Boring nice guys don't have to be boring nice guys forever. They can work to improve their own lives, make something of themselves, follow their goals and dreams. They can get fit and live an active lifestyle, they can dress nicely, be well groomed. They can learn social skills, and learn how to talk to women. They can be interesting and still be intelligent and have whatever hobbies they love. It's just too bad that once you are the "boring nice guy" you think it has to be like that forever, as if it was assigned to you at birth. I'm living proof that ain't true. I got the body of an alpha but I lived a really shitty childhood and I came out of it shit scared to talk or interact with other humans. I've almost completely rid myself of all that shit though luckily. It took a lot of hard work and determination to overcome that shit, but it's all worth it because people like me and everyone I meet loves me. It's great! Now I just gotta work on flirting and women lol. Maybe one of these days I can come on here to GAG and show all the boring beta nice guys how I transformed myself and give y'all some motivation. But not yet, cuz I didn't bag any hotties yet, I'm working on it lol.
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wins hands down in ALL experiences known to me
Before "30" gals just want to have fun and be wild or at least WITH wild
After "30" gals want someone to share the nightmares/duties of making a living and raising brats, giving up wild free & fun... only the very rich get both after "30" often raising nightmare brats as the life leveler
To be honest I think the main issue with "nice guys" is that they see themselves as guys with less value than others Women love strong confident guys. And if there's someone who doesn't act around me like I was his "star", I will immediately get curious and think hmm this boy must be something interesting. Women love drama. Let's face it.
And sometimes, we're just not really into this waiting with a nice guy. It just seems boring after a while. Even if we know that he would be the one to treat us right and value our worth. How sad.
The basic instinct in a woman is to have what seems the hardest to catch. Being young, some qualities that are needed in a true relationship are usually over looked for physical appearance. As we age we make our choices on past experiences and find that there are many thing more important than hotness. I have found the hotter the guy, the worse they treat you.
I like "nice" guys i don't like wimpy you can be nice but also someone who is going to protect your girl
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Bc the "nice guys" r usually the girlish type that always complain about how nice guys finish last. its so anoying!! those kinds of kind always winge to me about how they dont have a girl coz they ugly. Like no, u just anoying. stop thinking u better than other guys, its unattractive. i want a happy confident guy.
This question is worded poorly and seems a little like "oh poor me." The best way to put it is women are attracted to confidence. The general nice guy stereotype is passive and nonaggressive which seems like someone who is insecure or lacks confidence.
nice guy looks ugly
bad boy/douche/whatever looks attractive.
Looks is the major reason. Then of course, you have a straight fact that women are attracted to masculinity, and being a bad boy, douche, dork, aggresive kunt and so on is definitely more masculine than being a nice guy (=pussy).
Based on what women really are attracted to, I'm surprised, that most of nice guys don't die virgins.
It's bullshit. I like good guys who are intelligent and strong silent types. I like a man who makes you respect him while respecting you in return.
Because the Donald said it
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I have never liked Alphas, I. Prefer the lone wolf. The lone wolf has the ability to survive on his own and is stronger than the Alpha who is nothing without the pack. I've seen a few lone wolves on different occasions rip the throats out of alphas and f**k the s*** out of their b****es.
A girl told me "there're guys for having sex, and there're guys for marrying". What most girls do is wanting the alpha male for having fun, and the nice guy for marrying. The alpha looks like he's going to be good in bed. The nice guy looks like he's going be economically stable. This also causes girls to friend-zone nice guys while they get laid with the alpha male, so they have the nice guys at hand when they are done having fun.
You guys read into this stuff so much that it's pathetic, the reason some of you have no success with women is because you just suck as a person. Don't be down on yourself there's still a chance to improve. This nice guy/bad boy thing is so over done and getting old, relationships can be more complicated than that.
It has nothing to do with 'personality', it just so happens that these bad boys probably look/dress better and we fancy them more so we tolerate more bullshit than we should.
Because the only women who like those kinds of guys are douche bags themselves. Douche bag girls like douche bag guys, it's a match made in heaven.
Also pathetic loser whiny women like pathetic loser whiny men. So there's someone for everyone. Including self pitying babies such as yourself.
just be confident and courageous (I didn't say be a jerk).
USA society has taught men to be feminized, polite little wussies with too many feelings being worn on their sleeves (you can have feelings just don't be a little bitch).
this is an unatural situation and women are not programmed to respond to this, even the feminazi's that push for this.
Its actually OK to have a set, be a man, spit, etc. and you dont have to be adonis, it's in your attitude
When girls are young, they just like when someone takes an interest in them... They're not out there asking guys out, so the guys that are "confident" enough (just show up) get the dates. Girls are so thirsty for attention when they are young.
It's hard to truly be a "bad boy" in a society of laws where people get arrested and thrown in prison, right?
Option F but mostly Option B: A man that wants a woman is "boring, needy, clingy, and desperate." A guy who treats a woman like sh*t must be "high value, confident, Alpha, and has endless choices." Women's logic often really is that foolish.
Oh my, you're so pathetic. The answer to your question is in your title. You literally said "BORING nice guys" in the title. No one wants to be with someone boring. Genuine nice guys are great. Boing guys are not. also can guys with this alpha male bs.
Bad boys are appealing to me.
I want a Alpha nice boy.
They just don't have swag
Say's the Anonymous user.
Speak for yourself ^^.
Also FYI your nothing like an Alpha wolf ^^ it not fair to the wolf that you make that comparison.
Dude you're over 30 and you still believe in this retarded teenage shit? You should already have a wife and kids Jesus Christ.
I wouldn't consider myself a hot chic, but as someone with decent looks, I disagree with your opinion. I prefer nice guys and Tend to dislike "bad boys" many boys can be nice without being boring.
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