My girlfriends drinks every weekend and ruins the night?

[Sparkz76]

My girlfriend drinks at home on weekends only not alcoholic but she only needs a few and she is out of it we have children together and our time together is precious but she drinks on weekends and goes to bed early. Don't get my wrong I want her to let her hair done but this is really hurting me I have tried reasoning with her but she says I'm just moaning 4 years we have been together and I don't want to give up on our relationship but she is making me miserable and it's having a negative affect on me.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Look man, you tried talking to her but she seems not to care about how you feel about it. In your position it's really hard because kids are involved in the picture and you just can't abandon her like that.

Trust me I know what is like living with a drunk even though your girlfriend only drinks on the weekends, try pleading with her again that she should tone it down just a bit with the drinking because its really having a toxic impact on you.

[NyomiMcClinton]

Yeah that sounds like it can be negative to be around. But what about it that is making you miserable. Is it the fact that she is not showing you any attention or not getting anything done around the house?

[Sparkz76]

It's having to carry her up to bed is it solely my responsibility to put our children to bed because she is wasted every weekend. It makes me feel she doesn't care about my feelings that much

[doctordeath]

How is her drinking and taking it easy on weekend hurting you.

[Sparkz76]

Because she gets completely drunk where she can't stand and then abuses me then goes to bed at 8pm this is not quality time together

[doctordeath]

How does she abuse you and is she abusive to the kids?