What advice would you give the next person dating your ex? (Page 2)

[pomoprincess]

(Patience and u gotta be a very strong minded secure woman because he's gona break u down) shoot that's what if be thinking in my head but I'd be like high fiving her cuz he ain't my problem no more he's hers

[busterpark1234]

Way too kind for seeking to give advice. I feel like it could be jst really diffeŕent experience from what you had cuz compatibility can be different.

[chadi3269]

Give her a yellow photographing camera that i was planning to give her on her next birthday. That was what she wanted and thought i didn't know

[DizzyDesii]

Be a goofy, smoking, cheating sex addict if you want to be his perfect match

[CrashDF]

Sounds like you date the bad boys... maybe date one of the 70% of the regular guys? Oh that's right they are boring. You want the goofy, smoking, cheating sex addicts.

[DizzyDesii]

@CrashDF um actually u asshole, i was 15 when i thought i was dating a “boring” sweet guy. He turned out to be opposite and he's my only ex. I am now dating my 2nd boyfriend, a total sweetheart. Dont be so quick to judge me. Im not like girls who prob rejected u in the past

[CrashDF]

That's just it I wasn't rejected... I'm angry at how I've seen dozens of women act around me. I'm sick of their cheating on their husbands who are my friends. I'm sick how they tell us what their standards are or laugh when we haven't slept with at least 20 women. I think if you could stand next to me and see these women who are from all walks of life you'd be a bit shocked or you just don't have that many women friends. Or your trying to beat my argument by not being honest with how your girlfriends treat the men in their lives. Or you've gotten extremely lucky in life and meet awesome people if that's the case you hit the jackpot.

[DizzyDesii]

@CrashDF to be honest, i have more friend boys than girls. But yes i have this 1 friend girl who did all her bfs wrong... one was our best guy friend whom she cheated on and i couldnt stand witnessing that. she's annoyed that he's moved on and doesn't think twice about her but whenever they get around eachother they both flirt with eachother as if theyre not taken by someone. Sucks to see. And a lot of my guybfriends were no better. They’d brag about how many girls they were secretly bangin at the same time. Me and one of my other friends were the only ones not trying to become players/cheaters (but i instead got cheated on and she has been single forever and is 25 now). Anyways, i think its gross for people to sleep with so many people (regardless of their gender). For me, my ex was a mistake who pressured me. He pretended to want to wait til marriage long enough to pressure naive me into doing things. So aside from that mistake, only my true future husband will be the guy i have sex with.

[CrashDF]

Thanks for sharing your story and sorry for my negative assumption, I have such a bad view on women right now. Watching girls I enjoyed being friends with and respected divorce their husband last month has not made me very friendly. I was out with these girls at a pub a few years back and they were laughing about short guys with small "hands" talked about men having to be alpha.. around 16 of them. The two guys I was with were humiliated but I got to thinking both had awesome women at home.

You know the Facebook feed thing that shows the profile pick of the couple next to one another, we'll the girl who laughed the loudest about men needing to be tall and muscular has divorced her husband now with a bartender flexing in front of the gym mirror as his facebook profile pick. I feel so bad for her ex husband 3 kids now to support and all his friends just got that message. If only I had warned him 3 years ago maybe he'd of not of married her. This happens so often now

[DizzyDesii]

@CrashDF i got cheated on so easily because i never had social media (and still dont, too muh drama). But why do u think u haven't met the right girl yet?

[CrashDF]

I am meeting women, really gorgeous with good careers too. I'm just extremely worried that if I ever become "boring" are they going to do to me what apparently I'm seeing women doing to their other men in their lives. I enjoy working out and will do it for life, so I'll never run into the whole not looking alpha crap. I was a kick boxer so I'm nearly 100% confident in my ability to beat 95%+ of other guys out there. It shouldn't be this way, I shouldn't have to be "alpha" why can't I just be a husband. Why do I always need to lead why can't she lead sometimes and be happy? I got a good degree, got a great career, I'm one of the top workers in every office I've been in. I've seen how the women in my life dated and all my female friends, acquaintances. It's all about the alpha male it makes me sick, I had an alpha male father I haven't talked to him in 20+ years. I love my mother but will always hate her for choosing an alpha as my father, I could crush him and every guy like him.

