As we were about to have sex together, she stops me and tells me this, she wants to keep it and states she's afraid ill leave her now...
To be honest, yes; I do want to leave her, but not on a bad note. I want to help her out with this situation yet not be responsible with this child's birth, because of the fact that its not mine.
I just turned 20 while my girlfriend is turning 21, I am in university while she is working full time.
I am unable to help her financially due to my own expenses but am willing to do just about anything to get her through the birthing process.
My actually question is...
What would you do in my situation and how should I go about handling this as a whole.
note: I do want to end my relationship with her as I am not ready to take care of any kid but I will stay as a friend only, to help her out.
Don't think of me as shallow for leaving her, It's just the way I feel about this all, I'm a respected guy who no one sees as "knocking up" a girl out of marriage, yet I do feel selfish for thinking this...
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