Cause of the cynical ways most religions and stereotypical relationships alienate the polygamous societies as thought its bad to practice. Personally I dont see any real negative the man in the relationship actually does more work for both women. As well more work around the homestead is done without so much responsibility on one woman. I can understand though the idea on monogamy. However its kinda flawed.
Why is it wrong to be and stay with just one man? What is the benefit of dating or having 5 partners? You are the one selfish. Life is not just fun. Your artilce makes no sense and it is total ridiculous.
Lol 5 different guys at once? No thanks. I'd rather just focus on one. There'd be way too many fights, testosterone, drama, jealousy and confusion. Monogamyis so much more special. I get to share kids with this ONE guy, go traveling the world with this ONE guy, and introduce ONE guy to my family and friends. That's why most people - MEN and women alike consider monogamy. I don't meet very many men who want a polygamous relationship.
You would gain 5x the attention. You would get five different gifts during Christmas and birthdays. You would be able to eat out at restaurants five different nights a week. You would have 5x as many places to stay or sleep over as well. You would be able to go on 5x as many vacations as the men all have places they want you to visit. With 5 sources of income you would have your own corporation of boyfriends pulling in money to help you pay off your student loans 5x as fast as the other girls.
I suspect most girls actually already have this from their beta orbiters, they are just too meek to indulge in the sex part.
It really just depends on the girl. Because really a relationship with 5 other people isn't always one gender for the five, it's sometimes mixed. Some of the other females have a point, and 5 is a bit much. But in the end it always depends on what the female feels about the relationship going away from a monogamy.
Women want security and they get that from knowing that HER guy will always be there for her. The last thing they want is for her guy to get wandering eyes and take off for another women because there goes her security. That's why they get crazy jealous when other girls get involved because they don't wanna share their security blanket just in case one chick steals it away from her.
Women are attracted to person, not gender. So as long ss they click with someone emotionally they are attracted. This is rare so they don't usually feel attracted to many men at once. Where as men are attracted to women just visually and desire more women
So you're saying that they can be attracted to many women at once, but not men, because women are more emotional? And I gather all of these women on this site would change their replies if I asked them to be polygamous with a group of females?
Why do the women try to make being a male suck so much?
Me and my freinds with benefits were talking aabout this the other day.
Even though we are sex partners we aren't dating seriously. BUT we both said we missed having a serious relationship. When you can know someoneso well you can have a conversation with just your eyes and truly rely on eachother. And be there gfor eachother.
Having a lot of sex partners actually makes you more lonely.
Getting to know one person THAT well requires a lot of time and effort. I don't have the time or energy to be dedicating that level of attention to five dudes. Let alone one.
It takes two seconds to decide if you want to sleep with a person. Ten minutes to get to know a person. One hour (after sex) to decide if you want to keep a person.
It takes two months to decide if you want to leave a person.
Because women are jealous creatures and they are also teases women like to give off an appearance in public that they are not behind closed door when you talk to them one on one. They'll even be willing to do sexual things in private that they never would in public.
@blondfrog Do you not speak English or something? What you said makes absolutely no sense. You are saying women are willing to do sexual things in private that they aren't willing to do it public. i. e HAVE SEX IN PUBLIC. That may not be what you meant but that is what your words say. Learn how to write buddy lol.
Not everyone cheats. I've never cheated in my life and I know plenty of other people like that. So using that as a comparison and saying it proves we're polygamous is ridiculous. Scientific studies have shown that humans can be either polygamous OR monogamous. It has to do with hormones vasopressin and oxytocin. Different people carry different genetic mutations.
@Nyx_85 What I meant by that is that they are willing to do different sexual acts as in role play and fetishes and what not in private and say that they like them i private but in public they will lie and deny their fantasies. Obviously I have proven my point because you have become defensive. Then you give this bs argument rant with some words capslocks meaning that you would have yelled at me if this was in real life lol. Calm down buddy sorry if I offended your precious ego. Your probably that type of girl who tried to make herself appear good in the eyes of the public. I've come across a lot of women like that who like to make themselves seem like they are something in public that they are not behind closed doors.
