My boyfriend doesn't believe in love!

[Anonymous]

what does that mean :\

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jst to be a little bit more detailed, me and my boyfriend have a great relationship. everything is perfect. but he jst doesn't believe in love. or he doesn't care about it :\

[aadenyl]

A lot of guys don't believe in love as girls do. When Meg Ryan runs into Tom Hanks and everything just clicks, that's love. Juliet and Romeo being from families that can't possibly co-exist, but they still want to be with one another, even if it means in another life, that's love. But guys don't really think like that. There's not such thing as a crystallizing moment when you look across the room and see someone who you know you're going to spend the rest of your life with. There is attraction and then work into making a relationship work. There is evolution and sexual selection, there is monogamy and the adaptational function of monogamy. Guys think with less romance than girls do. That's okay, it's what makes us different. He might not think to himself "I'm with her because I'm MEANT to be with her, it's destiny", instead it's more like "She and I are compatible, she doesn't annoy me nearly as much as most girls do, she has nice boobs and we work hard to make our relationship work".

Personally, I believe in love, but that's how a lot of guys I know think about love.

[Anonymous]

He wants to know what love is. He wants you to show him.

[PhantomTT]

Dude... I laughed my ass off at that..

[Opinion Owner]

Lol You caught my Foreigner reference?

[Kerenai]

my ex boyfriend didn't believe in love and friendship either. he said "love" and "friends" are very long words...i don't know what he means.

[Anonymous]

he hasn't experienced , or felt it. Or he has had his heart broken so bad he can't get over himself lol

[Anonymous]

he's in hs, he doesn't know what he's talking about

[dudeman]

love is made up word we have choices and options nothing more nothing less

[KERMlT]

He doesn't know what it feels like to be in love

[dudeman]

well love doesn't exist