My abusive ex husband sent me this through his wife’s phone... I feel like I wanna cut myself help?

[hanniecharlie10]

[TheRedLemon]

Ignore the toxic shitty people in your life. This person is clearely disturbed and should receive some "help" for a few years in a mental hospital. It won`t help with anything but it will take him out of normal people`s lives. In any case, ignore him forever, cut all ties and never look back. Not even a salute on the street. Just go on with your life, this is just some shit that is going to pass and hurting yourself will literally solve nothing. Normally i`d just press send at this point but if you want you can contact me at alexandrubrancu@yahoo. com there you can give me an email so i can add you on facebook/messenger and we can talk about your problems if you want, i`m generally good company.

[Jasdebi]

I'm seeing a divorce on the way. That 'wife' must be really messed up to stay with him.

[MemeSupreme]

He sent this probably because he isn't do so well himself and is pissed with his results so he wants to try making you upset again. Try to ignore him and please try not to cut yourself. I know it's hard, but try not to.

[elenciarenee]

Don’t do anything you’ll regret. I’d say, and I know it’s hard, but just ignore it. And if it happens again, tell the police. This is abusive and you can probably get a restraining order against him.

[azzntittiz]

What an evil garbage human, don't let anyone like that cause you self harm. He's the one something is wrong with, and his new wife did not get a prize at all.

[bubbles328]

Hi I’ve requested to follow you I can help

[bubbles328]

If you chose not to allow me to PM you I just want to tell you this

His relationship will be the exact same as yours was. It just benefits him to make it look good to hurt you

I’m guessing you either did something to better yourself or make it look like you were moving on recently to provoke this. That’s what they do! Nothing hurts an abuser more than his ex moving on and doing well. Revenge just make them happy because they can play victim and they know you’re still hurting

Please look into more productive ways to get over this I know how you feel I’ve been there twice!! But once you start moving on and bettering yourself and not retaliating to this crap he will break just ignore these messages. Maybe block him if you can

Good luck

[hanniecharlie10]

kik me queenofwands_ or snapchat hannie. charlite

[Mishthamesh]

My lady, why to cut yourself? Do you think that there are any reasonable cause to do unnecessary harm? Who's him to have such a power over your emotions and trigger that kind of responses within you? Remember that his opinion is one from millions, and he doesn't have the absolute truth, so what are his opinions? words, and you make with them whatever you want with them.

If he do it again, you can talk with the police or your friends and they can mediate and talk with that resentful person. And please, if you feel powerless you can go to a good psychology practitioner and he can give you some recommendations to deal with your fears.

Best regards Hannie,
M. C.

[Sambivalent]

Short and sweet, well not the latter one actually... I don't know why you'd want someone who threatens you to have sway over your emotions. Consider him the enemy to your well being that he is and have done with it.

Also get a restraining order in case he's serious.

[JSmith925]

Whatever transpired between you and you ex, he is a moron and you can tell him I said so. Have nothing to do with this person. Move on and make the best of your own life. Living well is the best revenge.
~JSmith

[hanniecharlie10]

sad part is my mom
agrees with half the things he said about me

[JSmith925]

That doesn't justify him saying them. Besides, you can change and become better. Focus on that and forget about him.
~JSmith

[DeterMind]

Don't cut yourself, you don't deserve that. Be happy you got away from him. Don't talk to him anymore and if he continues trying to contact you, go to the police. He sounds extremely abusive.

[jakeforfun]

I'm so sorry. Did you do anything to deserve any part of that? Could you say something (truthful) like "well, at least my fuckboys can get it up"? Did you cheat on him (first)? why is he flipping out?

[hanniecharlie10]

No not even it just came out of nowhere

[jakeforfun]

Then to hell with that scumbag creep p. o. s! And, just throwing out there - you're sexy. Forget about this trash maggot, and find a better life without him. If you're into revenge, I have ideas...

[witherwing]

That literally sounds like a child who doesn't quite know how to express themselves wrote the message.

[Joseph97]

I'm a croatian and that guy is a fucking piece of shit. Where did you even meet him?

[hanniecharlie10]

Online on OkCupid before i moved to Toronto to be with him

[hanniecharlie10]

he used to beat me and choke me and one time made me have sex when i didn't want to

[Joseph97]

Just to be clear not all croatian guys are like that, that guy is simply a piece of shit. Saying he's got an iPhone like he bought a fcking ferrari 😂😂 don't feel bad about him, and resist the temptation to cut, i believe in yoi

[Joseph97]

Why don't you report him?

[genericname85]

wow. you reveive this kind of message from a guy and you assume something is wrong with you? dude this guy has massive freaking problems. i'm happy i'm not in his skin.

[Maybenena]

This is something you can show to the police. Get a restraining order. Protect yourself

[madhatters4]

that's why he's your ex. be proud of yourself from getting away from that piece of shit.

[BrianMerritt]

Don't cut yourself. That cussout is so outrageous that I would just giggle.
Keep it so that you can show it to the police if you have to.

[Kwixle]

He's just insecure and is trying to make himself feel above others.

[Philyouup]

He's a piece of shit, why does that trash even make you feel bad.. it sounds like a threat.. Go to the cops.

[Prime_Sol]

Lol.
I don't know what you did to piss him of but Damn.

[hanniecharlie10]

i did norhing he randomly sent me this

[libertydawn]

Honestly I've been in similar situations... Honestly what you need to do is file a police report and get a restraining order..

[Lady7]

Report him.

[sunnyk1]

Is he black too?

[hanniecharlie10]

he is croatian

[sunnyk1]

U r black?

[hanniecharlie10]

Yes black and hispanic

[sunnyk1]

He seems to be racist

[Revolver_]

Interesting