@blondfrog i am absolutely one hundred percent DISagreeing with you because what you are saying is absolute bullshit. women who cheat have their own reasons that you shouldn't be concerned with because they are not you so get the hell out of their lives and get your own. and if you have five women on call in your life maybe you should pay more attention to them and what they go through because maybe they're getting shit in their lives for being in the kind of relationship that they are. women who are in these relationships are called sluts, whores, fuck toys, and countless other degrading things by both men and women but when men are in them society brushes it off as "normal" and their friends slap them on the back and congratulate them. just get a life dude. monogamy, polygamy do whatever the hell you want but don't rant to strangers online about your sexual tendencies if you don't want to get some shit for it because let's be honest here you said that to get a reaction. grow up idiot
@blondfrog I'm not defensive lol. I'm making fun of your sentence structure. There's a difference. And I'm not yelling. I put emphasis on one sentence to drive the point home.
Most people don't discuss fantasies in public lol. Especially if they don't know you well enough. Nobody wants a chick that is talking about her sexual preferences out in the open. She would be called a slut. Some chicks may be too shy to say anything. Men frequently say they want a "lady in the streets but a freak in the bed". And plenty of men act like this too. You don't usually see men OR men openly discussing their sexuality unless they have some sort of mental defect or social disorder. Or drunk... This is considered to be inappropriate.
Humans may have been more polygamous in history but that doesn't mean we haven't evolved to adopt different lifestyles or have developed genetic mutations over thousands of years... Or that it's even necessary, what with the world's large population. In fact with today's rate of STI's it can be downright dangerous. Do you know that genital herpes is so common most doctors won't even test for it unless you have symptoms? And most people who have it are asymptomatic (no symptoms), but they can still pass it on. They call it the 'silent spread'. So it's very possible you have herpes and you don't even know it.
And pushing polygamous on those who know its not right or natural for them is just as bad as pushing monogamy on those who it doesn't feel right to. If you want people to respect your views and lifestyle choices you should try to respect theirs.
@blondfrog And you could take every single chick you've ever talked to about these things that were different in private and that wouldn't make a lick of a difference. Those are anecdotal accounts. You do not know every single female on this earth. There are billions of us.
It's selfish because those women aren't acknowledging my needs. I have the need to have 7 partners. They were right there in my life enjoying my company and going on dates with me, even after telling them that I had other partners they seemingly shrugged it off. Only after the date did they floor me with the monogamy speech.
You're the one being selfish if you feel like people need to cater to your needs. If that's what you like then find women who are interested in that sort of thing.
I feel that the cashier at Burger King should cater to my needs after I've paid for something. If I put enough value into the relationship how is this any different?
No I am not your mom and thank God for that. If a woman or a man is not into polygamy then it is not their job to change that for you or anyone else. What's the point if you're trying to be with a ton of different people?
@Dinotracks Going out on 5 dates with different women doesn't count as being polygamous. That's just dating around. When you have 5 women dating and sleeping with you on a regular basis while full well knowing about each other THEN get back to us.
I wouldn't call it an obsession. I just don't like the idea of having multiple men. It makes me feel like I cheat on someone. Respect for people who can, but it's not for me.
You have a mom and a dad. Those are two people you love at the same time. You are born to love multiples. All you're doing is rationalizing your choices in your head because it protects your romantic reputation from scrutiny. It's not what you really want.
@Dinotracks LOL sure. My mom and my dad are not my romantic partners.. Either are my friends. That is entirely different. I know exactly what I want. I can't even dance with someone else, let alone date or sleep with them, when I'm into someone. Not because I think it's wrong or any sort of 'social constraint'. That's just how I am. Sorry if you find that so hard to believe. Not everyone is cut from the same cloth you know...
And I happen to think it's selfish to want to be with multiple people. But devoting yourself to ONE person and working hard to make that work? That's not. So you see... we don't see things the same way. Like I said to each their own. Don't get all pissy because some people don't feel like sharing themselves or their partners. You aren't the authority on human relationships. Some people are monogamous. We have a gene for it. And some people are not. This is just how it is. Get over it.
I mean selfish as in you are a jerk about it and date multiple people behind their backs. Not multiple partners that all agree upon their arrangement and are honest with each other.
They don't have to take the job at all ever. But on some level they like it enough to try it and then eventually master it. A lot of women have done it too. So women are naturally polygamous and crave multiple partners as evidenced by these brave women who showed themselves off to the world.
