The number does but to a greater extent, the context of her past sexual encounters matters more. 1 or 2 one night stands at 18 isn't a deal breaker. A long history of fuck buddies and one night stands is. Big time. If a woman was 30 and had been with 12 men and they were all LRT it would not be an issue.
Well it is hard for me to decide... I’m 23 year old virgin and I highly doubt I will meet a man who is still a virgin. On one hand a guy who haves had plenty of partners in the past, will be experienced in sex. On the other hand it will be that I wouldn’t know a thing about the ladies he slept with. I’m kinda stuck on this question.
I don't care about the past so long as I know she's with me now and trustworthy.
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I think it's silly to think it should make a difference really and probably a bit of a lose situation having that conversation some people can be experiment when older and just want to settle down, some people stay the same and still sleep around but think it's harsh to judge them on their past
It would but it's something I'd be curious to know but at the same time would possibly hurt to know, all depends on what she says I think the safest thing would be to not give into the curiosity and just not ask, its safer this way
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Yes, it does. I don't want a man who sleeps around or that cannot/ does not want to reveal his sexual past = man who sleeps around. Not to mention a lot of other stuff that he eventually would expect me to do.
Depends. I'm happy with her being experienced, she'll know all the tricks. However, if she's ridden every Tom Dick and Harry then there's a risk of infection if she's not taken the necessary precautions.
Sometimes it does, because if a girl had a lot of flings or cheated to her partners you can't trust her. The most important thing for me for a relationship is communication and how I feel about her so I could tolerate a crazy past if i loved her. But to be completely honest I always want to have more experience or more sexual partners than the woman I date/ have a relationship with.
Yes. If he had a few previous relationships and they were also serious I would say that's ok with me But if he's a hook up guy who has slept with a lot of girls I would say he's not my type of guy
It didn't before then I got married to a girl whose number was very high and she started dating someone else less than 2 weeks after she had to move to a different place than me and couldn't get fucked anymore so in the future I may be more cautious.
Only matters for the fact when unprotected sex comes into play. Gotta make sure they don’t have any STDS and that becomes more likely with more partners
It don't make a difference to me, I think the best thing to do when seeing a new partner (monogamously) is that you both get a general check for STIs and STDs, just to know if both are safe to start into a sexual relationship.
It shouldn't but it bothers me sometimes. I think it's only because I get jealous about it but what am I gonna do? It has nothing to do with me because it happened before I met him. As long as he didn't get any stds from that then it doesn't matter
I do care. I wanna know who am I dating. Not saying that I judge them immediatly just because they had more partners than I did but I'm not ignoring it either.
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The number does but to a greater extent, the context of her past sexual encounters matters more. 1 or 2 one night stands at 18 isn't a deal breaker. A long history of fuck buddies and one night stands is. Big time. If a woman was 30 and had been with 12 men and they were all LRT it would not be an issue.
Well thats a nice summary. I fully agree
Well it is hard for me to decide... I’m 23 year old virgin and I highly doubt I will meet a man who is still a virgin. On one hand a guy who haves had plenty of partners in the past, will be experienced in sex. On the other hand it will be that I wouldn’t know a thing about the ladies he slept with. I’m kinda stuck on this question.
I don't care about the past so long as I know she's with me now and trustworthy.
I think it's silly to think it should make a difference really and probably a bit of a lose situation having that conversation some people can be experiment when older and just want to settle down, some people stay the same and still sleep around but think it's harsh to judge them on their past
I am saving myself for my husband and it is my expectation that he is doing the same for me. It's a standard that I am unwilling to overlook.
I want to be able to look in the mirror and see my husband's entire sexual history.
Nice. Seeing girls like you from the West is interesting.
It would but it's something I'd be curious to know but at the same time would possibly hurt to know, all depends on what she says
I think the safest thing would be to not give into the curiosity and just not ask, its safer this way
Yes, it does.
I don't want a man who sleeps around or that cannot/ does not want to reveal his sexual past = man who sleeps around.
Not to mention a lot of other stuff that he eventually would expect me to do.
Depends. I'm happy with her being experienced, she'll know all the tricks. However, if she's ridden every Tom Dick and Harry then there's a risk of infection if she's not taken the necessary precautions.
Sometimes it does, because if a girl had a lot of flings or cheated to her partners you can't trust her. The most important thing for me for a relationship is communication and how I feel about her so I could tolerate a crazy past if i loved her. But to be completely honest I always want to have more experience or more sexual partners than the woman I date/ have a relationship with.
Yes. If he had a few previous relationships and they were also serious I would say that's ok with me
But if he's a hook up guy who has slept with a lot of girls I would say he's not my type of guy
Says the perfect person
It didn't before then I got married to a girl whose number was very high and she started dating someone else less than 2 weeks after she had to move to a different place than me and couldn't get fucked anymore so in the future I may be more cautious.
Only matters for the fact when unprotected sex comes into play. Gotta make sure they don’t have any STDS and that becomes more likely with more partners
It don't make a difference to me, I think the best thing to do when seeing a new partner (monogamously) is that you both get a general check for STIs and STDs, just to know if both are safe to start into a sexual relationship.
I'm a virgin. I expect no less than virginity from my partner. So yes, it matters a lot. There's gotta be wedding first too so yeah
It shouldn't but it bothers me sometimes. I think it's only because I get jealous about it but what am I gonna do? It has nothing to do with me because it happened before I met him. As long as he didn't get any stds from that then it doesn't matter
Yeah, I tend to be careful with people, so I wanna know if he's serious with me or wants me to become one of his other numbers he fucked
I do care. I wanna know who am I dating. Not saying that I judge them immediatly just because they had more partners than I did but I'm not ignoring it either.
It doesn't make a difference to me because what you did with other girls before me doesn't matter. I just want to know that if you do/dont have an std
Yes it does. I don’t sleep around and I don’t want to date someone who sleeps around
Yes. Sex is a serious business; I take it seriously and I prefer a girl who does too.