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Should I ask my boyfriend to stop talking to his female friend? (Page 2)
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It's already causing a problem in your relationship, so I'd bring it up or it will just become a bigger problem. But I wouldn't give demands or ultimatums. Just let him know why their friendship makes you uncomfortable.
Depending on your reason, it isn't too much to ask.
What reason is strongest according to you
If the girl likes him would be on top of my list. Or if she is trying to sabotage your relationship.
Yep. I would break up in such a case rather than abandon a true friend.
She's not even that a "true friend"
So what's your real problem?
Long story
I'm all ears and have about 6 hours. If you want real answers, drop a pm with the issue.
NOPE!
She was there before you and expecting him to stop because you have issues is controlling and wrong.
It doesn't matter what or why you don't like her, the issue is YOURS.
Exactly!
Exactly ^2
If a girlfriend can't handle his female friends and wants him to cut them off then it's time to drop her controlling ass because this can't be good at all.
@Unit1 Like is she really pretty and you just don’t like her? Is she goofy and just laughs a lot and you don’t like her? All are dumb reasons and just try getting to know her. Girls Luke these are why girls like me have no girl friends. I hate it! I’ve lost so many friends and once the relationship is over they apologize and I forgive them obviously but it’s annoying. Actually try to get to know the girl you may see she probably has nothing but guy friends and she’s a just cool and laidback af
@YoungandDumb_ woah. You're special and unique :O
I mean its not a backhanded compliment. But i do feel for you lady.
Trust me if you lose friends, that were not in your control to lose or stay, then in reality its not really your loss. You just weed out the fake ones out, so you could pretty much say "thank you for showing me your true colors." It's pretty much their loss after all.
And here i am trying to befriend women.
@Unit1 I don’t lose them exactly but co tact is minimal because of the girlfriend. When I’m exactly as described. Goofy, funny laugh all the time.
@YoungandDumb_ Nice :D i like such women :)
like easy going, funny, caring and lovely 😍
i would like it if she can be serious when she needs to be however.
@Unit1 I am. When me and my current boyfriend discuss things we don’t like I’m serious but otherwise I’m all laughs
@YoungandDumb_ I want a good girl too :/ How do I get one? :/
Definitely. If u trust him and love him let him b. if u don't just break up cause breaking friends will turn u into a crazy girl friend. He will eventually start blaming u and break up.
If you have a really solid, irrefutable reason why she’s a bad influence on him and not someone he should have in his life, then talk to him about it. If you just don’t like her, then no, it’s not your place to ask him to stop talking to her.
I mean I can't give a full fledged opinion without more details. Is she flirty with him? Meh, maybe give her a warning. Does she take him out a lot which distracts him from a lot of stuff? Maybe, depends on how bad it is. If just don't like her for your own reasons? Asking a bit much. There have been friends of both mutual friends and ex-gf's of mine I did not like but you just have to soldier through it unless it *truly* is unbearable.
You need to say why you want her out of his life. The way you phrase it, you don't sound like you have a problem with him having female friends but just this one girl in particular. However, without more detail, you just sound flat out jealous.
I'd just ask. If he says no just respect his thoughts and let him.
It's better to ask than keep quit and eventually lose trust.
I don't think so. I an ex who was really close friends with his previous ex and I asked him to stop talking to her because it was super awkward for me. Which he did stop until we broke up.
No. I hate females like that. They’re probably just really good friends. Are maybe insecure? I’ve lost so many friends over the years because they got into a relationship and even offered to be friends with whoever to make them comfortable. These are people I confide in. Sorry rant over lol
If you trust your boyfriend then let him have friends. You don’t have to like her, she isn’t your friend.
You can tell him how you feel about it, but, you can not tell him what he can and can't do. This would be the sign of a controlling girlfriend, which is often grounds for dismissal. If you don't like him being friends with this girl, while he's in a relationship, maybe it's time to start finding another bf?
Yeah it is too much to ask. You come across as controlling and insecure. ( I'm not saying you are - with the limited info that's what it seems like)
You can tell him your concerns, but in the end it is his decision which friends to keep and you'd be straining your relationship by pushing the issue.
You could also stop dating him, look for a guy without female bffs and feel comfortable in your relationship.
It's better to just leave it alone. Voice your concern but don't expect him to stop being friends with her.
Do you have any male friends? Would you be willing to end those relationships?
If he tells me to
Then i guess you can ask. But be careful with it. I know I'd likely leave a relationship if my partner didn't trust me enough with my female friend. But then again maybe my situation is more unique than the usual circumstances. Just be honest with him but don't let him get the impression that you have trust issues
I trust him but I just don't like the girl
Out of curiosity what if he didn't like a long time female friend of yours? Would you terminate that friendship if he didn't like her?
If he put a convincing argument
And that's what it comes down to. Having good enough reason and communication.
No. That's horrible. It will ruin the relationship. He has a right to talk to whoever he wants. Just think of how YOU would feel if he told you to stop talking to yiur male friendd