California girls are unforgettable. Katy Perry said so. And the Beach Boys wished they all could be California girls. I mean all girls.. not themselves. But who knows?
females in the animal kingdom tend to be more choosy. They pick the fittest male they can find. When a woman gets pregnant she has to carry the baby for 9months and then care for the child from 16-18 years. we are naturally inclined to find a lasting partner to help us.
@StickStickity13 It depends on the animal more intelligent animals tend to stay with their parents longer. Elephants stay with their mothers for 16 years and orangutans will stay with their young for ten years which is about as long as humans do if you put into consideration they live for 45 years at most. Let's say most people stay with their parents until they are 20 humans nowadays tend to live up to the age of 85. Each dedicate more than 20% of their lives caring for their offspring.
Having more than one partner is exhausting. I just don't have the time or the energy to juggle multiple people, especially if 1 or more all of a sudden want to be exclusive. In my opinion, sex is better with someone who knows what you like vs 5 people who only have a clue.
So you had another boyfriend. Serial monogamy style. So what is so controversial with having them concurrently compared to having them subsequently? In each case you're dating more than one person... it's just in serial monogamy you might be able to protect/hide your reputation more.
I have a better one and im gonna run it by you... would you prefer not having some title.. or label like girlfriend or wife or whatever but he is faithful and trustworthy and treats you like the queen i bet you think you are... or having that title/label and always thinking he is a sleaze bag, and he treats you like crap... what would you pick?
What are you talking about? It sounds like you're assuming a lot simply to reduce people down to your uncreative sex drive. "One is enough for me" doesn't make any sense. That's like saying one teacher can teach you everything there is to know. Are you prude?
@ShaunaM95 one person is plenty for damn near any female.. and yes, i know im right. @Dinotracks if you have 5 women, you literally can't treat them like A queen.. there is always just ONE queen and hella princesses... Shauna has a point. she lost that point though when she said "one is good for me" referred back to female natural ways... well in this era anyway.
@Tdieseler That's a horrible point. And you're both assuming way, way too much. First of all how much time do you really need with another person to get satisfied with them? Four maybe five hours a week tops. Secondly demanding the world from one person is pure romantic, blue pilled nonsense teenage fantasy (stamp approved by your parents.)
You go to different restaurants for breakfast, lunch and dinner correct? Or at least when you can afford to you go to a different place. They each have what is appropriate for you at that time. The same applies to people and sex.
@Dinotracks darling we... hold on... IM not saying YOU aren't satisfied.. im saying that those 5 women aren't. at least not all of them. Women are greedy by nature... known fact. im just telling you the truth. Shauna still has a point.. imagine each of those women taking shauna's point... wants you to treat them "right"... one of those points is for you not to be banging another woman. You can't satisfy all mate... trust me.
@Tdieseler Again assumptions galore. maybe YOU can't satisfy women, but don't label other men with your insecurities. I too was raised to believe nonsense from scaredycat adults regarding sex. You have an ideal in your head that doesn't fit how you go about life - as in you desire a diverse number of products and goods, yet suddenly with sex there is the "one true love" out there for you. As long as I'm getting my end of the bargain with my women who cares what they do in their spare time? They keep coming back that's all that matters. Be a man.
Im gonna do three things...@Dinotracks first off.. im pretty sure in my satisfaction ratio... secondly.. like a Selfish man, you only care bout yourself (dont get me wrong, im with you on that but come on, put out a lil) thirdly, im flirting (sorta) with Shauna here... so butt out lol.
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Cause of the cynical ways most religions and stereotypical relationships alienate the polygamous societies as thought its bad to practice. Personally I dont see any real negative the man in the relationship actually does more work for both women. As well more work around the homestead is done without so much responsibility on one woman. I can understand though the idea on monogamy. However its kinda flawed.
Why is it wrong to be and stay with just one man? What is the benefit of dating or having 5 partners? You are the one selfish. Life is not just fun. Your artilce makes no sense and it is total ridiculous.
Life is not just fun? Okay but what is the reason for living? Pain?
