When a girl parties every weekend. Turn off?

[Amanderz]

Is it bad for a girl to go out every weekend? And drink with her friends and just have a good time. I don't understand why people always have a bad impression on girls who go out a lot. Why?

[billy420]

Dudes do it so why not you, it's just the media I blame like in movies the girl that's gets really drunk is a slut. It's barely like that in real life. Go out and have fun, fuc restrictions on my life for the sake of not having fun or upholding some kind facade not to be labelled. Of course if your actions s hurt someone try and change your ways but from my point of view your having fun... who says you can't?

[GamerArtNerd]

I personally find it a turnoff. I don't know I'm not saying I'd hate a girl for doing it but I just feel like I'd have to do entirely too much to keep her from getting bored of me since she's always out partying with a million different people while drinking etc. I guess I'd just like being the one who makes her happy to the point where she doesn't need to go out and party all the time.

[jackyct]

Yeah I noticed back in my party times how much off a turn off this is for guys. Literally no guy would see a partygirl as gf material. I was pretty big party animal before I met my fiancé. I did quit that completely in our relationship

[molan]

Girl who go out every weekend is usually young (let's say less than 28, just to guess a number), "people" are usually older and know how superficial and insignificant that phase is, hence the "bad impression" being oh is she still in that childish phase.
And it is a childish, it just an adult way of playing with your playmates, replacing the toy with a bottle.

PS: By the way excessive drinking is as dangerous as drugs.

[anon4122]

drinking every weekend is a turn-off even for a male who is just a friend. It lowers brain cell count and is very unhealthy. Also I want friends and a girlfriend who don't have to drink to have fun. So if you want to that's your right but leave me out of it man.

[udkme]

I think every weekend is a little to much. Some may ask "turn down for what?". I say turn down because your a little too turnt up.

In all seriousness I don't trust girls that party a lot because in my past experiences they usually end up finding another guy or just cheat.

[madhatters4]

I don't have anything against a person (male or female) for partying every weekend but I wouldn't really be interested in a partner who felt a compulsion to party every weekend. I'd just hope they could find other things to do

[jointhepatriarchy]

Because those girls tend to hook up with guys a lot more often, and it doesn't take long for them to build up a whole notebook full of guys they've banged.

[Prof_Don]

Is it fair to say that you don't consistently hook up with girls?

To me most of the guys who have a problem with a girl who has a consistent night life... are the types of guys who aren't that successful with girls and feel intimidated by her "experience" (or opportunities of "experience ").

[jointhepatriarchy]

I turned down sex with a chick a few years ago. Later I found out from her aunt she had gonorrhea. It's not the experience we find intimidating, it's the STD's.

[incogn3gro]

it's not bad at all. and a girl like that seems like she'd be extremely fun. i think a social stigma has been created that group women who go out a lot with women who are promiscuous.

[Prof_Don]

I like to be a socialite as well... so I don't have anything against a girl who wants to have a consistent night life.

The guys who would have a problem with said girl, probably do because the feel said types of girls are more likely to cheat.

[DanteSparda]

Because people automatically assume that the person of your age group who parties a lot don't care about his/her future regarding his/her education and financial status.

Hope that helps :)

[JSmuve]

Eh. I just couldn't take that kind of girl seriously. I wouldn't see her as relationship material but I could see her as friends-with-benefits material.

[zocca]

nah go out and have fun, who cares what others think

[Keyspirits]

BIC turn off. They go out to get drunk and fawk around. Those gurls who goes out a lot are automatically be view as slutty gurls.

[Ihav2fart]

Clubbing every single weekend yes turn off.
Social drinking with buddies I don't mind and encourage it.

[Prof_Don]

What if her and her buddies like to socially drink in a club/bar setting?

[Ihav2fart]

Don't care as long as she's coming home to me.

[Anonymous]

It depends on a lot of other factors. But if getting wasted is her main priority then forget it I won't be with a loser like that.

[Cyrus7V2]

Yes turn off

[Amanderz]

Haha , but Y?

[Cyrus7V2]

Partying every weekend is obsessive and add in alcohol and she'll probably do something stupid

[Klaatu51]

it's just ok

[Anonymous]

I'm in college, so... turn on! lol