Have you ever caught feelings for FWB?

[Pocahontas2000]

If so, how did it end?

I caught feelings for them

I didn't catch feelings for them

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friends with benefits = Friends With Benefits

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Oops meant FWB= Friends with Benefits 😂

[Anonymous]

Yes I would say that I have feelings for my friends with benefits but i think the attachment is due to the amount of time we have been having sex for, but I am not in love with him and never have or will be. It not something we have discussed and I don’t feel it’s necessary. I think he knows I care for him and plays on it occasionally but ever now and then he ups and disappears on me for a period of time. It bothers me initially but once I have it in perspective I’m not that fussed he’s free to do whatever he wants.

[TayTay21]

Yes, I was getting with this guy who was an athlete and built like a demigod. He was physically amazing, which I already knew, but what caught me about him was that he was a sweetheart to me. Didn't hurt that he was amazing in bed, either. But I fell for him and he eventually moved on. I knew he would, because he was honestly too attractive and had too many girls wanting him to stay with one girl. Still think about him all the time.

[HikerDude]

was it mostly his body that got to you?

[TayTay21]

@HikerDude that's what drew men in, yeah. I mean he was built beyond belief. I could've cut vegetables on his jaw line, and his pecs were...😩😩😩 Never been with anyone who had that kind of muscle with absolutely no bodyfat anywhere. There was just none at all. Believe me, I looked! LOL

[HikerDude]

Damn... so what you're saying is, I should go to the gym now? lol

[TayTay21]

@HikerDude no, what i'm saying is, no pecs, no sex :D

[Anon-ymous1]

@TayTay21 Lol at the last comment. But seriously, I wish more girls would understand that type of thing, and not be as clingy. Sounds like you get it. I'm glad you had good experiences with him.

[TayTay21]

@Anon-ymous1 It's all about the guy. Most think they're special but are really closer to average. This guy was totally special and everyone knew it. He was easily like top 1%, like I actually felt lucky to be with him rather than the opposite. And I know what it's like to have tons of options and people wanting you constantly. He had his pick of girls, and honestly, he deserved that. He *earned* that, so I couldn't be mad at him for taking what he wanted.

[Anon-ymous1]

Again though that makes you rare; most girls would get mad at him for that. Which celebrity does he most closely resemble, if any?

[TayTay21]

@Anon-ymous1 sorry, didn't realize my boyfriend was already logged in.

[Anon-ymous1]

@TayTay21 ... Huh? I'm not understanding you.

[themetalhead]

I did, and so did him. we got together instead of just being friends with benefits, but a few days ago we broke up. I've figured it was stupid to be in a friends with benefits thing at an age even younger than 17..

[jibidijibidi]

oh what a nice painting. :)

Oh I am so sorry I feel so gay today.

[Anon-ymous1]

"Feelings" is not a good definition. Yeah I had FEELINGS for them in some way, or I wouldn't have been fucking her, like I liked her. But are you asking, do we as guys catch enough feelings to date them and want to be with them long term? No usually. So I answered "yes" but if you're actually asking the second thing, then the majority answer is "no." Hope that clears it up.

[SnapTsch]

I dont engage in it
But 90% of the women I know who do, have regretted it

[PrincessPie]

I've never had a friends with benefits.

[Nandor]

Never had one

[Nandor]

Woops

[Anonymous]

I didn't catch feelings but he did. It didn't feel good either because we ended up in the undesirable situation of one catching feelings and the other one not wanting a relationship and it wasn't fun to break his heart.

[j3ss1ca]

I think in a sense I do have feelings for him, but it would be so impractical for us to be together that they're not super strong and don't get in the way of anything

[reixun]

I kinda caught temporary feelings then he hung out with his ex over winter break and it hurt for a bit as I realized that I won’t have a romantic relationship with him like she did... but then I remembered who i was lol and got over it

[effyourfeelings]

I don't catch feelings for people that easily
If I ever get an friends with benefits, I can't see myself catching feelings for them if I know it's unlikely to become anything serious

[Sisud]

My friends with benefits was an ex, so it's pretty clear that we still had feelings. I know that I'm always gonna love him, and he will always love me. First love is rough

[katiesmuff]

We were friends and yes had feelings for each other, but neither of us was interested in beginning a relationship.

[cnicole2012]

Yep... that was the first and last time I had a friends with benefits because I was HURT. It's not for me.

[deraz24]

Tried not to, but we both did and couldn't pursue anything due to distance

[SebShaw82]

I put out a net and hooked up a fishing rod but I didn't catch any feelings.

[Anonymous]

Hurt
Of course it didn't help that his new girlfriend was super hot and smart. I set the bar too high with him.

[DarkKiki]

It's kind of awkward now since he has now realized he has feelings for me, but I'm in a relationship, and we are trying to be friends.

[Anonymous]

Never had a friends with benefits and there's no point in letting your friend takes your mist valuable treasure.

[DanOh2018]

No I never caught it because I always wash my hands.

[greeneyes9823]

Yes I did and it ened badly he fingerd my friend in my bed next to me while I was sleeping... But I woke yo to her moaning and she NEW I liked him

[Anonymous]

I have never caught feelings for a friends with benefits. It happened the other way though.

[Anonymous]

never had one i just wanted to see results so take one off of i didn't

[Anonymous]

Yes, he turned out to be the love of my life.

[guana8ana]

Yes I did, and he ghosted me so went well I guess

[Nandor]

Fingering with balls?

[Pocahontas2000]

😂😂😂

[colorsoft]

Nah, fat white boys

[PaganGod]

I didn't catch feelings for them

[Pocahontas2000]

Did they?

[PaganGod]

I never had friends with benefits

[Pocahontas2000]

Then how can you say?

[PaganGod]

There are only 2 options

[Pocahontas2000]

Ok sorry forgot to leave space for others.

[britpop]

I've never had a friends with benefits

[colorsoft]

Yes. Badly.

[Pocahontas2000]

Did she have feelings for you too?

[colorsoft]

Yup.

[Pocahontas2000]

Then why did it end badly?

[colorsoft]

I'm gonna be honest: it's a long, complicated story about polyamory and selfish people that left me a broken person.

I'd rather not relive it again.

[Maria317]

It’s just sex.

[Anonymous]

not really

[Pocahontas2000]

Did they?

[Opinion Owner]

No..

[CrazyyChick]

Nope

[Volvagia]

Nope.

[mikey112]

Nope never

[Anonymous]

Never