Do you believe in love at first sight?

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sjoes006 · Accepted Answer

Yes and no. I’ve experienced it and it turned into something really great when I was in my early 20’s.

But a lot of factors go into it. We were both brand new to a big city and community and when we met I was wearing my college sweatshirt and we were big rivals.

But yeah, physical attraction was there off the charts.

The thing is that if we’d have met under different circumstances I doubt we’d have gotten together as quickly or at all and bonded.

What I mean is that if we met at, say a college game where we were playing each other no way would that have ever happened. The rivalry is too tense and we would have been with friends.

I think that we meet the people we meet when we are ready to meet them. Otherwise you just pass each other by. That doesn't mean that kismet like meeting or connection is less meaningful or valuable.

But if love at first sight is really a thing then it happens at first sight of the person independent of circumstances.

My first great love was someone I had known for a few years in the same group of friends and didn’t much care for him as a person.

But one night through just being a third party witness to how he treated several situations like the flip of a switch I realized I was wrong and was in love.

These are exceptions I think though. When you go into a date with no common friends are bonds you can feel an instant spark and think the relationship will take off but it often falls on its face.

ravenish · Accepted Answer

I don't know about others but I find it rather impossible to love someone without having talked to them or knowing something about their nature. I need to feel the connection. All those who claim to have fallen in love at first sight confuse lust or physical attraction with love. Although they can gradually fall in love after spending some time with the person though.

FinalVow · Accepted Answer

of the 3 most common emotions for relationship foundations 1 leads to love. so by the technical transference of emotional properties yes love at first sight can be a thing. However many people confuse how one becomes attracted to people. there are innumerable ways for a person to become romantically interested in someone. Chem-signals is a complicated thing to explain and even harder to understand. The simple way is an aura. People have an "aura" about them and when we meet another person the 2 auras collide with the stronger overriding the lesser aura. you ever meet someone who is so upset or angry that just being near them makes you feel the same way? or that 1 person who walks into the room and everyone in the room looks towards them because they "shine like the sun" they give off such strong chem-signals we actually feel them. for people who spend time studying themselves and studying other people we can actually get a sense of someones personality and intentions just by the feeling we get off there chem-signals or there aura as it were. meaning that technically speaking yeah you and someone could meet and your auras mix collide and then harmonize together. don't worry most people won't even understand this and of those who don't most will also doubt this is a real thing.

FalconPrime · Accepted Answer

Offcourse, my first love was love on first sight. I was in high school when I saw a girl on picture, that was picture of my friend class, he went to different school than me. He called her and said that one guy would like to met her, so tommorow she comed with her friend and me and my friend were there we talked about I think one hour, man i dont know her eyes sparkle mine too. Then she invited me to come tommorow to her place, that happens, I was seating at the sofa and she was seating on the chair and I asked her to seat next to me, she did. I hug her look her in the eyes and told her "I need you", she said "why" and I said "to settle down" and we kissed. THAT WAS MY 4 BEST YEARS OF MY LIFE. At the end we go different ways but I am so glad that I had that relationship, thank you for for this question.

jamie_11 · Answer

Sounds a bit cliche, but I believe in lust at first sight. I can't possibly imagine falling in love with someone by just looking at them. I can imagine wanting to sleep with someone by just their physical looks. To me, love is more about the chemistry and personality b/w two people. Like I could prob believe in love at first date but not in first sight..

PinkMichae · Answer

I really don't. I know people can be really connected but real love takes time to develope. When you look at a person you don't know who they are yet. So how could you love them? Just doesn't make sense. The only time I believe in love at first sight is a parent seeing their child for the first time.

menina · Answer

Nope. You can't fall in love with someone you don't know, someone you know nothing about. Someone you never talked to or spent time with.
Love takes time, it doesn't happen just by looking at someone.
However, I believe in lust at first sight. That's very common.

Bruce_VVayne · Answer

It requires kind of chance to be honest to see how much your character pair with that person. If it depends on only appreance, then it is already not a love. People can't even stand each other after few months they started to dating and at the beginning they all said the same thing.

"You are the one"

SpiderLady · Answer

I didn't... until I saw a guy in footlocker, once, walking around with two different shoes on. He looked like a grown and more mature version Sid from Skins UK. A beanie and round circular glasses. He was a lanky tall drink of water with an oversized Northface rain coat. I fell in love instantly. Lol. But honestly I don't know.

mysticghost · Answer

I do, but most women only believe in restraining orders! Lol. Actually, it does exist be is very rare. Too many things have to right in both lives for a live at first site to take place. We're all so busy, trying to chase perfection, keeping up with Joneses, and building the image of the perfect mate in our minds! All of this seems to get in the way of living life and being truly open to new encounters with the opposite sex.

laurieluvsit · Answer

YES!

melanieeeB · Answer

Nope but I do believe some people just klick with each other form the get go but I wouldn't call it love just good vibes and I believe in attraction at first sight

just_a_potato · Answer

No you can't just love someone by looking at them for the first time, that's sexual attraction that develops deeper the more you spend time with them loool or like if you believe it's real :)

Memphischicago83 · Answer

No, I believe love is developed over time, lust can happen at first sight but not love

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, although it's not love exactly. I experienced it. It's like an instant connection you feel towards someone and then you kinda feel as if you had known them for a long time and develop feelings real quick.