[DizzyDesii]

@CrashDF lol what country are u in? I never hear anything “alpha” unless its the body builders on GAG. But im not into a supermuscular body cause it can sometimes be scary. I prefer toned arms and tummy but not enough to have abs or veins popping out. And thats good that u have options :) sounds like u have a good head on ur shoulders too. I think everyone who isn't the conceited type fear they’ll bore their partner. I worry on occasion but he always reminds me that im the one he wants. Its sad but it took 7 years to find the one. My ex was a shitstorm, and anyone afer him was a “potential boyfriend” (meaning we talked as if we were about to date but never got around to it because red flags appeared).

[CrashDF]

haha, sorry about you getting cheated on and your ex being a s storm=\

I'm happy you found someone! I want that so badly I can't even put it into words I'm just so worried lately and feel so undervalued.

I live in Canada... yes I can't tell you how many times women have talked to me about wanting the alpha males or expressing extreme standards of what a man should be. Tall, Muscular, big d etc. Like the 30 year old in my office that nits the sweet girl says to me in the lunch room be more alpha and starts giving me advice about that crap. I'm like f... k, your 30-40 pounds overweight would never have a chance with me what are you saying. Is this just Canadian women that are so entitled that they feel they can tell a man what he should be or that he should be 6 feet? I am 6 feet but it's an insult that they even have that standard and it's a regular one! I'm not talking about 1 or 2 or 10 girls I'm talking about dozens whats going on?

[DizzyDesii]

@CrashDF wow but im sure the majority of those girls look like spoiled princesses or the typical “All-American girl” cause I don't know many girls who are minority or insecure that would be this picky

[CrashDF]

Maybe I should move to where you live ;)

Thanks for sharing your story and opinion, I do feel better.

[DizzyDesii]

@CrashDF lol thanks for listening and viewing me differently than before :)

[Nineball_Seraph]

Have patience, learn fast and build your mental fortitude. It's gonna be a rough ride but you'll find no one more loyal and caring.

[Gewoondoenbruh]

It is your ex. I shouldn't give the person who is dating your ex 'advice'.

[Political_dude]

My girl isn't ever going to be my Ex so no advice from my side to an imaginary person. :)

[HungLikeAHorsefly]

She's uber crazy but she's also a degenerate whore in the bedroom so it kinda evens out

[Anonymous]

This is an actual text that I send to her.

“Hey Ally. Please take care of him. And love him. Because he deserves someone like you. I screwed up and broke his heart. So please love him.”

[justjoshky]

Unless was a close friend of mine probably won't say anything. It would depend on the status of the relationship of cause break up and all that

[angeldarling]

He's not worth the time or energy, he won't change and he hasn't because just the other day he hit me up wanting to get together.

[inlovewiththesun]

"I hope you´re okay with him smoking and dealing with a ton of weed"

[AlphaStyles]

Me to him

Love her because I failed too

[GymRocker33]

Record every conversation and take detailed notes so that later when she twists your words and tries to ass fuck you with them, you’ve got hard evidence on your side

[Dxk007]

Thanks for claiming my trash. Hopefully, it will come in handy.

[red_knight]

I'd wish them the best.. I'd honestly be sad since I find it extremely difficult to adjust to changes or deal with break ups even if I did the breaking up

[Luke1998]

I can relate 🎩

[red_knight]

@Luke1998 there's power in truth.. Never be ashamed of your choices/struggle

[l33tboot3r]

Be open with her. She'll be there for you no matter what.

[Dos_santos]

I will told him the person who betrays for you , for sure she will betrays you for others.

[ashesareforurns]

She has trust issues so just give her time if you can.

[snowangle]

Stay assertive. Don't let him even try walking all over you.

[Tiyaa]

Have fun with a childish manipulating ass who only wants yo body!

[Areta]

I'd tell her how disgusting and that he's a total asshole

[Comesaveme]

Watch out, he will abandon you any minute and decide to never speak to you again.

