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I tried warning the girl, she didn’t listen l... smh... some women just want a warm body next to them! lol!
Anonymous(30-35)He's got depressive symptomatology, the inclination to blame all of his problems on everyone else and becomes highly anxious and unstable if something doesn't go his way. He's unable to cope with any problems in his life. He also has insomnia but isn't willing to do anything about it.
He's all talk and no action (in the beginning), later stages he'll do nothing but complain about his life. He's a broken record, be prepared to have the same conversation over and over again. He's got bad memory so he doesn't remember the little things about you, or some of the things you told him the day before.
On a positive note, he's very attractive, tall, bilingual (French) he'd move a mountain for you if he loves you. He will treat you very well and be kind.
Make sure you're strong enough to not let it bring you down. You are the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with, sooo it's likely he's going to rub off on you. Are you okay with that?
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I spoke with my boyfriend's ex and she told me what happened between them. I learned both point of views. Basically, they both rushed in and my boyfriend fell out of love.
Although it wasn't a direct advice, it did teach me to calm down and not rush things with him, and be very open with my worries and such.
I'd tell him "I'm scared you fall out of love" and he'd reassure me, telling it was different with me.
With his exes, he'd last a few months. His longest was 4 lmao 😂 with me, it's been wayy over that. Reaching the 2nd year now. 😄
I learned a lot from his ex. She also told me that he's a good guy and deserves to be happy☺️ don't ruin someone elses relationship by giving bad advice. It's not your relationship anymore and it may differ from yours.
- Anonymous(25-29)
Watch out he’s a rapist, he’ll break you and leave you to pick up the pieces, when you call him out on it, try and ask him why he’ll block you, thoughts of suicide become a part of everyday life, eventually you’ll find yourself having meaningless sex with dangerous men to try regain power and control but it won’t stop you feeling empty so you just get high all time to keep him off your mind, to keep it off your mind until you finally go to therapy and realise it was inevitable that it’d happen eventually how could you not see the signs, so you focus on getting better and gradually over time you’re less broken than before but are still missing pieces and the nightmares are still very real, and you still piss the bed sometimes but you’re still here.. and you ask yourself why
I would tell them that sometimes he’s a dick.. but only to be humorous and to take it lightly as he will never insult you, only tease you in a healthy way. He has a difficult time opening up, so when he does, listen closely and be there for him. He may act like he doesn’t need you... but he does. He’s going through a lot and can sometimes get angry easily but just leave him be. If you’re cuddling, let him vent. He’s not the type to hurt you or yell at you when he’s mad, just try not to anger him more. His memory isn’t the best, but that’s from playing too many contact sports. He’ll remember what’s important.
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Go slow, and you don't have to put up with the fighting. And don't be afraid to say "no."
I would imagine that the only ideal guy for her as she was (and probably still is) would have to be some kind of simpering wimp who would never speak out of turn, and do everything for her at the drop of a hat. He would have to be her lapdog. And I don't think that would last long. That, or he would have to be the toughest guy around. Someone who had so MUCH confidence and apathy that he could tell her off easy and just do whatever he wanted. Enough to where he knew all the games and could somehow stop them before they started. Of course, if he had that kind of confidence, he'd probably sense those issues a mile away and would never bother.
Maybe one piece of advice would be to: "Be careful of the friend version verses the dating version. They are two different women."
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Something like this.
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Don't expect her to ever fall in love with you because she is incapable of feeling that towards a partner. (Very sad!)
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In the case if my 1st ex, she's rediculously immature and manipulative; she used to lie to me just to see how I'll react. She's super jealous too; she once saw a message from a "Whitney" on my phone who was in town and wanted to hang out, not realizing that Whitney is an old buddy of mine from college. I had a lot of fun that afternoon, and by that, I mean that I did not. She's married now, so, not my problem anymore.
As for my second; She's OK, but I think she has daddy issues. She lives with her parents, which alone doesn't bother me much. However, She's a freakin' doctor, but somehow her dad treats her and her adult siblings like they were teenagers. Seriously, grow some backbone people! 🚩
The third is a sweet girl; very sensitive, very kind, but she has no grit. None! Additionally, she often exhibited poor judgement. Hopefully she changed since we were together. And some people especially an ex, should mind their own business.
That girl is smart, she knew better than to listen to an ex that for all she knew was trying to make trouble.
Just because you had certain issues with your ex, does not mean he will be the same with the new person he is involved with. Every relationship is different, and it may have not been him. It could have been you, that was the problem in the last relationship.I'm actually trying to get him back at the moment, but if I had to give his next girl advice, it would be this..