Lol 5 different guys at once? No thanks. I'd rather just focus on one. There'd be way too many fights, testosterone, drama, jealousy and confusion. Monogamyis so much more special. I get to share kids with this ONE guy, go traveling the world with this ONE guy, and introduce ONE guy to my family and friends. That's why most people - MEN and women alike consider monogamy. I don't meet very many men who want a polygamous relationship.
You would gain 5x the attention. You would get five different gifts during Christmas and birthdays. You would be able to eat out at restaurants five different nights a week. You would have 5x as many places to stay or sleep over as well. You would be able to go on 5x as many vacations as the men all have places they want you to visit. With 5 sources of income you would have your own corporation of boyfriends pulling in money to help you pay off your student loans 5x as fast as the other girls.
I suspect most girls actually already have this from their beta orbiters, they are just too meek to indulge in the sex part.
It really just depends on the girl. Because really a relationship with 5 other people isn't always one gender for the five, it's sometimes mixed. Some of the other females have a point, and 5 is a bit much. But in the end it always depends on what the female feels about the relationship going away from a monogamy.
Women want security and they get that from knowing that HER guy will always be there for her. The last thing they want is for her guy to get wandering eyes and take off for another women because there goes her security. That's why they get crazy jealous when other girls get involved because they don't wanna share their security blanket just in case one chick steals it away from her.
Is this a troll question because it certainly sounds like it. I would avoid anybody who had been married twice before let alone five times.
What about concurrently?
"the bounty brought by others." Lol women are looking for real men, real men take whats theirs and dont share sloppy seconds.
Hahahahahaha!
@musicbrain5 you disagree lol?
No not at all! I laughed at the sloppy seconds comment.
Women are attracted to person, not gender.
So as long ss they click with someone emotionally they are attracted. This is rare so they don't usually feel attracted to many men at once.
Where as men are attracted to women just visually and desire more women
And finally! Someone gets it!
@Poppykate and thats also why women are more likely to be bisexual
I am not bi! Lol. I was agreeing to the other stuff!
So you're saying that they can be attracted to many women at once, but not men, because women are more emotional?
And I gather all of these women on this site would change their replies if I asked them to be polygamous with a group of females?
Why do the women try to make being a male suck so much?
Me and my freinds with benefits were talking aabout this the other day.
Even though we are sex partners we aren't dating seriously. BUT we both said we missed having a serious relationship. When you can know someoneso well you can have a conversation with just your eyes and truly rely on eachother. And be there gfor eachother.
Having a lot of sex partners actually makes you more lonely.
My 5 partners are there for me whenever I need them. I can call them for help any time. It's like having my own emergency hotline!
That's very fortunate you have that support. Its very uncommon for your situation.
Getting to know one person THAT well requires a lot of time and effort. I don't have the time or energy to be dedicating that level of attention to five dudes. Let alone one.
It takes two seconds to decide if you want to sleep with a person. Ten minutes to get to know a person. One hour (after sex) to decide if you want to keep a person.
It takes two months to decide if you want to leave a person.
Because women are jealous creatures and they are also teases women like to give off an appearance in public that they are not behind closed door when you talk to them one on one. They'll even be willing to do sexual things in private that they never would in public.
well yeah most women don't just fuck someone in the middle of a busy crowd they do it at home...
@gigi5678 How would you know your 13?
"They'll even be willing to do sexual things in private that they never would in public."
I'm not sure if you thought that sentence out thoroughly...
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@Nyx_85 thank you lol @blondfrog i don't have to be older than 13 to know that women prefer have sex in a non public situation
@gigi5678 so why are you mad if your agreeing with me? Lol you getting mad at me makes no sense if you agreed with what I said.
@Nyx_85 I did it makes perfect sense. Also if women liked monogamy so much then why do women cheat just as much as men?
@blondfrog Do you not speak English or something? What you said makes absolutely no sense. You are saying women are willing to do sexual things in private that they aren't willing to do it public. i. e HAVE SEX IN PUBLIC. That may not be what you meant but that is what your words say. Learn how to write buddy lol.
Not everyone cheats. I've never cheated in my life and I know plenty of other people like that. So using that as a comparison and saying it proves we're polygamous is ridiculous. Scientific studies have shown that humans can be either polygamous OR monogamous. It has to do with hormones vasopressin and oxytocin. Different people carry different genetic mutations.
