My boyfriend “accidentally” sent a girl a friend request on Facebook?

[Anonymous]

Should I believe this? Because I don’t. How do you accidentally send a friend request to someone. Firstly he said he doesn’t remember doing it and I feel like I’m being blamed now because it was an “accident” and I’m over reacting lol.

[Finchie40]

It happens , I have added people by accident that I had no clue I added , so he is more than likely telling you the truth , Did he unfriend her right away when you asked him about it? If he did, then you more than likely have nothing to worry about. But Prior to you finding this other girl on his Facebook , how has your relationship been going with him? Have things been good between you both or have things been kind of shady? Has he been acting weird and distant to you? Does something seem off in your relationship with him to make you feel like you can’t really trust him? The only advice I can give you is when a guy really likes a girl and cares about a girl he will make her his top priority , he will look forward to seeing her as much as possible and not go days without calling her whatsoever, he will call her everyday to check on her , if your boyfriend isn’t doing that to you , then he might be up to no good. Never stay in a relationship with someone that treats you like a convenience period. Someone that truly loves you will make you their top priority. Only you can figure this out

[Summeroflove]

I’ve done it scrolling and sent a request to some random person that I then canceled. BUT…. I mean you’re not stupid either maybe he’s gaslighting. Because he is changing his story around which something isn’t right.

If there are other signs too I think maybe you should consider if it’s worth being with him. Narcissists (I don’t know him I can’t diagnose him or read his mind) love you gaslight. They also get off on showing and telling you what they’re doing to you while leaving plausible deniability there as well. That they use to gaslight you with.

They believe if you’re too stupid to figure it out and too weak to stand up for yourself that YOU deserve it. Obviously nobody does deserve it but that’s how they think.

[Anonymous]

Lol, I've more than once clicked "add friend" when it is friend suggestions to the point where I really don't remember doing so because honestly, I don't care so much about social media. And who I'm "friends with" let alone who my partner chooses to be "friends" with. 😂

But you're definitely on to something here. He's moving on from you

[Asker]

I’m sure you have heaps of friends that you accidentally add sweetie

[Opinion Owner]

He could well be sticking his dick in her. Dumb him IMMEDIATELY. He a cheating scum, he added a girl on Facebook!!! The disrespect!!! Out with the cheater! 😂

[Opinion Owner]

You seem to be wanting to hear that one : so there you go. He's definitely up to something that filthy cheated. how DARES he add someone online, again he could as well be sticking his dick in her, that's how shady he is!

[Asker]

Eh you seem like you want me to reply

[Opinion Owner]

Out with the man you don't trust. Out with the trash. you go girl! Girl power.

[Asker]

Ew lol 😂

[Opinion Owner]

Out with the untrustworthy cheater. The disrespect he has adding other girls online , it's truly fucked up what he did.

[Opinion Owner]

Well, yeah. Out with the cheater. I don't reply to shit onilne to speak to the void. I'm not like you idiots.

[Asker]

You’re right opinion owner I was looking for your support on this specific topic, I was. I bet you’re really ugly that’s why you keep replying and trying to attack me. Get on with it. lol. Go be an anonymous harasser somewhere else please I’d really appreciate it dog

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, you just wanted be to agree with you so that is what I do and it's harrasment?

[Asker]

You keep going sis, you ok?

[Opinion Owner]

Dude, I get why he's searching for better matches. Definitely was no accident there dude.

[Asker]

Okay okay opinion owner

[Opinion Owner]

Out with the disgusting cheater you have no trust towards. He cheating!

[Opinion Owner]

Okay okay, have fun with your filthy untrustworthy cheater.

Sorry that is the best your pathetic ass could catch.

[Asker]

You’re absolutely right. You’ve spoken words of wisdom today opinion owner, I am a changed woman because of you. Thanks sweetie 😘 xx best of luck with your journey loool

[Opinion Owner]

Changed woman? I'm agreeing with your stand point here since otherwise doesn't count you twat. My words are actually to TRUST the person you're with because misclicks happens but a man like yours doesn't deserve that. He be untrustworthy scum who isn't allowed to be friends with the other gender anywhere unless miss mom here approves.

Have fun with the scum you deserve, can't even trust him online.

[Asker]

🤪🤪🤪🤪

[Opinion Owner]

Have fun with your untrustworthy cheater scum. Sorry that is all your pathetic ass could catch. (A small penis insecure cheater scum at that). Just adds to how pathetic you must be.

[Asker]

I’ll go think about my actions 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[Opinion Owner]

Doubt you ever will. So desperate that you date people you can't show trust. It's hilariously sad.

Again, watch out. Dating you, I see why you fear he is looking to other girls. He's thinking about how he can run.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, love in the digital age—full of friend requests and "accidental" clicks! You're right to question this, and it's totally okay to feel a bit suspicious about it. Accidental friend requests can indeed happen with a slip of the thumb, especially on a phone. But if this isn’t the first time you’re catching red flags, trust your gut, and have an open talk with him. Just make sure it doesn't turn into a ghosting situation. Keep it light-hearted and curious; communication is your best friend here! 😊

[Anonymous]

Sometimes Facebook recommends people for you to friend and it can be confusing as the list goes past and you might accidentally click on one you don't really intend to. I have had several of these I unfollow later because I don't really know them that well or I have no idea who they are.

[TonyMetal___86]

He can unsend the friendship request or send a message saying sorry it was by fault!
If he's honest, his actions will simply tell if he did it on purpose or not!

If i'm in love with someone and i made such mistake, i'll make sure that my girl knows that it was just a mistake!

[Flower7]

It’s possible. I’ve clicked the wrong button and accidentally sent someone a friend request before. Has he removed the person from his friend list or is he refusing to do that?

[Asker]

I don’t know if he’s removed it, although if afew people here are saying they have done it accidentally then I’ll take his word for it this time. Thanks 🤩

[Nikki1989]

Accidentally?

Impossible.

[ChicoFromThe305]

It would mean he was at least looking at her page and his hand slipped or something and accidentally clicked follow

[serious]

It is not possible to send a friend request by accident

[jjj101010]

I mean u can knock the send request button accidentally but u can unsend the request too

[jahaims]

Why are you dating someone you don't even trust

[nawtee_me]

Unfriend her and move on