Whens the earliest in a relationship you've told someone you loved them or someone told you they loved you? Was it too early?
When's too early to tell someone you love them?
Uh. Literally the day I got together with them to be honest. We both just said it. I just kind of dropped my guard and got upset and I think it prompted him to say something.
Which, saying that on here with nobody having any context at all, doesn't sound that great. But in my defense, either of us getting upset is rare as hell. So we both knew we were being honest.
We had also been friends some time and I had asked if he wanted to be in a semi open relationship / not official. I sat on it for... I think half a week, before I realised the implications of it and decided I wasn't comfortable with an open relationship. And that was now 3 years ago.
I prefer to show love with actions and also receive love with actions other than that. I'm the type that could literally just accept hearing it one time and then never again as long I could always tell.
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When you know that you don't really love them and your only in love. Love is an action and not just an emotion. Too fast would be less than 6 months and you aren't prepared to be with them on a far more deeper level than just emotions. It's not physical. If it's too physical then it isn't love but lust.
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I have only ever loved one guy and we started saying I love you about 5 months into it.
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There's no time that is too early if you feel that way! Don't hesitate, or the perso may move on in life and then its too LATE//
There are a lot more 'too lates'. Than there are 'too earlys.'
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I remember putting a big emphasis on waiting an appropriate amount of time before telling him I loved him, even though I knew it very early into the relationship. There's no too early. When you know, you know.
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I've told someone a few weeks in and I really regretted it. I definitely don't think that what I had was love. I felt pressure to tell him back after he told me and it caused things to move faster than I would've liked.
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For me, I would rather show love through actions not words. I feel like saying "I love you" is too sappy and not truthful. Being a good girlfriend or boyfriend is a much better way to say I love you.
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I'm a shy teen, and the earliest I've heard a guy say 'I love you' was a couple months after the first day of school and we had never gone on dates. I haven't even opened myself to him yet! It caught me off guard and I was very confused, ha. So if I'm not myself when you're around, then it's way too early.
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at the first date, remember ted, tho he end up with the girl but still
i dont need to tell my hand i love her, i show it and she knows^^ -
He told me after a month or two. I told him after five. We had known each other prior to dating officially though.
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If you haven't heard them poop, it's too early. Literally, when you know their crap parts and still like them; it's love.
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I don't think there's a right time so much as there are many wrong times.
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dont be too early, know him more and allow him to know you more. allow more time to make him like u more so then u can confess.
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We said ;I love you' after the second day dating, but we had history so it was a long time coming.
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3 months into just talking (not bf/gf). I think it was way too early just because we aren't even official
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After a short time of knowing me he said he loves me
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The earliest I've received an "I love you" was after two weeks of dating.
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Earliest propably when you move together.
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too early might be one month?
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It depends on the other person.
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Definitely not on day 2.
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when you are not sure about your feelings
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