Love my boyfriend but miss my ex a little! What should I do?

[Anonymous]

I broke up with my ex 3 months ago and he was calling me and begging me to come back but I moved on with a nicer wiser choice and was ignoring him. My new boyfriend I have been with for a month and half. I'm totally happy with him and my parents love him. He’s trying to see me and my ex never tried to see me. This boyfriend is the better choice of the two and I have forgotten about my ex but every now and then since ex gave up trying to get me back I think about him. A certain song makes me think of him and when I'm alone not talking to new boyfriend I think about ex. I miss my ex but I love my boyfriend. I don’t want my ex back because my boyfriend is better choice but I still think of what could’ve been with ex. Am I wrong to think about past dates with ex? Ex isn’t talking to me and I forgot him but he pops up in my mind sometimes. Now that ex stopped bugging me to take him back I miss him.

[Louise123]

This is typical behavior after a breakup.. ON BOTH your parts. Read what you wrote. You broke up with this guy ( remember why) and found a great guy who is NICE to you. The old guy discovers you have a new guy ( jealousy and competition enters the mix and now you REALLY look attractive to this ex.. A new guy will most always make an ex jealous...) We all think about our ex's and the good parts we remember. Nobody is ALL bad... So now.. when you look back you only remember the GOOD stuff.. YOU NEED TO REMEMBER WHY YOU BROKE UP! If he was so great, you'd be with him.. RIGHT? NO CONTACT with this ex of yours. You need to cut him loose. It's flattering to be bugged by a guy.. but in this case - he only wants to win. Please don't let him. If he loved you, he would have treated you like a Queen the FIRST time around. Do you REALLY think he's changed? NO CONTACT.. If you dump this new guy and go back to him.. trust me.. YOU will live to regret your decision. This ex should respect your new relationship. Does he? Doesn't look like it. This is not fair to your new guy and VERY destructive to you and your current boyfriend.. Please show your guy more respect and have nothing to do with this ex. He had his turn and he blew it. Hugz.

[Asker]

Thanks!

[Anonymous]

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