Look after him, he's not always as strong as he acts, and he can be the most amazing person if you give him the love he deserves
I'm so heartbroken 💔I would tell them to save their breath and talk to a wall cause that's basically the same thing as talking to my ex.
in all seriousness: understand when enough is enough. Some guys will put you through the same pain over and over again and as much you want to believe that they'll change - they never will. If they don't understand what it means to be mindful of someone else's feelings, then cut your losses and find someone willing to understand you and treat you better.-
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However, lidia, she will tske you flying, drug free' nothing like it' until its your turn and becausse she did for you. Problem being its bipolar with a sexualy pervers spirit blinding you,
Ill be there for him sfyer she eats his kids. But now, i keeo quiet so he can take her far from me-
The pleasure pasc feels now, cam only be measured by the peace i enjoy that she's almost gone for good,
God thank you for pasc, snd protect the kiddsc but pleasr help them tie the knot already- -
I wouldn't forewarn her , or give her any advice at all. . It would just make me appear like a jealous bitch. I'm too busy getting on with my own life to be bothered about interfering in an exes.
He might be everything she's looking for. It's not my place to say anything to her. It's her life , she has to make her own decisions based on her perception of him... not mine. - 968 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
LOL. I could sum up my advice to any guy wanting to date my most recent ex in one word: Don't!
It's not that she's a bad person and as a friend she could be great, but she's just not someone that I think is capable of doing what it takes to be in a relationship. - Anonymous(18-24)
He falls hard and fast or not at all. And he’s fragile and has towering walls guarding his heart, but once they’re down he’s completely open. Maybe too open but he needs the shoulder to lean on and if you aren’t prepared to be there for him, don’t even try in the first place. He’s an amazing person, but a little misguided sometimes. 100% worth the trouble.
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Give him some space from time to time and don't show him you care a lot about him or he'll feel too comfortable and stop being caring himself. He's gonna say he loves you and blah blah blah but you gotta make him show he does or it's bullshit (it was bullshit in my case). He's forgetful and self absorbed sometimes but he doesn't mean to upset you so try not to be too affected by that.
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Well that depends if it was the first guy then I’d tell her to “run like hell because he’s a manipulative cheater, that dates numerous girls at once” if it was the second then I’d tell her to “keep him safe and make sure he always feels loved and protect, because he needs it”
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Depends on which ex it is, last ex I would say go for it she's a good person with a good heart, and she's fun to hang out with even if it's only platonic. Ex before her would be to not date her she's a cheater and a liar as well as self centered and childish.
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I think it's hilarious how every single person ever's ex is crazy/an asshole/a liar etc. There sure must be a lot of really quiet crazy exes out there. It's almost as good as how like 90% of people rate themselves as above average skill level.
- Anonymous(45 Plus)
LOL- that depends which one we're talking about.
My most recent one- don't put up with too much from her.
The previous one- be good to her because she is a genuine gem of a woman. Warning somebody about anyone is always a bad idea. Ex or not. Because whatever it is that makes someone alarming, people need to find oit for themselves. Except for violent or maybe deceptive people. So no, i wouldn't warn anybody. Also, my might have changed, but that's not my concern anymore.
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I would never ruin somebody's chances with someone else but at the same time he was one crazy son of a bitch. I wish someone told me that he has trust issues so deep that he thinks my cousin isn't actually my cousin, has my insta pw but thinks I'm cheating, and hacks my snapchat and posts things from the past bc I broke up with him. He. Is. Psychotic.
I think my ex is a very good person, but she has pretty severe depression and that was challenging for me. I want her to find love, but I hope she finds a person who is kinder and more patient than I was.
- Anonymous(25-29)
Dude is psycho killer material. Thank god I realized it before it was too late, and thank God that it was just an online thing and he didn't know where I lived. He was manipulative, lacking emotion for anything at all, dreamt of having violent jobs and lifestyles, and threatened self harm when broken up with before stalking every account I made, including ones I hadn't mentioned to him.
- Anonymous(30-35)
He would care about his Mum more then you and he has annoying anger issues where he wouldn’t speak to me if he is angry even if you didn’t do anything wrong and he isn’t romantic at all. He also would end the relationship by just ignoring you. Other then that he is nice and he might cheat on you but depends
- 1.4K opinions shared on Relationships topic.
There was nothing really wrong with my last ex, except he was a bit closed off. I think the right girl would open him up.
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