How do I tell a man I slept with im pregnant?

[Anonymous]

I just found out I’m pregnant with a older man. (By 7 years) he’s a very nice guy but he’s strange. I’m afraid he would reject me.

[_Maya_]

You be honest with him and straight up tell him what's happened. Why would you do anything else other than that? Are you looking for some secret way to break it to him? Let me tell you that there isn't. This is a serious situation and you need to come out with it sooner rather than later or it just makes things worse for you. Do you make it a habit of having unprotected sex with people you find strange? That to me is strange in of itself. Seems like quite the gamble and one that hasn't paid off like you hoped. Let's just hope that he is a decent guy and supports your decision no matter how you proceed with this. The main thing is to tell him and not wait. That's not the way to go about it.

[Rig_Stroll]

Drill strangers in the name of love
Pump that crude, make the Earth inflame
Carbon footprint's what I'm thinking of
You wouldn't get this heat from renewable game

I just wanna tell you 'bout my drilling
Gotta make you understand

Who is gonna frack your well?
Who is gonna drill you down?
Who is gonna pound around and insert crude?
Who is gonna make you gush?
Who is gonna place you flush?
Who is gonna fill your pipeline and pollute you?

We've drilled each other for so long
Your rig's been leaking, but you're too shy to admit it
Inside we both know what's been gushing on
We know the engine and we're gonna rev it

I just wanna tell you 'bout my drilling
Gotta make you understand

Who is gonna frack your well?
Who is gonna drill you down?
Who is gonna pound around and insert crude?
Who is gonna make you gush?
Who is gonna place you flush?
Who is gonna fill your pipeline and pollute you?

[Douglas1179]

@rig_stroll This is so f**king weird. I bought a VHS at the thrift store, and there was an old woman reading this very poem by the fire:
https://youtu.be/vkbQmH5MPME?si=3ssX-XDX7TxLxwx-

[Keyboardkat]

Like locking the barn door after the horse runs away, but my advice to women will always be, DON'T HAVE SEX WITH A GUY WHO ISN'T COMMITTED TO YOU! And by "committed," that means the kind you get married on! The radio psychologist, the late Dr. Joy Brown, used to say a woman MUST have two things before she sleeps with a guy! A ring and a date. A "date" means a wedding date, not the fruit of a palm tree! Here's a foolproof birth control device: It's called an aspirin tablet. The woman holds it between her knees. It's guaranteed to work!

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Just tell him. I’d suggest offering a DNA test as well because chances are he’s going to deny it especially if he does t want to be a father, or isn’t ready to be a father. That’s a tough one cause I’m not sure if you’d want to keep the child or not. Looking at your age range I’m thinking you’d want t get more out of life first before becoming a mother. Maybe I’m wrong, maybe you’ve always wanted to be a mother. But really most women really want to be a single mother.

[jahaims]

You let a dude nut in you but you are uncomfortable talking to him? Gj ruining your life. Now you get to decide to kill a baby or raise it in a fucked up situation.

[scott04sa22]

Be honest with him and tell him he's gonna be a father. Don't avoid him. Both of you can make it through this

[Anonymous]

Oh okay, first tell him he’s a king then do what ever you want to him

[IslaTheWitch]

just tell him... you can't hide it anyway

[Anonymous]

How did that happen? Were you not on birth control?

[Summeroflove]

Be honest he decided to have sex so

[jazzy34]

Who’s the guy? One night stand?

[jordynthedecayer99]

I’m the man who knocked her up