Yes I would say that I have feelings for my friends with benefits but i think the attachment is due to the amount of time we have been having sex for, but I am not in love with him and never have or will be. It not something we have discussed and I don’t feel it’s necessary. I think he knows I care for him and plays on it occasionally but ever now and then he ups and disappears on me for a period of time. It bothers me initially but once I have it in perspective I’m not that fussed he’s free to do whatever he wants.
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Yes, I was getting with this guy who was an athlete and built like a demigod. He was physically amazing, which I already knew, but what caught me about him was that he was a sweetheart to me. Didn't hurt that he was amazing in bed, either. But I fell for him and he eventually moved on. I knew he would, because he was honestly too attractive and had too many girls wanting him to stay with one girl. Still think about him all the time.
I did, and so did him. we got together instead of just being friends with benefits, but a few days ago we broke up. I've figured it was stupid to be in a friends with benefits thing at an age even younger than 17..
oh what a nice painting. :)
Oh I am so sorry I feel so gay today.
"Feelings" is not a good definition. Yeah I had FEELINGS for them in some way, or I wouldn't have been fucking her, like I liked her. But are you asking, do we as guys catch enough feelings to date them and want to be with them long term? No usually. So I answered "yes" but if you're actually asking the second thing, then the majority answer is "no." Hope that clears it up.
I dont engage in it
But 90% of the women I know who do, have regretted it
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I've never had a friends with benefits.
I didn't catch feelings but he did. It didn't feel good either because we ended up in the undesirable situation of one catching feelings and the other one not wanting a relationship and it wasn't fun to break his heart.
I think in a sense I do have feelings for him, but it would be so impractical for us to be together that they're not super strong and don't get in the way of anything
I kinda caught temporary feelings then he hung out with his ex over winter break and it hurt for a bit as I realized that I won’t have a romantic relationship with him like she did... but then I remembered who i was lol and got over it
I don't catch feelings for people that easily
If I ever get an friends with benefits, I can't see myself catching feelings for them if I know it's unlikely to become anything seriousMy friends with benefits was an ex, so it's pretty clear that we still had feelings. I know that I'm always gonna love him, and he will always love me. First love is rough
We were friends and yes had feelings for each other, but neither of us was interested in beginning a relationship.
Yep... that was the first and last time I had a friends with benefits because I was HURT. It's not for me.
Tried not to, but we both did and couldn't pursue anything due to distance
I put out a net and hooked up a fishing rod but I didn't catch any feelings.
Hurt
Of course it didn't help that his new girlfriend was super hot and smart. I set the bar too high with him.It's kind of awkward now since he has now realized he has feelings for me, but I'm in a relationship, and we are trying to be friends.
Never had a friends with benefits and there's no point in letting your friend takes your mist valuable treasure.
No I never caught it because I always wash my hands.
Yes I did and it ened badly he fingerd my friend in my bed next to me while I was sleeping... But I woke yo to her moaning and she NEW I liked him
I have never caught feelings for a friends with benefits. It happened the other way though.
never had one i just wanted to see results so take one off of i didn't
Yes, he turned out to be the love of my life.
Yes I did, and he ghosted me so went well I guess
Fingering with balls?
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