Do guys like it when girls confide in them?

[lisaalynn]

there's this guy that I like who's half way across the country, and I really just want to talk to him, and confide in him because I have no one to talk to here, and i think it'd be nice to talk to somewhere who isn't from around here but I don't know how to get him to talk me.. I could call him on the phone and just tell him exactly how I'm truly feeling but I feel like I won't be able to get it all out, he and I aren't really friends we just know each other cause we used to work together and sometime I felt like there was something between us.. like I had to call him and ask him if he knew about my termination and he said no, and out of nowhere he told he was moving half way across the country.. and like a day later I randomly texted him and asked where he was moving to and he never replied... so, it's almost agonizing that he's so far away and making it hard for me to know him...

[ParamountArmada]

sure if she's interested in me, plus girls gotta be forward about their feelings and desires and what she wants with a guy to get anywhere with us, otherwise we will get annoyed if she randomly contacts us for no reason, and we won't know what she wants.

[lisaalynn]

So do you think i should call/text him and tell him all I want to do is talk to him more and get to know him? do you think he'll be bothered because I already texted him once, and we're not that close..

[ParamountArmada]

yes, you should talk to him, and guys are different than girls we dont get annoyed by the opposite gender.

[lisaalynn]

I don't know, I feel like annoy him cause he never really texted me back, but I don't want to write a paragraph on how I feel cause he might get freaked out, I don't know how to keep it short and sweet

[ParamountArmada]

he moved so it doesn't seem like he wants a long distance relationship, due to him not texting back, i think you should find someone else.

[AhGojira]

It's good to know the people close to us trust us and come to us for opinion/advise on life. That said, having some random girl use you as an emotional tampon because she has no one else to use is disrespectful.

[Lua_Raye]

People like it when you confide, no matter the gender. Because they feel like trust them enough to tell such a thing

[Scrambledagain]

Hell no!!! Any dude reading this: Hell no!!! When she starts doing that, it's the number one indicator that you in the friendshipzone. It's like the symptom you look for in the relationship of friend zone.

[SunDevil11]

I like it when a girl or anyone confides in me because I feel important and trusted by them

[Meliodas_]

Yeah, it makes us feel closer to you emotionally and the more you confide in us the more we confide I you

[Anonymous]

If she's a friend and I want her to stay that way, then yes. If she's a friend but I like her more than that, I'd say no, because that would feel like a slap in the face by the friend zone. If we were in a relationship, then yes, of course.

[Jamesol1]

Yes, can't imagine why he wouldn't unless he is talking to you purely because he thinks you may hook up at some point.

[EmilyC88]

I confide in my boyfriend