What should I do, my fiance started calling me an slut and a bitch over some dumb suspicions, by the way does he sound like an abuser?

[hanniecharlie10]

It all started cuz i posted a personal message after getting drunk and fighting with my mom and now he came up to me today and called me all these names cuz i said things i didn't mean and he started going crazy mentioning my ex that i hate and all and that i treat him like shit when he never tries to spend time with me! wtf 😤

I've been going through a lot in my personal day to day life and he didn't even bother to ask!

this man is always very jealous and possessive over me, always caring what i do on social media, acts like a passive aggressive little kid when things dont go his way, yet he wanted me to sleep with another guy and was okay with me working at a strip club , tbh today, talking to him made me remind of the 47 movie with that abuser and the skinny girl!

he said he wants space after this and i said bye ill be back in a week, cuz tbh thats how long i need to get over the pain.

[meatballs21]

Both of you need some time apart to cool down and process this. Once you've done that, you need to get together for what is likely to be one of the most important conversations of your lives together. Be honest, because at this stage, you have nothing to lose. Make it clear how you feel and listen to how he feels. If you want to keep trying, agree on a plan to try and repair things. You are engaged, so if there is any sort of wedding prep being done, put that on hold.

This is make or break. Good luck to both of you.

[capturemyheartnow]

This is a very different type of a relation where the girl does some jobs at a strip class and the boy who loves her knows about it. That is why their discussion involves words used in the sex industry. He calling her names doesn't seem to be so hurtful in this case because it is the language used by sex addicted street people. Things are still within control and the boy will get to her in a week. She can rebuild her relationship from there.

[btbc92]

A person who loves you would NEVER say these things. He doesn't sound like a person you should be marrying. Take this as a sign and a red flag. Because if this is how you two react and live, you will be miserable if you marry him. Let it him, while you still can.

[hanniecharlie10]

yeah tbh

[hanniecharlie10]

like I don't know i woke up to him having a jealous rage

[btbc92]

@hanniecharlie10

Break it off. Because if he's like this now, he'll be like this when you marry him. This is what your walking into. There is no excuse. Don't prolong this, because you will regret making such a choice that your going to wished you never got into. He is not worth it.

[hanniecharlie10]

thanks you for your advice

[enis_Penvy]

The only time I call my girlfriend a whore, bitch, or slut is during sex and she's into it. I would never disrespect her otherwise and any guy who does that should be taught serious manners or stayed away from

[AlphaMale1]

If he is doing it in a belittling, condescending way then walk. Or get used to a life of it with him.

[ProbablyTooMature]

Is this the guy who was in jail, or the guy you wanted to leave him for? Not that it matters, it seems you have shit taste in guys.

[hanniecharlie10]

how come

[sweetshyguy]

I told you darling tough guys are abusers you should stick to shy sweet guys, yes we may lack confidence and be weak but we love you no matter what.

[hanniecharlie10]

awww really

[sweetshyguy]

Yes :) we treat you like a queen but you would have to take the initiative.

[hanniecharlie10]

thanks hehe

[sweetshyguy]

I forgive you for calling me a pussy and a weak bitch.

[Thrifty]

Don't put up with that bullshit. You need to take control and slap a bitch.

[abc3643]

Hit the eject button now.

[hanniecharlie10]

why tho

[abc3643]

You don't marry a douchebag like Donald Trump or your soon-to-be-ex fiancé.

[answerALLquestions]

Leave him obviously

[hanniecharlie10]

But why tho?

[answerALLquestions]

... because you have self respect I hope