You've cheated on her with a prostitute when you had a fight? well how could she ever know you won't do that again when you get in a fight again. I'm a girl and if I was in her shoes I don't know how if can ever trust again. I'm in the same situation as your girl. I'm religious and so not allowed to have a relation with men. I'm in a long distance relationship also for like 4 months but only my boyfriend did not, I hope, cheat on me or at least I he hasn't told me. I really think its terrible what you did, a prostitute most of all! I would have found it a little less terrible if it was a one night stand with a random girl, the idea of a prostitute repulses me and would completely put me off any guy. You do have a thumbs up for being this honest however. Now if you are really sorry and all don't give up. Go visit her, show her that she can trust you, let her know everything you do, give her anything she needs to gain your trust again, give her your passwords if she wants, tell her everyone you know, go see her, introduce her to your friends and family and most importantly give it time, be consistent. It will be hard work but if she still wants to be even friends with you its a good start. You need to start all over and really appreciate what you have this time, don't take a risk again and really understand that a fight is not a reason to cheat no matter what. Put yourself in her shoes always, even though she's religious and all, but even flirting and kissing can be considered cheating, what if she did that? would you ever forgive her? I hope I was useful, good luck:)
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I don't know what tempted you to cheat on her with a prostitute, but I seriously doubt you can mend it from here.
Despite your being truthful, I think it would really create a living hell for her because she would be insecure at all times and question you. On this basis, she would probably be very unstable and have no faith in you, which spells doom for your relationship.
This analysis is just based off my pessimistic point of view.
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