Drunk forced kiss... touched and texted my crush coworker... how to apologize?

[Anonymous]

So I went out with others coworkers at a bar... Initialy, my crush asked to give her a lift to her home after party. I said ok... I ended up drinking more than I shoud and acted bad. I was thowing food to one person leaving... and pretended to trow on my crush just to she close her eye scared...

So she decided to leave home with another male coworker... So then I was jealous and. I Just wanted to kiss her on her cheek, she moved out of me... so I was mad, I said I want a kiss and forced it... While she was moving out I kind of gropped her side of her body... My friends that were there said it wasn't innapropriate and they didn't undertand why she moved away from me from a formal gesture.

Then I took my phone and started texting her... how much I like her and said your cofee (that we was suppose to owe me for that lift..) you can put it in your ass...

I just said "sorry" next day on a text message. She didn, t reply. I'm not sure how to handle this for next week... She didn't drink at all... she will remember everyhing

[butterfly_girl]

you overstepped the mark, if she didm't want to be touched or kissed then you should have respected that.

I know you were drunk but no one forced you to drink that amount so you have to take responsibility.

You may need to give her a little bit of time and then try talking to her face to face and sincerely apologise.

I hope it all works out, if nothing else then let it be a learning experience.

[Izumiblu]

The best thin you can do is text her, apologize and promise her that you won't talk to her further... and then leave her alone after that. I dont know where you are from that your friends think that was not bad... where im from you would be in a ton of trouble.

[Asker]

I said "I just want a kiss on your cheek" ... then she kind of stood still. Just gave her one kiss, and that's it. It's just a normal way to say hi, or bye to kiss.

[BellePepper]

Jesus. Stop texting her and delete her number. She's never going to want to hear from you again. You *sexually assaulted* her.

Apologize in person next time you see her and then get out of her life. You can *never* fix what you did.

[Anonymous]

None of my business. But I say put it behind you and ignore her from now on. Just tell everyone it was a mistake. She is going to socially attack you through gossip.

[Zazzz]

You're not gonna undo that. My suggestion is to not drink at all anymore, it doesn't work with you.

[Emojis201]

Honestly You have to appologize in person rather than text, otherwise she'll think worse of you

[Anonymous]

Well, start researching how to collect unemployment... you're going to need it.