My boyfriend & I have been butting heads a lot lately, what should I do?

[Anonymous]

Okay so my boyfriend & I haven’t been hanging out because we’re always canceling plans (something always seems to come up w/ one of us) & we’ve been so distant lately, it seems like we’re arguing all the time & I’m starting to feel like we would be better as just friends but Im not sure if that’s what I really want. I’ve been trying to make things better but it feels like it’s worse. don’t want to hurt his feelings , & I don’t want to make a mistake & regret it later my heart literally hurts thinking about losing him but I want what’s best for both of us. Opinions?

[Anonymous]

Taking a break is not ideal because usually breaks leads to them seeing other people and do you really want that no just take control your the woman in the relationship men will litterly do nothing we are brain dead when it comes to this. Honestly be straight up with him say hey I think we need to talk in person just talk relationship with him how you can both improve yourselves moving forward if that doesn't work end it No point in trying for something and putting it on hold for a week it just leads in failure

[Asker]

Okay, thanks so much

[coolbreeze]

I suggest taking a break because you should feel happy and loved in a relationship. If a girl wasn't making me happy or we fault a lot then I feel it's not worth the aggravation and stress to try and make thing's work.

[Asker]

😢😢

[coolbreeze]

😳😳😳😳

[coolbreeze]

Everything will be ok. In the end do what you feel is best. You seem nice and you deserve to be happy in the end. Relationships are always tough and take a lot of compromise.

[Stevenscotte]

... hard one, I would find someone that held up plans

[Asker]

Yeah.. but it’s kind of both of our faults right now..

[Asker]

But yeah he literally agrees to hang out sometimes & then doesn’t answer his phone until the next day& then has some excuse

[Stevenscotte]

Probably talking to someone else then in my opinion, maybe using as an accuse

[Anonymous]

Pick your battles. Basically, if you're arguing over who took the last cookie, it means, you need to check yourself at the door

[Asker]

Lol yeah.. definitely not that petty haha