I've also tried doing spontaneously nice things for him but it makes no difference..
My boyfriend's actions and demeanor have drastically changed!
I've also tried doing spontaneously nice things for him but it makes no difference..
Well first off, fixing a car, buying dinner is no way to judge ones love for another. The small sweet things, little things that don't cost a dime are what counts. Sounds like a few things may be going on. Hey may be having some personal issues that he has yet to clue you in on, yeh? He may simply think "oh I have you and I no longer need to do the small little things to keep you around". Maybe his attraction has faded a bit, all ask this question, has your physique change much since you first started dating till now? Maybe you need to really confront him and have heart to heart, tell him how he has been making you feel lately. The worst relationship is one that lack communication, respect, trust and intimacy...Amongst a few other, but it seems as your is lacking quite a bit here kiddo.
What does he do for a living? Maybe, his job is causing him a lot of stress. Otherwise, his actions don't make any sense. I can understand not trying to please you anymore since he's gotten comfortable with you and thus, he doesn't feel like he needs to impress you. However, the part of not having sex or not cuddling doesn't. Normally, not doing anything sexual points to a possibility of an affair or cheating. Yet, since he doesn't sound like he is doing anything sneaky, he could have a medical condition where his body is not producing a lot of testosterone, eliminating his sexual drive and passion.
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he could be seeing someone else, or he has somehting else on his mind work, family etc sometimes realtionships go through ebbs and flows just a phase, and relationships are not like they were when you started dating things change, level of attention, affection etc...
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