Girls, How much does man's past matter to you?

sayitaintso85

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Girls, How much does man's past matter to you?

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TheLoveExpert Follow
Xper 3 Age: 23 , mho 58%

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I personally only get disturbed by a boy's past if it affects him a lot in the present. people change, but if a guy constantly talks about a girl who dumped him or the fact he was in a gang... that's a tad bit off a kill joy. Live in the moment and I don't care who you once were. Hope this helped

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- sayitaintso85
  
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  That's a lot of wisdom for 15
  
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- TheLoveExpert
  
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  Whelp, usually better than too little right~?~ ;) and thanks sayitaintso85.
  
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Wonderer89 Follow
Master Age: 36 , mho 75%

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Depends on what part of their past. I really don’t care about a number, but I care about relationships, how and why they ended, fidelity and if there was any kind of unfaithful or demeaning behaviour etc

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- sayitaintso85
  
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  That's very mature.
  
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- Wonderer89
  
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  Yes. I’m very mature.
  As long as they don’t look under my desk 😂 #adulting
  https://i.imgur.com/9e1PC3r.jpg
  
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- sayitaintso85
  
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  ahahaha
  They look right through me!
  
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XRabbitHeartX Follow
InfluencerMaster Age: 32

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2K opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Very important. I won't date someone who used to have a different person than what i like in a guy.

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- sayitaintso85
  
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  What if you found out to late though
  
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- XRabbitHeartX
  
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  Well I would always discuss these things way in advance during the dating phase so if I was to find out late it would imply I either never brought it up (which would be my mistake and on me) or he lied to me (in which case bad on him and it could cause that I end the relationship)
  
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- sayitaintso85
  
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  Sounds romantic
  
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Fitness-Fanatic Follow
Master Age: 36 , mho 72%

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A person's past is important to a point. It can let me know his potential , what's he's capable of.

Also, it can tell me who he" was "compared to who he's "became" You can learn a lot about a person by their past. Even if they've changed and their life has changed

Some things I'll overlook in his past. Others will be a dealbreaker

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ChronicThinker Follow
Guru Age: 32 , mho 40%

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Past is a good indicator of what a person's overall judgment and moral system consists of. Yes, people can change, but I'd like to know what he's gotten into first before diving in.

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- sayitaintso85
  
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  I see
  You got to know to understand
  
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Catholicgirl22 Follow
Explorer Age: 28 , mho 39%

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Im would not be worried about his number of his sexual partners but more if he had a history of cheating or if he was a domestic abuse or rapist etc.

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- sayitaintso85
  
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  Understandable
  
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Jaybear0123 Follow
Xper 7 Age: 24

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Depends how bad it was and if it will affect his present life and future.

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- sayitaintso85
  
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  Awww
  That's sweet
  
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DizzyDesii Follow
Master Age: 31 , mho 55%

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3.9K opinions shared on Relationships topic.

It matters. I gotta know how many kitties you made purr

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- sayitaintso85
  
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  So you can compare them to? you?
  
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- DizzyDesii
  
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  No. Because i dont want someone whos been with like over 3 women... preferably none
  
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- sayitaintso85
  
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  A virgin man, I see
  Well you got want you wanted hay
  
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- DizzyDesii
  
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  He dont have to be a virgin bt its preferred. And if he not a virgin, hopefully he's only had sex/oral with less than 5
  
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- sayitaintso85
  
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  Oh it's up to 5 now
  any advances on 5 ?
  
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- DizzyDesii
  
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  Well 3-5.
  
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- sayitaintso85
  
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  35? That's a fair number
  
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- DizzyDesii
  
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  Stop playin. No more than a handful. Three to Five
  
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Arctic_Fox Follow
Xper 5 Age: 33 , mho 54%

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Depends on what part, criminal past? That matters. Sexual/relationships? Not so much no.

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- sayitaintso85
  
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  I understand.
  
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Hurlyburly Follow
Guru Age: 34 , mho 47%

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Well I wouldn't want someone who is/was promiscuous therefore yes it matters.

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- Hurlyburly
  
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  Preferably someone who never had sex outside of relationships
  
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- sayitaintso85
  
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  Seems fair
  
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KatyKaz Follow
Xper 5 Age: 27 , mho 35%

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I'd like to know about it, but it wouldn't massively bother me

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- sayitaintso85
  
  +1 y
  Hmmm
  Really?
  
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- KatyKaz
  
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  Really
  
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- sayitaintso85
  
  +1 y
  That's good to know.
  Thanks
  
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- KatyKaz
  
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  No problem at all
  
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Anonymous
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What kind of adt are we talking about here? Give an example...

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- sayitaintso85
  
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  Slept with married women, say he’s entertained women for money stuff like that
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  I’d look to see who he is now, what he learned from those past experiences and how it’s made him who he is now. The sleeping with married women is most questionable but like I said, you have to assess the whole picture.
  
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- sayitaintso85
  
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  Perfect thanks
  
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HANAZAWA Follow
Xper 6 Age: 46 , mho 53%

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Doesn't matter at all.

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- sayitaintso85
  
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  👊🏻 Perfect
  
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Desconhecida Follow
InfluencerGuru Age: 39

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1.1K opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Not much.

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- sayitaintso85
  
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  Perfect
  
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Wowgirl10q Follow
Yoda Age: 37

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Is it on record? Or is it still being carried by him? Just saying.. most things no a couple things yea

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- sayitaintso85
  
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  On record for sure.
  
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- Wowgirl10q
  
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  Funny😀
  
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- Wowgirl10q
  
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  Really funny. Depends on crime
  
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- Wowgirl10q
  
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  So depends final answer
  
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- sayitaintso85
  
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  He murdered his lovers husband.
  
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- Wowgirl10q
  
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  Criminal heck that's my type of guy
  
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- Wowgirl10q
  
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  Shit happens
  
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LeaLee Follow
Explorer Age: 32

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Not really

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- sayitaintso85
  
  +1 y
  Excellent
  
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