@Nyx_85 What I meant by that is that they are willing to do different sexual acts as in role play and fetishes and what not in private and say that they like them i private but in public they will lie and deny their fantasies. Obviously I have proven my point because you have become defensive. Then you give this bs argument rant with some words capslocks meaning that you would have yelled at me if this was in real life lol. Calm down buddy sorry if I offended your precious ego. Your probably that type of girl who tried to make herself appear good in the eyes of the public. I've come across a lot of women like that who like to make themselves seem like they are something in public that they are not behind closed doors.
@blondfrog i am absolutely one hundred percent DISagreeing with you because what you are saying is absolute bullshit. women who cheat have their own reasons that you shouldn't be concerned with because they are not you so get the hell out of their lives and get your own. and if you have five women on call in your life maybe you should pay more attention to them and what they go through because maybe they're getting shit in their lives for being in the kind of relationship that they are. women who are in these relationships are called sluts, whores, fuck toys, and countless other degrading things by both men and women but when men are in them society brushes it off as "normal" and their friends slap them on the back and congratulate them. just get a life dude. monogamy, polygamy do whatever the hell you want but don't rant to strangers online about your sexual tendencies if you don't want to get some shit for it because let's be honest here you said that to get a reaction. grow up idiot
@blondfrog I'm not defensive lol. I'm making fun of your sentence structure. There's a difference. And I'm not yelling. I put emphasis on one sentence to drive the point home.
Most people don't discuss fantasies in public lol. Especially if they don't know you well enough. Nobody wants a chick that is talking about her sexual preferences out in the open. She would be called a slut. Some chicks may be too shy to say anything. Men frequently say they want a "lady in the streets but a freak in the bed". And plenty of men act like this too. You don't usually see men OR men openly discussing their sexuality unless they have some sort of mental defect or social disorder. Or drunk... This is considered to be inappropriate.
The argument I gave isn't bs. It's science.
www.newscientist.com/.../
link.springer.com/.../s00239-003-2458-x
@blondfrog
Humans may have been more polygamous in history but that doesn't mean we haven't evolved to adopt different lifestyles or have developed genetic mutations over thousands of years... Or that it's even necessary, what with the world's large population. In fact with today's rate of STI's it can be downright dangerous. Do you know that genital herpes is so common most doctors won't even test for it unless you have symptoms? And most people who have it are asymptomatic (no symptoms), but they can still pass it on. They call it the 'silent spread'. So it's very possible you have herpes and you don't even know it.
And pushing polygamous on those who know its not right or natural for them is just as bad as pushing monogamy on those who it doesn't feel right to. If you want people to respect your views and lifestyle choices you should try to respect theirs.
*polygamous relations
@blondfrog And you could take every single chick you've ever talked to about these things that were different in private and that wouldn't make a lick of a difference. Those are anecdotal accounts. You do not know every single female on this earth. There are billions of us.
How is it selfish to only want one person? In my opinion you selfish and greedy for wanting 5 different women. I'd prefer to only be with one person.
It's selfish because those women aren't acknowledging my needs. I have the need to have 7 partners. They were right there in my life enjoying my company and going on dates with me, even after telling them that I had other partners they seemingly shrugged it off. Only after the date did they floor me with the monogamy speech.
You're the one being selfish if you feel like people need to cater to your needs. If that's what you like then find women who are interested in that sort of thing.
I feel that the cashier at Burger King should cater to my needs after I've paid for something. If I put enough value into the relationship how is this any different?
If you're paying someone for something that's different but needed multiple women is not a need it's a want.
How do you know it is a want? What if it is a need? Are you the person that determines what my needs and wants are?
Are you my mother?
"Are you the person that determines what my needs and wants are?"
You say this to her yet you are the one who argues against anyone who doesn't think like you... Claiming we don't really know ourselves.
Dude you are mentally insane.
@Nyx_85 I know what's best for you.
@Dinotracks Oh you do eh?
@Nyx_85 You like monogamy too much. We have to take away that lollipop or else your teeth will start to rot.
@Dinotracks Wtf are you my dentist now? Why do you care what I do?
@Nyx_85 Not you individually, women as a group. I think I could get enough votes to endorse polyamory over monogamy on TV.
