My best friend told me that I made her feel uncomfortable.

[Anonymous]

Ok, so I totally like my best friend Amy a lot and she knows it. We were very very close and recently 2 months she got a girlfriend. I was jealous as I don't know what. I got jealous because I wasn't hanging out with Amy as much anymore. Then one day, I kept texting her and texting her and getting sad because she didn't return my calls. Then Amy called me back and we got into a fight because I guess she was with her girlfriend during those times (which I didn't know) and it was making their girlfriend upset. Nobody else knows that I like my best friend (Amy) though. My best friend told me that I made her feel uncomfortable when it seemed like I kept coming on to them. What does she mean by that?

[Rafael151]

So basically, it's OK for the other girlfriend to get upset about text, but you're not supposed to be bothered that they go off together and you're left out? That part makes no sense to me. But when she says you were coming on to her, obviously she thinks (or someone thinks) that you violated her space in some way that seemed like an advance - that you liked her a bit too much for comfort. It seems like you could both be more specific. She could give an example of an instance when you came on to her and tell why she waited to say something. And you could explain what you mean when you say no one knows you like her. Why would that be a secret? Like her in what way? And why so jealous?

[kevin-camron]

means you have been interrupting something they had or bothering somehow,but its a polit way to put it I guess,maybe that day she had a trying day or was nervous of something,u know,give people 20th or 30th chances always ok?

don't make hasty decision ,if you like your best friend just like friends friends then invite her girlfriend too and you could all go out,even the better find yourself a mate a boyfriend or girlfriend and then she will come to you herself cause couples go out with each other more often than singles and couples you know?

[Shlei3]

She means that you were acting as if you wanted a threesome is my take on it.

[newguy2008]

i think maybe that you were intruding into their privacy. I'm really sorry to hear about your friend moving.

and if she's getting bothered by you, I would say back off as much as you can. unless uve never been in a situation like this in which case, u'll probably do it anyway, but it will teach you some valuable lessons.

if you wanna skip all that, back off. especially if you want her. ignore her completely. don't worry about whether or not they are spending time with each other. you cannot do anything about another persons feelings. everyones selfish. there are a select few who are willing to put their own feelings before someone else's.