Carley99 · Answer

Come on love is more complex than just looking at someone and saying you love them without knowing a thing about them.

stepup20 · Answer

No, when you see someone you can feel attracted to him/her yes. But that’s just lust. I think you need to get to know someone before you can fall in love

pooper89 · Answer

Not sure if you can say it was “love” at first site but my mom says when she first met my dad she knew he was the one

bubbatxman · Answer

Nope. Love takes time. You need a relationship to love someone. I do believe in lust at first sight.

ThisDudeHere · Answer

No, that's just infatuation. Love needs time to develope.

PatriciaRodriguez · Answer

Not really, I believe in admiration but it can't be love yet.

lydiahtml · Answer

No. I used to, but now that I love someone it's not realistic anymore. Although it took me about a week to start loving this guy. 😂

magzz · Answer

no i dont but i believe in strong attraction at first sight

shonaiDey · Answer

No😅.. one should not fell in love with someones look.. heart is the main thing. One will become old and lose his or her beauty.. then what should he or she do leave him? always fell in love with the person not the looks

msg812 · Answer

I even can't imagine how many times that question was asked on this site and I even can't believe how admins still can make it as featured question

Mayday40 · Answer

Not anymore. Highly doubt if that even still exists this time around. By the way, nice ring on your finger.

Slave_man_ · Answer

Women spit their phlegm into my mouth and face. I worship them and being slave of women.

dp2727 · Answer

I most definitely do believe in love at first sight and I don't think it even has to blossom at first sight either it can be something each person knows and feels but let's out on their own time

Anonymous · Answer

Absolutely not! Fairy tales meant for children. No such thing.  Lust at first sight is a different thing altogether, though, and very real!

tthsv396 · Answer

Unfortunately, yes. I think so. That is a forever complicated question with absolutely everything as a variable but yes. I knew it the first time I ever saw her

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xxchanges · Answer

Yes, but I also believe it is very rare. Especially in this generation.

zombiebacon21 · Answer

Sure , why not life can be magically at times m do you believe in love at first sight?

TestosteroneOverdose · Answer

Happened to me about 8 years ago, now we are married and have 2 daughters :)

jungle954 · Answer

Yes but rare & elusive therefore endangered love...

lizzie_blue · Answer

No but there is such a thing as being attracted to some one at first sight

LonelyGuy87 · Answer

Not sure about love but you can definitely get crazy when seeing some girls...

iamzpotatoo · Answer

Love at first sight isn't a thing. It takes 4 minutes to fall in love. So love in the first four minutes I do believe in

visreddyabc · Answer

Hmm. . attraction at first sight... yes... love I don't think so, but u may feel she is mine or he is mine kinda feeling anytime

Batistuta · Answer

Nope, you may like each other too much which makes you talk to each other a lot then you grow feelings and fall in love

Andersonme · Answer

In my opinion it is no. Without knowing a person from inside about the likeness, similarities and to be a Friend it is not possible.

Armourdillo · Answer

No, I also don't believe girls are capable of loving anyone but their own kids or the self

jasonjames · Answer

I don't believe because i fell in love to my friend 18 month later when we met

Anonymous · Answer

I can't love the opposite sex romantically in any other way

Kefir · Answer

Not really, I think love comes with time. You can be attracted to each other at first sight tho.

sengkhau · Answer

Used too, but not anymore. ... look are deceiving. ...

Jake47 · Answer

Yup but sometimes if you like someone it doesn't mean that he/she also gonna like you.

pettman · Answer

Blokes tend to get lust at first sight then worry about the other stuff later

skinny40 · Answer

It depends on how long you're around them for that first time

nicksf · Answer

Yeah some times a look with a beautiful smile is all it takes but not always

mado0 · Answer

Ummmm no, like yes but not Love. Love has sooo deep meaning. It have to come after alooong time.

mohamed96 · Answer

It depends on your emotions and the environment around you

Shelly0007 · Answer

I wish I could believe otherwise it was easy to find the love of your life

SnakeWhisperer · Answer

I do believe in love at first sight but it's a extreme rare thing

Baderq875 · Answer

No.. attraction at first sight.. love comes after proper relationship

ecfresh · Answer

Sorry, I don't fall in love with trolls.

James_R · Answer

Yes - it's happened to me.

AlisonWilliamzz · Answer

No. It's lust and attraction

ghostqueen · Answer

No..

merdawgy · Answer

I believe in lust at first sight

Laetitia94 · Answer

Yes I believe it exists, but it is very very rare.

abundantlyrich · Answer

Not right now. Just deep lust.

jaraulio · Answer

No. A crush at first sight, yes.

DanBi03 · Answer

No, I believe in infatuation at first site.

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