Why would my ex boyfriend send a friend request to my sister on Facebook?

[Anonymous]

I broke up with him a week ago and I ended up blocking him due to him taking digs at me through posts on his wall and trying to hurt me and make me jealous with those posts.

A week later and he just sent my sister a friend request, seems weird when we are not together anymore and I've blocked him both on Facebook and Messenger. He never attempted to friend request her the past 10 months we have been together, so why now and extra strange he has only ever met her once and that was like 8 mths ago.

She blocked him straight away.

What do you think he was up to?

[reallyconfusedguy]

He hopes to see something about your life through your sister's profile

[Anonymous]

I should try to contact you via your sister. Maybe to say sorry.

[BaileyEdward]

Being a sneaky 🐍

[Asker]

How do?

[Asker]

How so?

[BaileyEdward]

The only way I could imagine that it wasn't him trying to have intercourse with your sister, is that it was a failed attempt to get back into your life. Which if you don't want that then it would still be considered sneaky so..

[Asker]

Doubt that, she is married. He had been on her husbands facebook just before we broke up but i believe my brother in law was going to be friend him, just hasn't gotten around to it yet but my sister was going to ensure it gets done

[BaileyEdward]

Marriage means nothing to some, and giving it some more thought I'd say the best course of action is none. Given that you've already blocked him.

[Asker]

My sister and her husband blocked him as well, that should definitely send out a clear message to him

[Zion666]

He wants to show her men stuff

[Asker]

Doubt that, she is married. He had been on her husbands facebook just before we broke up but i believe my brother in law was going to be friend him, just hasn't gotten around to it yet but my sister was going to ensure it gets done

[Asker]

De friend him, typo lol

[LeoZay]

It's rather obvious.

[Asker]

Explain if you don't mind?

[LeoZay]

He was trying to make you mad/get a reaction from you or even better, he probably hoped you might get into an argument with your sister over him.

[Asker]

Yes perhaps he was thinking I would find out naturally and I would send him a text opening up the lines of communication whereby he may have tried to diffuse me enough to work his way back in and sucker me into giving him another chance. The thought did cross my mind, very narcissistic of him!

[LeoZay]

Yes, you are spot on. Your sister had your back and kind of fucked his game up.