LDR girlfriend is pregnant?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend is pregnant. I am in singapore and she is in australia. The closest time that we can close the distance is in 3 years. What should we do?

[Héll_scréam]

Give birth to baby if you can get closer in 9 months or less than that otherwise obersion

[thomascale18]

You sound like you know what to do but you're hoping someone will tell it to you instead.

[Asker]

Im not sure. Im not gonna ask her for an abortion. I'm a muslim. If my parents find out, im dead

[potatoisme]

Try and be together sooner. Either u go there or she has to come to u.

[Asker]

Visa issue. I can't get a work visa for the UK

[potatoisme]

Haven't you considered marriage visa?

[Asker]

She is 18 and not working. She needs to earn £18000 a year for me to get the visa. Im the one working

[potatoisme]

😐
All you can do is wait 3 years. She gives birth alone and her family help her take after the baby. And u can visit from time to time
It's what my parents did (for 10 years tho)

[Asker]

Abortion?

[potatoisme]

I would say a big no to abortion. It's still not some thing I can decide, that's between you and her. But for me abortion is a big no. U wouldn't wanna kill an innocent soul

[Asker]

Thank you

[bubblyme64]

Soooo... she cheated on you? Lol

[Asker]

Nah. We were together for a month physically. Went our separate ways last week and she is pregnant now

[bubblyme64]

Congrats? Lol

[Anonymous]

LDR.. So just how did this happen then?

[Asker]

Travelling... she is British and im Asian. Met in london