No I am not your mom and thank God for that. If a woman or a man is not into polygamy then it is not their job to change that for you or anyone else. What's the point if you're trying to be with a ton of different people?
@Dinotracks It's not going to happen bud. So stop living in a fantasy.
@Nyx_85 Huh? It already happened 5 times.
@Dinotracks Lol from what I've read you had 5 dates and each one of them wanted monogamy.
@Dinotracks Going out on 5 dates with different women doesn't count as being polygamous. That's just dating around. When you have 5 women dating and sleeping with you on a regular basis while full well knowing about each other THEN get back to us.
I wouldn't call it an obsession. I just don't like the idea of having multiple men. It makes me feel like I cheat on someone. Respect for people who can, but it's not for me.
I can't speak for others but that isn't how I was made.
And many would say you are selfish for wanting multiple partners... But I'm not going to judge.
To each their own!
I mean being with multiple people isn't how I was made...
You have a mom and a dad. Those are two people you love at the same time. You are born to love multiples. All you're doing is rationalizing your choices in your head because it protects your romantic reputation from scrutiny. It's not what you really want.
@Dinotracks LOL sure. My mom and my dad are not my romantic partners.. Either are my friends. That is entirely different. I know exactly what I want. I can't even dance with someone else, let alone date or sleep with them, when I'm into someone. Not because I think it's wrong or any sort of 'social constraint'. That's just how I am. Sorry if you find that so hard to believe. Not everyone is cut from the same cloth you know...
Why do women participate in double penetration porn? They don't have to. But they get good at it!
And I happen to think it's selfish to want to be with multiple people. But devoting yourself to ONE person and working hard to make that work? That's not. So you see... we don't see things the same way. Like I said to each their own. Don't get all pissy because some people don't feel like sharing themselves or their partners. You aren't the authority on human relationships. Some people are monogamous. We have a gene for it. And some people are not. This is just how it is. Get over it.
I mean selfish as in you are a jerk about it and date multiple people behind their backs. Not multiple partners that all agree upon their arrangement and are honest with each other.
@Dinotracks
"Why do women participate in double penetration porn? They don't have to. But they get good at it!"
Wtf does that have to do with what I said? That's porn. Of course they get good it. It's their job. It's a fantasy.
They don't have to take the job at all ever. But on some level they like it enough to try it and then eventually master it. A lot of women have done it too. So women are naturally polygamous and crave multiple partners as evidenced by these brave women who showed themselves off to the world.
LOL porn is NOT a reliable scientific measure of anything. The fact that you are comparing porn stars to regular women is silly.
www.livescience.com/...monogamous-promiscuous.html
They were regular women once. Look what happened to them when they got to California.
California girls are unforgettable. Katy Perry said so. And the Beach Boys wished they all could be California girls. I mean all girls.. not themselves. But who knows?
by the way how much do you weigh?
About 420 pounds. I'm a linebacker on an amateur football league.
Fuck you. No you aren't. That's 420 pounds of pure gluttony. Admit it!
Okay I admit it.
And by 'five partners' you mean sheep don't ya?
Why would I call women sheep?
Or goats. They could be goats too.
I once knew a goat fucker. Back in HS. True story.
How was the goat? Did you give it a blinky?
I hate it! I'm pretty upfront that I want to sleep with other men. He can watch and join in if desired. I'm 25. Too young to be serious
Thank you for your candor. I think you will make a great philosopher when you get older.
because if you get pregnant you have to do 5 different paternity tests...
females in the animal kingdom tend to be more choosy. They pick the fittest male they can find. When a woman gets pregnant she has to carry the baby for 9months and then care for the child from 16-18 years. we are naturally inclined to find a lasting partner to help us.
Actually humans are the only ones that spend that much time with their children, most animals go off once they're old enough to fend for themselves
Exactly some animals find a new partner each mating season. Humans are inclined to keep the same mate around for longer.
@StickStickity13
It depends on the animal more intelligent animals tend to stay with their parents longer. Elephants stay with their mothers for 16 years and orangutans will stay with their young for ten years which is about as long as humans do if you put into consideration they live for 45 years at most. Let's say most people stay with their parents until they are 20 humans nowadays tend to live up to the age of 85. Each dedicate more than 20% of their lives caring for their offspring.
