I love my girlfriend but can't stop thinking about another woman?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend (26) and I (24) have been together a little over 6 months. We both have full time 9-6 weekly schedules and we do our best to make time (gym twice a week together) and spending weekends together. Our sex life has slowed down due to our busy schedules but it's still great when it happens.

Currently I am taking a college course to brush up my business skills and there's this girl who just makes my heart beat everytime I see her. Sometimes we'll lock eyes but we won't engage in conversation since she sits across the room. I am so tempted to talk to her but I know it's not right. Sometimes just seeing her is the best part of the school day I look forward to (even though I don't know anything about her.)

I love my girlfriend and I KNOW this is wrong. There are plenty of cute girls but this one in particular I can't stop thinking about and it's affecting me (getting distracted--less interested in what my girlfriend did that day, etc).

Ladies, I need advice please. What do I do? Do I tell my current girlfriend about this (which could lead to a awkward breakup-ish senario from her) or just talk to this girl as friends to get a better read?

Thank you for your replies.

[cflr0227]

That's tough but no I don't think you should tell your girlfriend, if nothing has happened than why do something that might hurt her for no reason, I also don't think it's a good idea to pursue a friendship with this girl if your not trying to actively pursue her, if your happy with your girlfriend and genuinely want these feelings to pass than leave it alone and eventually you will get used to seeing the other woman and your feelings will subside a little, it's entirely different if you want to try and pursue her and see if a relationship can bud but you shouldn't do that until you end things with your girlfriend just out of respect for her in the fact that she's done nothing wrong feelings just change sometimes

[Logorithim]

Don't tell her- what you're experiencing is not uncommon. Stay away from the other lady to avoid temptation.