So do y’all think FWB’s always end up catching feelings? If so, who do y’all think usually catches them? The girl, the boy, or both?

[Anonymous]

I have a friends with benefits that I’m really enjoying!!! We seem to be getting closer everytime we get together! We don’t text everyday lol & im kinda glad in a way bc I’m not tryna catch feelings lol! We used to text everyday, now it’s maybe every other day!! We get together to have sex once a week! Usually on a weekend night! I flirt with him a whole lot cuz he’s so sexy & I just love how he touches me & sexes me lol but I’m tryna stop myself from catching feelings!! But what y’all think about FWB’s? He doesn’t seem like one to catch feelings easily lol! He’s one of those guys that likes multiple chicks haha! I’m just having fun with him! :)

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[Mandycandy42]

Sounds like the kind of guy thats good for a friends with benefits. Best thing to do in my opinion is take my approach, with my FWBs, (I have two currently) the extent of the conversations and actions are ONLY about sex, meet ONLY for sex, chat/sext if it ONLY leads to sex. Get together, have sex, maybe get food/delivery if hungry, do the deed, and after you both are done, get dressed and LEAVE. No contact until the next time you want to have sex. No casual conversations about his day, work situation or long date like outings, If he wants to talk about what he does with other chicks fine, but only sexually how it relates to performance in bed. IF you feel your feelings are becoming complicated thats the time to end it as it will also impact your sex life with him. Keep up the hot sex, its great with a friends with benefits especially when no feelings are involved, just understand the warning signs of feelings

[abc3643]

Yes, that ALWAYS happens.