[john9631]

if she can do it with... she is definitely doing it to you. ( open to interpretation)

[Marrry]

If you can cope with his selfishness and his obsession for work then go for it

[Goochbreaker]

None, if they did it after you told em not to turn your back on them. They won't listen to you until they get burned.

[iNsaneMilesy]

Don't, she will drain and make you want to kill yourself. Avoid narcissistic sociopaths.

[BipBipLeddus]

"he isn't really into you. He just wants your mom's bitchin' chinese food"

[KaylaV]

Be patient and open, if you're afraid to speak your mind it just won't work...

[MMarina]

"Leave while you can." Oops. Too late! She's pregnant :/

[Anonymous]

I dated a guy who was still hung up on his ex. So, the advice I'd give to the next person dating my ex would be:

Don't waste your time; he's still not over his previous ex.

[SarahsSummer]

Not really your business anymore. Focus on your own life. Why would you even do that?

[UltimateGohan]

Warning mutual funds and my ex are subject to market risks Proceed with caution

[SmoMan71]

Just get her pregnant, that’s all she is looking for.

[IMainHanzo]

You don't give advise to the next person because your experience will be different from hers. It's condescending to act like she wouldn't know how to tie her own shoe laces.

[DamnMan]

Who are you to do that?
One persons ex is another's spouse.
I'd give them no advise.
I'd more give my ex advise how to not be an ass, but then again, someone else might like that. lol

[GodHatesKaitlin]

Don't trust her. She lies to get her way. She lies constantly in general.

[ScarletAngelic]

Basically make sure you both have the same future goals at heart, or it's not going to work out.

[Anonymous]

set out your expectations clearly and let him know from the start you won't tolerate his shit. Or it just will get worse and worse till its just outta hand.

[Hai_tis_E]

No means no. 5000 second chances are too many. Don’t believe anything he says.

[Anonymous]

Don’t get married or pregnant. She’ll leave you with your baby and then make your life a living hell.

[Flankz]

Just don't. But if you do check up on her because she is gonna cheat your ass a lot. Oh and she's gonna make you pay her debts 👌

[britpop]

Haha run nah I wouldn't give any advice different relationship and none of my business good luck to them

[SgtStraf]

This is the most adult comment I've seen in this thread. Good job! 😊

[britpop]

thanks first time I've ever been accused of being a adult thanks

[heavygear40k]

She's a much better person than I and that's why it didn't work. Treat her right and she'll be your best friend.

[WiggleWasser]

"When you're fucking her, suck on her nipple, then reach down and rub her clit all at the same time. She will orgasm immediately."

[hasrett]

You should go see a psychiatrist because you're dating a person that doesn't exist.

[Anonymous]

That she's capable of being a good woman, but it isn't at the moment. Smash but don't get attached if you want to remain happy.

[zelly88]

I wouldn’t give any advice cause idgaf about them 🤣

[Daretoask]

Watch out for her friends they're not real ones and will try to backstab her so she come to you and share the pain a lot. I hope you can deal with someone that has very paradox opinions and acts like a princess

[KhanhLinh]

I really don’t know what to say to that poor girl. Just hope she’s not as hurt as me

[Anonymous]

Don't bother, he's a liar and his dick is awkward, too long and half dead. He's so delusional he thought he was doing a great job, this is why I left.

[cth96190]

Keep her away ftom knives and do not unlock her door at night during a full Moon. 😳

[Swifteeeyyy]

If you're okay with having your relationship out in the open, go right ahead

[MrMAC777]

She's not as sweet and innocent as she'll have you believe... wait and see!

[Tron5678]

If he/she are your ex then you have no business to give any advice period.

[kaskas19]

Don't believe everything he tells you, he's a compulsive liar and does anything for attention.

[Teal_01]

Beware of snakes child, you never know where the next ones going to be.

[SirHac]

She giggles when you kiss her she is selfish and also don't wait longer than 3 days to take her on another date

[WhoDatGuy]

Flip the situation. Would youwant your new partners ex coming up to you saying bad things about your new love?

[Hmg1204]

He'll use you just like every other girl he's dated. Find yourself a man that is actually worthy of your beauty.