Be patient and go easy on him. He's confusing as fuck, but there's a reason for that. Overall, he's got a good heart, so hold on to him. That guy is gold!!
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When you haven't heard from her for 4 days it doesn't mean she's ghosting you. She just has no concept whatsoever of what constitutes "communication" (unless it's one of her girl friends telling her she's just eaten a carrot... in which case the conversation can go in for hours...). You either accept being so unimportant you have to remind her she has a boyfriend, or do what I did. End it by text and see how long it takes for her to notice 😁😁😁😁
My last ex was amazing. I would tell her to treat him right and to never betray his trust. To comfort him and always have his back since his own family doesn’t even have his back. To always be honest with him because that’s something he values a lot.
He was too immature and dumb for me but time has passed and we both learned a lot from our relationship together and I hope that he treats you much better than he did me. I hope you two are right for each other and are happy.
If u want someone very caring and warm don't leave her she is a priceless gem u have got she is very sensitive so be careful with ur actions and be loyal to her coz she will be nothing but loyal to u don't miss a opportunity of a lifetime.
He's sweet and loving but it'll become obsessive and he'll rule over you and your life. If you find a way to stop him from controlling you and destroying everything you used to be, well done. I hope you're both happy together
Lol don’t bother. He was a manipulative, cynical tool that projects a lot and was too emotional for his own good (fyi be a little sus when a guy texts in full on paragraphs. They are thinking about every word 😂)
I wouldn't really give them advice so much as I'd threaten to cave their skull in if they hurt him like I have down the line. I'm not in love with him anymore but he's still my best friend and I care a lot about him.
None. Its none of my business and my past relationship shouldn't taint theirs. Unless I thought he would hurt or abuse her in some way, I would wish them well.
My ex boyfriend to shy to open up and he the one that broke up with me in first place. I would set him to shy girl. One my ex friends didn't listen to me about ex best friend he was a bad boy. I warn her but she didn't listen.
She's a sexually molested alcoholic, good luck. Oh and very manipulative, careful she doesn't get you to hit her. Cause she's into drug addicts, which means you're probably on heroin, meth, crack or alcohol.
No dumb ass. She tried to get me to hit her. Jumping to assumptions. She tried to set me up. Admitted to trying during the last three years of our marriage to doing so.
Ohhh, the way you made it sound "Careful she doesn't get you to hit her", makes it sound like you hit her. No need for name calling, sorry about the mistake.
Oh I understand completely-- many friends and family friends have to deal with crazy ex-SO's and crazy CURRENT SO's. My fathers long-time best friend once dated a woman who, after he tried to dump her, she threw all of HIS stuff onto HIS lawn (she was homeless and he had let her move in after numerous evictions on her part) and then set fire to the stuff. And to his house. Such a bitchy thing to do, too, (referencing your ex), especially as its illegal... I would honestly take her to court, if I was in your position.
Good fucking luck. If it's (R) he's a drug addict and completely insane when he's on meth. He's violent all the time. He can't keep his dick in his pant either. If it's (j) OMG. Don't!! You can't even shower without him threating suicide because you won't talk to him..
Id honestly say " when something feels to good to be true, it usually is." Although I wouldn't blame her for not listening. He's so good at it, i think he fools even himself.
I would never take an ex’s word for it. You never know why they’re telling you that. Plus, even if it’s a mistake for his to date someone... people need to make their own mistakes
you simple do not. if its your ex then your best bet is to leave them alone. seriously. besides that your assuming your ex is just a bad person. when their actions in the relationship could have been provoked by you.
Unless they physically abused you or cheated on you, I would not say anything. You would not want to ruin his chances with someone else. He or she might click better than you did with them.
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Be patient and go easy on him. He's confusing as fuck, but there's a reason for that.
Overall, he's got a good heart, so hold on to him.
That guy is gold!!
