How do girls respond to the Strong Silent Type?

[Anonymous]

I have recently been called this by a close friend. I'm clean cut young male with a large build. The problem is that I often find few words to say in most of my conversations. I like to use few words but let the words carry so much meaning. I like the phrase actions speak louder than words. On the outside I keep my emotions in check. Im even considered a gentleman. I don't do a lot of bragging but I do listen to others... Because of this dating and forming any relationship with a female is tough. I have r a stron5 spiritual foundation, a love of learning, and a adventuors spirit. I can't seem to spend time a Lo me enough with someone to realize that there is more to me than just my outer shell.. Suggestions.

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I'm also slightly addicted to porn

[BlondeBlueEyes84]

I don't think women prefer the silent type. They always want men who compliment them a lot and show courtesy.

You know why most women are so butt-hurt about blonde guys like me? Because we never cold approach women, flirt with them, make them feel desired or otherwise show interest. That's what my blonde ex-girlfriend said. Makes girls feel unwanted and ugly and blonde guys seem arrogant and overly hard to get.
So much for the silent type.

[RonnieVS]

Honestly it depends on the girl, not every girl would be right for you. They would honestly have to come to you because of your personality type, and would also be content with just being able to enjoy comfortable silence. I honestly like talking to everyone, well just making people feel welcomed in general, so i would normally sit and talk with the quite types just to make them feel comfortable in any situation.

[onthelist]

I dont think they Probably saw more if who you r and ur good qualities than u think they did. You probably just make it hard to last with if ur emotions are always in check and boxed away

[chintita]

i think theyre psychopaths

[Toad-1]

wow... kinda harsh

[TheSpartan]

Lol wtf is this?

[chintita]

@Toad-1 just the truth lol if a person never talks and isn't the shy meek type then i'm like "... looks suspicious" if a person cracks open that tough silent exterior and shows their personality then the suspicion goes away.

[Toad-1]

Did you know John Wayne Gacy was one of the worst U. S. Serial killers and was an extrovert? :P

Silent =/= always mean he's up to no good

[chintita]

@Toad-1 ofc that's the impression i get though, it's not a conscious decision. and the extroverted psychos have their own tells ;) are you the strong silent type?

[Toad-1]

Well im not always extroverted, but not always introverted either. so in between

[chintita]

@Toad-1 i have nothing against introverts, i like introverts. the hard silent ones who look shady r the ones i'm suspicious of lool

[ConsultantIsBack]

Be the Strong Funny Type instead

[Asker]

I tried that. She told me never again...