Why do hot chicks choose us Alpha/bastard/bad boy types over boring NICE Guys?

[Anonymous]

Because its genetic. Women desire the strongest male to mate with

Because nice guys are boring and a turn off

Because alpha bad boys get girls wet

Because women are women and love to be treated like crap and love drama in their lives

Because they haven't hit the wall (age thirty) yet and aren't readyto settle for a nice guy yet

All of the above

Other. Explain please.

A total of 107 votes were cast: 34 girls and 73 guys. See detailed results

[Kaazsz]

Boring nice guys don't have to be boring nice guys forever. They can work to improve their own lives, make something of themselves, follow their goals and dreams. They can get fit and live an active lifestyle, they can dress nicely, be well groomed. They can learn social skills, and learn how to talk to women. They can be interesting and still be intelligent and have whatever hobbies they love. It's just too bad that once you are the "boring nice guy" you think it has to be like that forever, as if it was assigned to you at birth. I'm living proof that ain't true. I got the body of an alpha but I lived a really shitty childhood and I came out of it shit scared to talk or interact with other humans. I've almost completely rid myself of all that shit though luckily. It took a lot of hard work and determination to overcome that shit, but it's all worth it because people like me and everyone I meet loves me. It's great! Now I just gotta work on flirting and women lol. Maybe one of these days I can come on here to GAG and show all the boring beta nice guys how I transformed myself and give y'all some motivation. But not yet, cuz I didn't bag any hotties yet, I'm working on it lol.

[Asker]

I hear you ROK all the way.

[FemWorship]

E
wins hands down in ALL experiences known to me
Before "30" gals just want to have fun and be wild or at least WITH wild
After "30" gals want someone to share the nightmares/duties of making a living and raising brats, giving up wild free & fun... only the very rich get both after "30" often raising nightmare brats as the life leveler

[Asker]

Very true.

[fitness-and-reeses]

To be honest I think the main issue with "nice guys" is that they see themselves as guys with less value than others Women love strong confident guys. And if there's someone who doesn't act around me like I was his "star", I will immediately get curious and think hmm this boy must be something interesting. Women love drama. Let's face it.

And sometimes, we're just not really into this waiting with a nice guy. It just seems boring after a while. Even if we know that he would be the one to treat us right and value our worth. How sad.

[Asker]

Well said. Its refreshing to hear a woman being honest with herself.

[valentineslady]

The basic instinct in a woman is to have what seems the hardest to catch. Being young, some qualities that are needed in a true relationship are usually over looked for physical appearance. As we age we make our choices on past experiences and find that there are many thing more important than hotness. I have found the hotter the guy, the worse they treat you.

[Asker]

The worse they treat you and the more you want them.

[valentineslady]

Not me

[Asker]

Yeah now that your going through the change

[valentineslady]

Nope I have always liked men with silent confidence

[Asker]

Yeah an Alpha male

[flirtygrl94]

I like "nice" guys i don't like wimpy you can be nice but also someone who is going to protect your girl

[Asker]

A girl that admits what she wants, so refreshing.

[wassup_homie]

Bc the "nice guys" r usually the girlish type that always complain about how nice guys finish last. its so anoying!! those kinds of kind always winge to me about how they dont have a girl coz they ugly. Like no, u just anoying. stop thinking u better than other guys, its unattractive. i want a happy confident guy.

[john52461]

they are losers who keep complaining, if they put in half the effort they do into complaining about women choosing "bad boys" then they might actually get a girl.

[Asker]

Well said.

[AlexisFaye]

This question is worded poorly and seems a little like "oh poor me." The best way to put it is women are attracted to confidence. The general nice guy stereotype is passive and nonaggressive which seems like someone who is insecure or lacks confidence.

[Asker]

Well said though feeling sorry for myself is not in my nature

[realityphil]

nice guy looks ugly
bad boy/douche/whatever looks attractive.

Looks is the major reason. Then of course, you have a straight fact that women are attracted to masculinity, and being a bad boy, douche, dork, aggresive kunt and so on is definitely more masculine than being a nice guy (=pussy).

Based on what women really are attracted to, I'm surprised, that most of nice guys don't die virgins.

[Asker]

Well said.

[Selliebeanz]

It's bullshit. I like good guys who are intelligent and strong silent types. I like a man who makes you respect him while respecting you in return.

[Asker]

You just described an Alpha male.

[Selliebeanz]

but not the badass type who doesn't care about your feelings.

[Asker]

All Alpha males eventually find that one woman theyd move heaven and earth for.

[Anonymous]

Because the Donald said it
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[Opinion Owner]

https://i.imgflip.com/1c14s1.jpg

[Asker]

His daughter is hot and rich.

[Opinion Owner]

I wouldn't touch her even with a 6ft pole.
To sup with___ need a long spoon.

[binarybabe001]

I have never liked Alphas, I. Prefer the lone wolf. The lone wolf has the ability to survive on his own and is stronger than the Alpha who is nothing without the pack. I've seen a few lone wolves on different occasions rip the throats out of alphas and f**k the s*** out of their b****es.

