Boyfriend not feeling himself lately, what to do?

[Anonymous]

Lately my boyfreind has been a bit down. He has been going through some issues with soemthing that happened awhile back as well as finding another job and figuring out what he wants to do. If he wants to go to school etc. I saw him on Monday last he hasn't been wanting to really do anything lately and has been in a funk. I tell him things will get better and im here for him and wish i could do something to help. He said its ok he just needs to figure things out. What can I do to make him feel better if anything since he doesn't want to do anything? I always get nervouse it has to do with me. What can I do?

[AleDeEurope]

Just reassure him that you're there to help him and if he needs it, he can come to you whenever he wants.
Most guys just wanna know they can go to you for help, even though most won't ask for help, but we like knowing there's someone that cares. Plus, he may not come to you asking for direct help with whatever issue he has, but he may just want to be with you, hug you, cuddle, and just feel affection from you.

[Asker]

He has not even wanted to do anything like go out or even have a night in. That's why Im feeling this way sometimes like i did something. eventhough I know I didn't i always still feel something bad is going to happen. I just don't know how to get him out of this funk or get him to tell me everything that is going on. Like i said he said he needs to figure things out and sometimes that worries me, but I dont think i have anything to worry about.