Boyfriend is sick and acting distant?

[brprincess]

Yesterday I talked to him fine but today not much at all. He say his sinuses are bothering him which is bad but I dont get why he is acting distant all of a sudden. He hasn't been texting me right back like usual and when he does it is a big gap, and has not called me at all today. I am trying to be considerate but I feel like he is ignoring me and i'm ready to kick him to the curb. I asked did he get any rest and he said a little. He lives with family, so I dont understand why he is not communicating today. Would I be wrong and should I be considerate? Should I say something to him? I asked when he is feeling better do you want to communicate and he said we can

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Thanks everyone I did not know this. I'm used to guys ignoring me for stupid reasons other than good ones.

[AleDeEurope]

You seem like the type of girl that if he's in a coma you'd get all mad cause he's not texting you back -_-

Ffs, he's sick, he's not in the mood to talk, he just wants and needs to rest, be more considerate and less selfish.

[Anpu23]

Guys when they don't feel well have a tendency to isolate themselves. To withdraw, it's normal.

[brprincess]

Did not know that. Why asked this question. And yes I left him alone.

[Anpu23]

I knew that you didn't. I wasn't being mean I was just trying to inform you. When guys are hurt, sick, or sad they have a tendency to retreat into themselves, and avoid other people. It's a guy coping method if you will. That's why a lot of girls think that guys don't feel badly after a breakup, because they don't see it.

[brprincess]

O ok. So when he is ready I will hear from him again?
Is it a good idea to text to see if he is feeling better, or still just leave him be?

[Anpu23]

a quick text of "hope you get better" would be fine, and yes he'll let you know when he is ready to be a person again (as opposed to a bear)

[brprincess]

Well I did call to check on him on his lunch break and he sounds a little better but still sick. I told him I had to go back to work and he say will call me when I get off. He hasn't called and was just wondering if I'm wrong to feel disappointed and unhappy about it?

[Anpu23]

Not wrong as he said that he would. But, hopefully he'll be back to normal soon.

[brprincess]

ok thanks!

[Anpu23]

Thanks for MHO

[squeelz]

Honestly I think you need to calm down its just one day let that man rest of he's not feeling well he may not be up for a full blown conversation

[fauchelevent]

That just sounds like he's ill and doesn't really want to talk. Maybe you could go see him and help take care of him or just leave him alone.

[matheus_mb]

If he started doing this after he got sick, then be considerate. If it's coming from a while ago, then talk to him about it.

[ArtDent]

Dude's sick and you're concerned about texting.

Newsflash! Texting is shit for communication. Call him or better yet pay a visit.

[Anonymous]

Christ, get the fuck over yourself. He's probably taking a nap... because he's fucking sick. You're so needy and selfish.

[Anonymous]

I would say, put yourself in his shoes. Many many people do not consider themselves in someone else's position when they make snap judgements about others.

My opinion only.

[adamski24]

https://youtu.be/VbmbMSrsZVQ

Have a heart.
we are man

[Jared____]

I hope he feels better man

[by_crazy]

you is very nightin g sometime