If a guy won't argue back with a girl does it mean he doesn't care?

[funnybanana]

Well, I don't know you. But if he feels like there is no point in arguing with you, then maybe you are one of those people who rarely accept it when they're wrong? The answer here is quite simple, you should ask him why he does it. But ask him while letting him now that it is okay to be brutally honest. Maybe it's not you, maybe he's just tired. Or maybe it really is you. And from what I understood, he says something is not worth talking about. He didn't say you are not worth it, or did he?

Giving you my personal example now. My girlfriend suffers from anxiety and sometimes I don't want to discuss stuff that I know will make it worse for her. Now, you may not even have anxiety, but from your question (I could be wrong), you seem like you're pretty stressed right now. I'm sure he loves you and your stubbornness, but stressed people can be exhausting sometimes. Try to pay more attention to his behavior. Are you tiring him out? Sometimes you need a break, and so does he. Try giving in more times, when you know that he's right and not you. Be sincere with each other. This way you will communicate better, and this is essential to a healthy relationship.

Talk to him, but he needs to know you won't get offended by his true opinion. Good luck. :)

[raio81597]

Guys are actually peace loving, regardless of popular belief they hate fighting, but I get what you mean, if you really mattered to him he'd fight you, then get so pissed perhaps that he'd take all that anger and use it to ravish you endlessly until you settled down. Then you would know you are worth it and know how he really feels about you. However his point is that, you always have a need to be right and he is not being heard, everyone wants to be heard in a relationship, he's not seeing your rationale of why you argue. Maybe try taking your clothes off while you argue then tell him when he's ready for an argument and wants to win then you'll be in the bedroom waiting for him. Hope this helps.

[leise]

Maybe he just really does not like aruing (maybe especially with a women)
I myself dont like it either and it's even worse when my female friends are angry because females sometimes tend to become very emotional when arguing and it's jst exhausting

Arguing is exhausting especially when you think the person you're aguing with isn't going to change up their mind anyway.

[DiamondFlame]

i think he's scared that he will lose you if he argue back and he keeps on telling u that so it will calm the situation between u two. it doesn't mean he doesn't care i think it just means that he cares too much that he won't tolerate arguing , breaking up and seeing u hurt

[Mustachekitteh]

Not if the fight is pointless but he should tell you that he doesn't care about that kind of fight and that it's illogical.

[ksoma]

If the sky is blue, and I'm arguing with someone who thinks the sky is green, and no matter how calm I am, not matter how much I explain why I think the sky is blue, no matter how much I can prove the sky is blue, that person will continue shrieking that I am wrong and that the sky is green, I give up and walk away.

It doesn't mean he doesn't care. It means he does not think you are capable of talking about something calmly and rationally, and so the headache he suffers from trying to discuss something with you just isn't worth it.

It isn't worth putting up any kind of fight if you know, no matter WHAT you are fighting about and no matter WHAT you say, they will refuse to hear it.

[CoolSky01]

he's like me lol, the best way to make someone go mad and destroy that persons argument is to not argue at at all, iam like " yeah cool , whatever" iam not dumb and i can argue for ages if i have to but chances are i won't argue with you, especially if you're a girl , i mean why argue and waste time if you won't listen and you get pissed more if i dont say a word, win win.

he's doing the right thing, obviously he's the smart kind of guys and you're the kind who wants to always be right and come out on top, and when he doesn't argue with you he never gives you that satisfaction, that girls always seek , he's doing a pretty good job if you ask me.

[Tanuron]

I think your own statement reveal the issue in itself in a way. Cause for one, he is not saying that you aren't worth it, dont put words or meanings into his words that he hasent said. I think thats probably the reason, why he is not interested in arguing. He feel like its pointless in many ways. Like no matter what he says it would be wrong and saying nothing is wrong too. Dosent mean he dosent care. I really hate arguing myself, had enough of a life time. So I rather try to avoid arguing all I can too, but naturally I stand my ground if needed, but I do consider many things just pointless sometimes. Cause for one, dont seem like people ever listen. Which is something that happens to most people, when they get upset, they dont listen.

Of course, I have no idea what this is about or what kind of people either of you are. But yeah dont warp what he's saying anyway at least, cause he didn't say that you werent worth it, two completly different things.

[Riggers]

Every dude knows there is no point in arguing with a woman, there is a famous saying,
Men argue with reason and logic, woman argue with emotion and feelings.

No matter how well a man conducts his arguments, she will ignore all of that on the grounds that she is upset or something, men fail to realise that when women argue and get mad, it's literally just an emotional things, whereas when men get angry and mad, it's because they are struggling to do or figure something out.

So by this, a man cannot win an argument with a woman. So most just don't even bother.

[serious]

No, not necessarily. It could mean that:

1. He is a peace loving person and so he totally dislikes arguments, and fights.

2. It's possible that he is intimidated by you or by your confidence.

3. It's possible that he is a very passive person and that's why he is not arguing back with you.

[Dim_121]

Because you will only get more angry with him. He loses if he fights and if he does not fight. The only way he wins is if he ends it on his terms whish is early so that he is still in your good graces. If you really want him to fight start it over his favorite fandom like startrek or starwars.

[AleDeEurope]

You're not the one that's not worth it, it's the argument.

He just dislike arguments, that's it, stop trying to create drama where there's not, especially if all he's trying to do is avoid drama.
Or maybe he's that kind of person that doesn't like arguing too much cause if he reaches his snapping point, he's gonna hurt you.

[TheAngryBanana]

a part of my gut is sayng you might add a small flaire of emotional expressed drama to this, which i may as are you?

if that is the case then perhaps he is simply sick of not being able to have a civil discussion about the topic, i get the same way when a women sits and has a emotional spat that can be resolved with simply talking camly for 5 minutes at times :)

[NYkid27]

I think so. I usually don't argue back because I don't care enough to waste my time or energy on the person who's trying to start an argument

[kittykatbrat]

Tbh, he sounds like he is WELL over you being dramatic when all he wants to do is chill, have fun and be happy.

[Anonymous]

No. Many people do not show they care by yelling and arguing. The fact you do doesn't mean he does.

[cth96190]

Because trying to discuss anything with a woman is usually a waste of both time and effort.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dv1iTqbSOnk

[lonerider]

Because you want to argue instead of discuss it normally like a normal human?

[Alan180188]

either he is smart or doesn't care, no third option

[Iron_Man]

I think so or he wants to teach her a lesson by the silent treatment

[Anonymous]

my man doesn't argue back with me because he knows it will just aggravate the situation

[Prince_teddy4u]

He do care that's why he didn't argue

[Ialexwonderful]

yeah he doesn't

[Anonymous]

he just doesn't want to hear you bitch!