When you haven't heard from her for 4 days it doesn't mean she's ghosting you. She just has no concept whatsoever of what constitutes "communication" (unless it's one of her girl friends telling her she's just eaten a carrot... in which case the conversation can go in for hours...). You either accept being so unimportant you have to remind her she has a boyfriend, or do what I did. End it by text and see how long it takes for her to notice 😁😁😁😁
My last ex was amazing. I would tell her to treat him right and to never betray his trust. To comfort him and always have his back since his own family doesn’t even have his back. To always be honest with him because that’s something he values a lot.
He was too immature and dumb for me but time has passed and we both learned a lot from our relationship together and I hope that he treats you much better than he did me. I hope you two are right for each other and are happy.
Treat she well... And do everything for her... She deserves your best ^^
(she is a awesome girl xP but we had different wishes for the future)
If you want to get rid of her in the future, just DON'T RUN. She's like a T-Rex if you don't move she'll leave on her own!!!
If u want someone very caring and warm don't leave her she is a priceless gem u have got she is very sensitive so be careful with ur actions and be loyal to her coz she will be nothing but loyal to u don't miss a opportunity of a lifetime.
Stay calm
Try to understand her and the situation
Don't try or ask her to change
Last but not the least don't even think about hurting her
He's sweet and loving but it'll become obsessive and he'll rule over you and your life. If you find a way to stop him from controlling you and destroying everything you used to be, well done. I hope you're both happy together
Lol don’t bother. He was a manipulative, cynical tool that projects a lot and was too emotional for his own good (fyi be a little sus when a guy texts in full on paragraphs. They are thinking about every word 😂)
I wouldn't really give them advice so much as I'd threaten to cave their skull in if they hurt him like I have down the line. I'm not in love with him anymore but he's still my best friend and I care a lot about him.
None. Its none of my business and my past relationship shouldn't taint theirs. Unless I thought he would hurt or abuse her in some way, I would wish them well.
My ex boyfriend to shy to open up and he the one that broke up with me in first place. I would set him to shy girl. One my ex friends didn't listen to me about ex best friend he was a bad boy. I warn her but she didn't listen.
She's a sexually molested alcoholic, good luck. Oh and very manipulative, careful she doesn't get you to hit her. Cause she's into drug addicts, which means you're probably on heroin, meth, crack or alcohol.
You hit a woman and then blamed it on her? Jeez.
No dumb ass. She tried to get me to hit her. Jumping to assumptions. She tried to set me up. Admitted to trying during the last three years of our marriage to doing so.
Ohhh, the way you made it sound "Careful she doesn't get you to hit her", makes it sound like you hit her. No need for name calling, sorry about the mistake.
I apologize. It triggered me. Yeah it was difficult dealing with someone, you didn't know was trying to get you to hit her. Sorry for that.
Oh I understand completely-- many friends and family friends have to deal with crazy ex-SO's and crazy CURRENT SO's.
My fathers long-time best friend once dated a woman who, after he tried to dump her, she threw all of HIS stuff onto HIS lawn (she was homeless and he had let her move in after numerous evictions on her part) and then set fire to the stuff. And to his house.
Such a bitchy thing to do, too, (referencing your ex), especially as its illegal... I would honestly take her to court, if I was in your position.
Good fucking luck.
If it's (R) he's a drug addict and completely insane when he's on meth. He's violent all the time. He can't keep his dick in his pant either.
If it's (j) OMG. Don't!! You can't even shower without him threating suicide because you won't talk to him..
You should find normal men :p
@manpower61 right!
Don't go down on her unless you want to taste another dick from the night before.
Id honestly say " when something feels to good to be true, it usually is." Although I wouldn't blame her for not listening. He's so good at it, i think he fools even himself.
I would never take an ex’s word for it. You never know why they’re telling you that. Plus, even if it’s a mistake for his to date someone... people need to make their own mistakes
you simple do not. if its your ex then your best bet is to leave them alone. seriously. besides that your assuming your ex is just a bad person. when their actions in the relationship could have been provoked by you.
Unless they physically abused you or cheated on you, I would not say anything. You would not want to ruin his chances with someone else. He or she might click better than you did with them.