I cheated on my boyfriend with a black guy, now I'm pregnant and dont know who's it is :/?

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So I cheated on my boyfriend with a black guy a number of times, purely on the basis that I was always jealous of my bestie who was dating a black guy and said they were better in bed.

We had unprotected sex everytime but I was also having unprotected sex with my boyfriend with the aim of getting pregnant.

Can I tell the colour of the baby before it's born? WHAT IF ITS BLACK? HE'LL KNOW ITS NOT HIS!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

LOL! You might as well leave your boyfriend now. There might be a way of doing a DNA test using amniotic fluid, but getting it done, if such a thing exists, may be impossible.

What the hell were you hoping to achieve? Unprotected like that? I would try and work out some timings, if I were you. How long have you been trying to get pregnant by your boyfriend. How long with this other guy? If the first figure is a lot more than that for the other guy, it shows that the chances are that your boyfriend is NOT the father.

So was it worth it? Was the black guy THAT MUCH BETTER that you are willing to end up a single mother with no BF?

AmazyingOnlyMe · Accepted Answer

You did wrong because you were playing with fire 🔥!!! Now if I was you ( thankful I’m not like you lol) I would think about my baby future. I would talk to the black guy and the boyfriend. Tell them that I’m having a baby and I don’t know who the father is but I know it’s one of you two. Can you guys stay around until the baby is born and do a DNA testing. I know it was not planned but I also don’t have the heart to abort.. You HAVE TO DEAL it. Don’t be the woman that keeps her mouth shot then when the baby is born speaks up.

Logorithim · Accepted Answer

If neither of those guys has a decent-paying Job AND decent future earnings prospects, they aren't going to be able to pay child support or much of it anyway, in which case, you don't want to have a kid with either of them. There's no way to know which guys is the father, so I'd advise you to get an abortion.

In the future, don't have unprotected sex with any guy unless you are in a stable relationship and the two of you can support and raise a child.

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

Yes, he will know that you are a cheater. So what? You two should not be getting married because you are not ready for commitment. Besides, he'll want to go fuck another girl when he gets jealous of his best friend who is fucking the girl with really big tits. And, obviously, you will understand that.

RavVid · Answer

Well there is a purpose of the female orgasm and it is to aid conception by sweeping the sperm up. It is to the point that a girl is more likely to conceive to a lover than a partner. So that is a clue - who did you cum to most?

Where I am (Australia) there is a company advertising 'peace of mind' testing during pregnancy. I imagine this is a more elaborate test if amniotic fluid is being sample. At the least I would expect it to have to be ultrasound guided.

You would need to have a sample from either your boyfriend or your black guy. I think that might be your major problem as a reputable company would probably want authorization to analyze the male DNA. The problem may be more a legal one than technical. Possibly it make be determinable from just the baby's DNA if it is likely to be black or white when born.

I am being very deliberately uncensorious but of course you should morally tell your boyfriend you cheated on him, accept him dumping you, and take full responsibility for the baby even if it is his. It has been your actions that have made this relationship non-viable.

You should also get yourself STD tested to make sure you haven't given your boyfriend an STD as a double whammy.

Anonymous · Answer

I have a great solution for you, if the child is black, just paint it white, it's easy and a very cheap method of deceiving your boyfriend, he'll think it's his baby ;) See, it works like a charm :P

Philyouup · Answer

Well if this is not a fake post. You sort of set yourself up, and you dont really love your "BF" not if you are fucking a guy behind his back... Hate to say it, but you created the mess, you have to face it.

Also you should tell him As he begins to fall in love with "HIS" baby, how crushed he will be if it turns out you have a child who is black.. He'll be the Gilly and experience the humiliation of being cheated on and having you lied to him.. Even if the child is white, you need to tell him, so he knows what your character is like.

It's a painful situation you got yourself into , for both of you.. it was very immature...

Jas2008 · Answer

Now that you’re in this situation... the grownup and mature thing to do is to tell both guys and also tell them that you’re unsure of whose baby it is. When they baby is born get a dna test. I’m black so I can tell you that black babies can be born light skin until their color grows in. The baby could come out more brown then you would know but if I were you I would do what I mentioned above. The baby deserves to know his/her biological father.

Miristheiss · Answer

Just do the right thing and tell him. He will most likely dump you and that is what you deserve. Yes, you can tell the baby is half black so if he's the father it will show. You sound like an awful person. Thanks for reproducing... the world is so much better off ( sarcasm).

Drumlin2001 · Answer

You're going to have to live with the consequences of your actions.
How you handle it is up to you. But not fessing up and having him believe he's the father only to find put at the birth he's not is not moral. You've already broken his trust by cheating, you owe him the truth.
There are some tests you can do, but they are invasive amd would carry a risk to the child.

passinby · Answer

Love this photo.. He is so stupid to be with you he probably won't notice.

Anonymous · Answer

What you need to do is grow a spine (and a brain) confess to your boyfriend - “Hey so I’m afraid I’ve been banging a black guy behind your back because your dick couldn’t stretch my dirty little cunt enough and now I’m having his baby”

I’m sure he’ll forgive you!! :)

naijagurl · Answer

I have absolutely no sympathy for you. And you’re not even planning on telling your boyfriend? You’re just hoping the baby isn’t the black guy’s so he’ll never find out?

Itsonlyme2 · Answer

Your statement saddens my heart to see how humanity is becoming not even slowly more like rapidly. I wish you can have a change of heart later down in the future for now you need inner peace

White_Widow · Answer

That's karma... I'd start telling the truth as it will come out.. Good luck

Drener · Answer

No u can't and u should be ashamed to urself  Your boyfriend I'm assuming extremely loves u and if u extremely love ur boyfriend u shouldn't even think about another person

Vesuvius87 · Answer

Does the race of the guy you cheated with even matters? The fact is that you cheated. Period You need to tell him so he can rightfully break up with you and find a loyal woman.

Johnnie1000 · Answer

I'm the white boy but no matter what I wouldn't marry you. You think he might be able to tell? Try to trap a boy by getting pregnant id pretty low life. neither one is going to want you. This baby id going to change your life in more ways than one.

Giggletr0n · Answer

You gonna just have to wait this one out and see what the color of your kid is. You could always place bets on it, you could win big! A little bit of money would be nice when you are raising this alone 😊

Ripper_E · Answer

So you don't care about the fact that you cheated on him numerous times. You just care that he'll find out?

CheerGirl38139 · Answer

I read this question carefully twice.  Conclusion: fake news.

EmmaMary · Answer

Tough Shit! You played with fire now you've been badly burnt. Deal with it.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

Pity your baby. This way or that way. I guess, you fucked up big time. Be a single mom, become a feminist and ask your government for loser support.

Levin · Answer

When the baby pops out you can decide which daddy to go with.

I cheated on my boyfriend with a black guy, now I'm pregnant and dont know who's it is :/?

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