What should I do to comfort my girlfriend while she's on period?

[Neal21]

Hi All

My girlfriend and I are on a long distance relationship. So it is impossible for me to be with her whenever she needs me. She's on period now. So is there anything I can do to comfort her? I don't know how to deal with girlfriend on period... Maybe you can tell me how to text my girlfriend on her period long distance.

[Asianchick100]

Basically let her rant to you. Talk about whatever she wants to. Don't keep mentioning that she is in her period. That doesn't help. And technically it has been clinically proven that periods actually do NOT make you moodier. There are confounding variables such as, there's a tampon in her or she feels like she's peeing her pants. She has cramps, she might get heat waves or chills. None of these would make a girl happy per say. So, just talk to her and try to keep her mind off of things.

[SadpersonT]

Don't talk to her or text her too much. And if you text her, be sure to mention you love/care about her, and send her little gifts if possible, like chocolate or a small gift card to a restaurant, etc. She'll be fine, though. Be there if she needs you.

[samhradh_leannan]

Just be supportive and give her a little extra affection. If you really want to go the extra mile, you could send her a care package with some chocolate and snack, maybe a cute card, and schedule it to arrive close to the start of her period.

[K_shav]

Bro you can remind her to take medicines on time and use heat pad. You can make her laugh but not too much. You will have to make her feel that you're with her no matters if it's long distance relationship. Call her, talk to her, make her smile. Don't get mad at her or dont make her angry. You will have to understand her pain and try her to forget her pain. Just divert her mind bro.

[jman46241]

I would say treat her the same whether she's on her period or not.. As long as you are there for her on Skype, facebook, or whatever the two of you use.

[Funkyfaith]

First of all, this is adorable that you are asking this. Second, hmmmm try just making her happy give her compliments make her laugh let her know that you are there if she wants to rant about something furring her time of the month.

[Kyhkhbkeb]

Hmm... the same situation. . im in korea my boyfriend is in the states.. whenever i got upset or depressed, he always sends me a voice mail through kakao talk.
Recording his voice and send it to me. That helps me a lot..

[Mantinziza]

You don't there's nothing you can say, do, or give that will ever be a 100% sure win. Best thing you can do is just keep you're distance and wait for it to wear off, emotions are like explosives you never know what will trigger it, best to just stay away,

[Little_Bumblebee]

You should rather ask your girlfriend what she needs instead of asking a bunch of strangers.

It also depends on how bad her period is.

If you have the money for it, you can send her some comfort stuff to her, but that sounds like it'll become expensive as well.

But at the very leas, t just ask her

[jshm2]

If you don't know what to do, do nothing.

That's a good life lesson for you, kiddo. Rather than fuck things up listening to strangers on the internet on what to do and appear what you are not. It's better to step back instead.

She's been a woman all her life, he didn't transition last week. So she knows what she is doing and you should respond when she asks.

[Anonymous]

We are emotional a week prior to period, I would like from my man to be extra loving on those days and not make me in a bitchy mood from saying someting outlandish (i can take it any other day but on my pms, no).
On a period ask her how she is, if she's in pain you can say that a warm compress would help, tell her to drink hot tea or cocoa (to show her you care about her well being). Tell her to relax and watch a movie to not think of cramps.
Just be compassionate and she'll feel better

[notwoke]

stop being a simp, she is ultimately not going to respect you if you act like her mom. Periods are a normal part of life. Sans some extrordinary medical issue, If she can't get though a period every month, this is a red flag. You need to help her be able to "adult" or think selfishly: Is this how you want to spend the rest of your life?

[JoyGirl]

You don't need to do much, besides watch what you say (some girls can be moody during their period), and tell her how much you love her. 😊

[AnnoCasher]

Don't make her mad and sent her chocolate.

[Anonymous]

She’s a lucky girl to have a guy care like this. Why can’t I find one like you?

[Anonymous]

I’m just gonna leave this here:

Your girlfriend is lucky to have you

[jboogiedaflame26]

just be cool until she off her period

[Adigelunar]

send her chocolate

[HglitterSpanix]

Mail her chocolate!