[kap_nss]

A girl told me "there're guys for having sex, and there're guys for marrying". What most girls do is wanting the alpha male for having fun, and the nice guy for marrying. The alpha looks like he's going to be good in bed. The nice guy looks like he's going be economically stable. This also causes girls to friend-zone nice guys while they get laid with the alpha male, so they have the nice guys at hand when they are done having fun.

[john52461]

You guys read into this stuff so much that it's pathetic, the reason some of you have no success with women is because you just suck as a person. Don't be down on yourself there's still a chance to improve. This nice guy/bad boy thing is so over done and getting old, relationships can be more complicated than that.

[Livinglogical]

It has nothing to do with 'personality', it just so happens that these bad boys probably look/dress better and we fancy them more so we tolerate more bullshit than we should.

[Relentless_Hippie]

Because the only women who like those kinds of guys are douche bags themselves. Douche bag girls like douche bag guys, it's a match made in heaven.

Also pathetic loser whiny women like pathetic loser whiny men. So there's someone for everyone. Including self pitying babies such as yourself.

[Asker]

Bitter much?

[jacquesvol]

@Asker
Nope

[Relentless_Hippie]

@jacquesvol haha thanks. :)

@Asker definitely not, just being honest.

[YourName123]

just be confident and courageous (I didn't say be a jerk).

USA society has taught men to be feminized, polite little wussies with too many feelings being worn on their sleeves (you can have feelings just don't be a little bitch).

this is an unatural situation and women are not programmed to respond to this, even the feminazi's that push for this.

Its actually OK to have a set, be a man, spit, etc. and you dont have to be adonis, it's in your attitude

[AhGojira]

When girls are young, they just like when someone takes an interest in them... They're not out there asking guys out, so the guys that are "confident" enough (just show up) get the dates. Girls are so thirsty for attention when they are young.

[Asker]

True but I found when I was in high school and college that after asking them out and bedding them the less attention I showed the more they wanted me and other girls decided they wanted me as well.

[AhGojira]

Like I said when they are young they are thirsty for attention...

[Asker]

But by the time they know better aged thirty they are desperate for any man they can get.

[AhGojira]

Whatever dude... Some women grow up, gain confidence, and learn to communicate a little better as they age. Sure, some become depressed wrecks, but most become adults...

[BigBallerSodaPop]

It's hard to truly be a "bad boy" in a society of laws where people get arrested and thrown in prison, right?

[Asker]

A friend who happens to be female one night when she was drunk that there's the guy you have great sex with but the guy you had the best sex with is in prison.

[BigBallerSodaPop]

Cool!

Well I just got out 3 years ago

I'm good as long as she's not a size queen.

I think "bad boys" are the ones in high school who do drugs before it becomes clear that a life of drug abuse and drug trafficking is pretty stupid.

[Asker]

A buddy of mine had a girl who was a size queen he caught her one evening with a German Shepherd.

[BigBallerSodaPop]

Like an actual dog?

[Asker]

Yeah. I guess rex was the alpha male on that occasion.

[Asker]

She did have serious mental problems unfortunately.

[MCheetah]

Option F but mostly Option B: A man that wants a woman is "boring, needy, clingy, and desperate." A guy who treats a woman like sh*t must be "high value, confident, Alpha, and has endless choices." Women's logic often really is that foolish.

[Anonymous]

Oh my, you're so pathetic. The answer to your question is in your title. You literally said "BORING nice guys" in the title. No one wants to be with someone boring. Genuine nice guys are great. Boing guys are not. also can guys with this alpha male bs.

[Asker]

You are only bitter because no Alpha wants you.

[Opinion Owner]

Dude, I have a boyfriend and he's awesome. I'm not bitter at all.

[Asker]

Bit he's beta and weak thus the bitterness

[Opinion Owner]

He's an athlete, confident, and attractive asf.

[Asker]

So am I.

[Opinion Owner]

Ye but you're still stuck on this alpha beta thing.

[Asker]

We are who we are I can't help be alpha anymore than someone can help being beta.

[Opinion Owner]

Those things are just dumb social constructs. People are just people.

[Asker]

No such thing as social constructs but there is natural constructs.

[Opinion Owner]

Whatever you say

[Asker]

Is gender a social construct or does the fact that you bleed every month a biological fact?

[kaewk]

Bad boys are appealing to me.
I want a Alpha nice boy.

[kaewk]

appalling *** big difference loool

[abundantlyrich]

They just don't have swag

[objectivetruth]

Or maybe you don't have self respect enough to prefer guys who actually know how to treat women the right way. There are terms for that: "low self-esteem" and "shallowness".

[abundantlyrich]

@objectivetruth hmm ok? So sue me.

[Asker]

Another butthurt beta bites the dust lol

[Phoenix98]

Say's the Anonymous user.

Speak for yourself ^^.

