How do you dominate a girl?

[Anonymous]

Why do some girls want to be hit?

[ak666]

Dominate doesn't necessarily mean hit. That's more sadism.

You can grab a girl and kind of lead her, seduce her with your hands, make her yours. You can "take" her (but of course, always careful to make sure she's into what you are doing).

A man doesn't beg, doesn't persuade. He takes what he wants, grabs it with firm hands.

And this mindset will often help to attract women. Of course some guys take this to idiotic level like sexually harassing a girl in a night club by grabbing her ass when she absolutely hates it. It's all about doing it with some discretion and care to make sure she really wants it.

But you have to kind of embrace that inner beast that wants to grab a girl and lead her. For more mild kind of imagery, think of a man pulling a woman close and dancing with her in a very sexual kind of way, while leading her as she follows his lead. I'm not suggesting to do that exactly, but somewhat embracing this mindset.

[Asker]

You have to know they want to, or it's rape.

[ak666]

Absolutely. To do it right you kind of have to be very confident but simultaneously very careful to make sure she's into it. It's kind of two forces -- one that is very careful but simultaneously very confident.

[ak666]

But if you pull it off right, there can be times where a girl doesn't know what to make of you -- she's kind of in a neutral territory where she's still trying to make up her mind. And if you play your cards right and grab her, pull her close, and seduce her properly, she will open up and melt in your arms. It's all about timing and knowing exactly how to execute it. Takes some practice but it makes all the difference in elevating what might be something just friendly to a sexual and romantic kind of level.

[ak666]

It helps if you can balance it all out delicately with humor, playfulness, intimacy (to get you two to open up to each other and feel more comfortable) -- whatever forces can kind of make her more welcoming of your touch and lead, since it is a kind of aggressive action and can backfire if she's not in the right kind of mood and isn't feeling the vibe.

[Asker]

Interesting. If I were to elevate into something sexual, I would do it with a mean face on, not a smile.

[ak666]

Sometimes that can work too. It's a little more risky sometimes if you go heavy-duty testosterone and dominate by reaching the peak of sexual threat. Sometimes it's easy to get a girl to drop her guard a little by lowering the threat, then raise it again. It's all up to finding your own style though and approach to these situations.

[feminismisnarcissism]

good comment. they don't want to have to hold your hand...

[Anonymous]

Most girls like some degree of domination. Most commonly with them being dominated. Out of those a rather minuscule amount enjoy being "hit".

That said masochism isn't exactly super rare. Hitting still leaves all kinds of silly bruises and the impact is on too wide an area for the pain to be exquisite or intense. There are so many other things you could do that would have much more effect, cause sweeter and more intense pain yet be significantly less detrimental to people's health.

Like... Okay. I wrote an example. Erased it or else I think I would've gotten banned.

[outmyroom]

It all comes down to sexual stimulation. Some girls are stimulated by pain and suffering. It doesn't sound normal and perhaps it's not but it is what it is.

[Asker]

What are normal girls stimulated by?

[outmyroom]

Hot guys, penises, etc.
But every girl has some sort of fetish.

[Asker]

So I should just whip my dick out?

[outmyroom]

If a girl wants to be beaten them trust me she's thought about it and really wants it so you must beat her

[Jay93]

Is this a sex thing or general abuse? Lol. If it's a sex thing I'm sure it's just that extra stimulation in the kinkiness of it...

[AriadneSky]

she's holing yo in her hands with your desire for her. you're not dominating her. as soon as you _want_ to she's in control.

[serious]

Why must you dominate a girl? No that's not a good attitude for a guy to have. Wanting to dominate a woman is not a good attitude however being assertive with a woman is absolutely fine.

As far as your question is concerned, girls who want to be hit might be having a dominant nature so they want to see if a guy can dominate them or not. Not an ideal thinking though.

[feminismisnarcissism]

well depends on what you mean... girls have certain common features, like many if not most enjoy being spanked, choked, hair pulled, roughly handled during sex (SOMETIMES... and other times they wanna be handled real gentle and more intimately)...

if you mean slapped and stuff-that's getting pretty freaky, which is fine-those girls can be pretty wild lol

[tricia103]

Being dominated doesn't necessarily mean that they want to be hit...😁

[Asker]

Okay what about just the first part?

[tricia103]

Well, to be dominated sounds like... they want to me told what to do, or the man just does whatever they want to them.

Some girls may be into being hit, I don't know, but being dominated really just means that they don't want to take control in the bedroom at all.

[Asker]

I don't think it's limited to the bedroom.

[tricia103]

Oh my. Are there seriously girls who like to be controlled by a man all of the time? Wtf... that's horrible. I don't know why any woman would want that.

[Tomsta]

Dominate doesn't akways mean hit. Things like not being afraid to get a bit rough in the bedroon. Agree on a safe word first though. Maybe throw her on the bed and pin her arms down with something

[Asker]

Pin her arms down with what? Your hands?

[Tomsta]

Hands yeah. Maybe get some cuffs etc.

[Decentguy]

dont know what being dominate has to do with hitting but those girls are very hot who likes to get hit in a sexual way

[archiz]

Dominate doesn t equate hit

[Asker]

Okay so what about just the first part?

[Boldstrummer1]

Who told you that.
Sounds like justification

[InsertAUsername]

It's a kink.

[AtomicCheesing]

Lead don't hit

[Asker]

Lead isn't dominate.

[Username3568]

Dick slap