get along well with him, but not her husband so proibably is why she is still keeping this friend in secret from her husband..

[Espresso-Grande]

It's still deceiful regardless of the reason. She's jeopardizing her relationship for the sake of her friendship with this guy. That says a lot about her priorities.

[iBeowulf]

Commitment is a trap she has an army of beta simps on speed dial next to ger ex.

[In_Trance]

duh...

[Anonymous]

Yeah a bit