She just told me she is 3months along with child while we started dating less than a month ago, she broke up with her ex 2months ago.
As we were about to have sex together, she stops me and tells me this, she wants to keep it and states she's afraid ill leave her now...
To be honest, yes; I do want to leave her, but not on a bad note. I want to help her out with this situation yet not be responsible with this child's birth, because of the fact that its not mine.
I just turned 20 while my girlfriend is turning 21, I am in university while she is working full time.
I am unable to help her financially due to my own expenses but am willing to do just about anything to get her through the birthing process.
My actually question is...
What would you do in my situation and how should I go about handling this as a whole.
note: I do want to end my relationship with her as I am not ready to take care of any kid but I will stay as a friend only, to help her out.
Don't think of me as shallow for leaving her, It's just the way I feel about this all, I'm a respected guy who no one sees as "knocking up" a girl out of marriage, yet I do feel selfish for thinking this...
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I say get out of that situation. She obviously is looking for support, whether its a friend, boyfriend, etc. This is her & HER EX problem, she was the SELFISH one for bring you along into it. Its going to be more headache then pleasure, she needs to take care of her own business. Sure you can be a friend to her, if you really want to be, but she got herself into this..you can't feel bad for that. Don't feel selfish please. Best Wishes!2