Also FYI your nothing like an Alpha wolf ^^ it not fair to the wolf that you make that comparison.

[Asker]

If I want pussy repellent I will let you know Mr Beta.

[Phoenix98]

Lol it's normally the ones who claim to be alpha and say it to anyone and everyone that are the most insecure about themselves my friend ^^.

Also I'm neither an Alpha nor a Beta, I'm just simply a man.

[Asker]

I dont claim I just am.

[Phoenix98]

If that's what makes you feel better about yourself.

[Asker]

As a real man I never feel the need to feel better about myself.

[LittleSally]

Oh, I sign this opinion!

[Phoenix98]

Ok bud if you say so.

@LittleSally thanks.

[Maik567]

Dude you're over 30 and you still believe in this retarded teenage shit? You should already have a wife and kids Jesus Christ.

[Asker]

I do. My wife just finished high school and we have two kids.

[YowassupBestie]

I wouldn't consider myself a hot chic, but as someone with decent looks, I disagree with your opinion. I prefer nice guys and Tend to dislike "bad boys" many boys can be nice without being boring.

[rocccky]

Lol. U can't ques then while using word hot chick dude😂

[anonman32]

you know these are memes. they are not a good medium to base your views of the world on.

[LadyTerror]

So you whine about them choosing those guys but then complain about not finding a "hot chick". Seems hypocritical to me.

[Asker]

I find plenty of hot chicks lol

[LadyTerror]

I don't see how that's relevant but ok

[pipeliner78]

Ahh with chubby middle aged women “game” isn’t all that necessary

[_Oshi_]

Bad guys is a real turn on! They are the staring, looking up and down, teasing, flirty guys who tend to have a heart somewhere 💕

[pipeliner78]

Because they want to be dominated even if they say they don’t, and we don’t need them and it makes them want us that much more. My neighbors wife is a perfect example married a wimp he took on her bastards like they were his he travels for work and her juices end up on my sheets

[_Oshi_]

Woahh you must have game then 😂👌😏

[BiscuitesSwag]

Are you seriously this pathetic at the age of 30? 😐

[Asker]

Are you seriously this bitter aged 17?

[BiscuitesSwag]

I'm not bitter, where did I imply that I am? I just pointed out how stupid and pathetic you sound by asking this.

[Asker]

See its statements like that that imply bitterness on behalf of you young lady.

[BiscuitesSwag]

And this is why you will stay a virgin for a long time.

[Asker]

Unfortunately it was taken from me age 14.

[LEIGHX]

"... finish on her face" lmao

[Anonymous]

Other. Because guys who call themselves alpha actually love the cock themselves and what woman does want a gay guy friend.

[Asker]

Come on buddy we both know your a passive aggressive nice guy beta who dries the pussy up.

[Opinion Owner]

Sorry not no passive aggressive nice guy. I know that because if you said that to my face you would be spitting out teeth and blood as you scream like a little bitch as I continue to try and beat some sense into your lumpy head.

I'm not an alpha or beta because I'm not a wolf or a dumb ass who wants to make himself seem better other.

Also I'm not your buddy, guy.

[Asker]

So its prison rules where you beat me up and rape to make me your bitch. Buddy I don't want to be your guy.

[Jan1ssary_]

Because women know their taste ;D

[LittleSally]

This Q is full of c**p.

[Asker]

Why because you fear the wall?

[objectivetruth]

No, because she probably is guilty of being one of those shallow, self-hating women who'd rather date assholes and inevitably get hurt instead of true gentlemen lol.

[Asker]

@objectivetruth sorry but im sure the lady doesn't want insults from a nice guy beta.

[objectivetruth]

Says the beta who posts as anon due to lack of confidence lol

[Asker]

@objectivetruth says the guy who has multiple accounts because he keeps getting deleted for making creepy pervy butthurt comments.

[IU_092]

Daaammnnn!!! Ur good! *asker* 😂😂😂 excuse me I mean no offense, i just like to read smartass combacks. This has nothing to do with his question.

[meatballs21]

A B and C.

[nolookingbackx]

Who said that nice guys are boring? lol

[Asker]

Vaginas did.

[nolookingbackx]

You mean WOMEN? So I do not agree with this statement. Bad boys or fuck boys are often shallow in my opinion and care only about their looks and getting new girls and nice/shy guys are interesting. People who are often silent and shy are "rich inside"if you know what I mean.

[Asker]

That describes me to a T im also rich outside and we both know how important that is.

[nolookingbackx]

for materialistic people it is

[Asker]

Yeah for women.

[Aurora1010]

Sweet guys >>>>

[Still-alive]

thanks ;)

[Aurora1010]

@Still-alive 😉😇

[SunsetLover]

Other. Stop generalizing.

[Asker]

Generally speaking we all generalise.

[Whaaaaa]

Boo hoo

[Asker]

Cheer up doll.

[Anonymous]

Alphas and betas don’t exist

[Anonymous]

I prefer real men

[Anonymous]

Stop being a nice guy and become a sociopath.