5 different baby daddies 😂
Having more than one partner is exhausting. I just don't have the time or the energy to juggle multiple people, especially if 1 or more all of a sudden want to be exclusive. In my opinion, sex is better with someone who knows what you like vs 5 people who only have a clue.
I like monogamy because I have the most amazing boyfriend in the whole world and I know he's the only one for me. <3
Geez why the dislikes? Jealous that you can't be mine? 😂
What about your last boyfriend? Was he the only "one" too?
I thought he was, but time proved it otherwise.
So you had another boyfriend. Serial monogamy style. So what is so controversial with having them concurrently compared to having them subsequently? In each case you're dating more than one person... it's just in serial monogamy you might be able to protect/hide your reputation more.
Why do women like monogamy so much?
There just as many males who like monogamy as females. The question is a very basis. If that was the case. Women would not be getting divorced.
What is your ideal scenario in your head? One woman in a room with you?
That never will happen. The women in my wife and my life. Are very support that abortion is wrong.
I'd rather be with one person who makes me happy and treats me right, than 5 people who go around sleeping with others and treat me like crap.
I have a better one and im gonna run it by you...
would you prefer not having some title.. or label like girlfriend or wife or whatever but he is faithful and trustworthy and treats you like the queen i bet you think you are...
or having that title/label and always thinking he is a sleaze bag, and he treats you like crap...
what would you pick?
I'd be absolutely fine with having no title as long as he wasn't sleeping or getting with anyone else.
What if all 5 people treated you like a queen? What then? Why not enjoy variety? After all it's not like you eat the same sandwich everyday.
sigh.. are you taken? or do you have some sister somewhere lol..
most of the girls I've run this by have always shot for some Label... stupid really.
@Dinotracks Nope. They're not "treating me like a queen" if they're out f*cking someone else.
@Tdieseler hahaha I am I'm afraid 😂 A label is just a label. It's all about how you're treated and how happy you are in my opinion.
Assuming a bit are you? What if they all promise just to be with you? And you live with them.
@Dinotracks but then it wouldn't be fair on them if I was out sleeping with other people. One person is plenty enough for me.
What are you talking about? It sounds like you're assuming a lot simply to reduce people down to your uncreative sex drive. "One is enough for me" doesn't make any sense. That's like saying one teacher can teach you everything there is to know. Are you prude?
@Dinotracks nah if you're just going to insult me then I'm done here.
@ShaunaM95 one person is plenty for damn near any female.. and yes, i know im right.
@Dinotracks if you have 5 women, you literally can't treat them like A queen.. there is always just ONE queen and hella princesses... Shauna has a point.
she lost that point though when she said "one is good for me" referred back to female natural ways...
well in this era anyway.
@Tdieseler That's a horrible point. And you're both assuming way, way too much. First of all how much time do you really need with another person to get satisfied with them? Four maybe five hours a week tops. Secondly demanding the world from one person is pure romantic, blue pilled nonsense teenage fantasy (stamp approved by your parents.)
You go to different restaurants for breakfast, lunch and dinner correct? Or at least when you can afford to you go to a different place. They each have what is appropriate for you at that time. The same applies to people and sex.
@Dinotracks darling we... hold on... IM not saying YOU aren't satisfied.. im saying that those 5 women aren't. at least not all of them. Women are greedy by nature... known fact. im just telling you the truth. Shauna still has a point..
imagine each of those women taking shauna's point... wants you to treat them "right"... one of those points is for you not to be banging another woman.
You can't satisfy all mate... trust me.
@Tdieseler Again assumptions galore. maybe YOU can't satisfy women, but don't label other men with your insecurities. I too was raised to believe nonsense from scaredycat adults regarding sex. You have an ideal in your head that doesn't fit how you go about life - as in you desire a diverse number of products and goods, yet suddenly with sex there is the "one true love" out there for you. As long as I'm getting my end of the bargain with my women who cares what they do in their spare time? They keep coming back that's all that matters. Be a man.
Im gonna do three things...@Dinotracks
first off.. im pretty sure in my satisfaction ratio...
secondly.. like a Selfish man, you only care bout yourself (dont get me wrong, im with you on that but come on, put out a lil)
thirdly, im flirting (sorta) with Shauna here... so butt out lol.