It makes me feel bad even if I did nothing wrong and she is just being over emotional. If I did something legitimately horrible to make her cry it kills me. It eats away at my soul. I never want to hurt my significant other like that.
I feel bad to see anyone cry and will try to help them in any way possible. It makes me feel bad about myself knowing that I made someone cry. Even if we had an argument I would always stop when tears start and try to find a way to suit both of us
Bad. Really bad. Unless they're happy tears. Like I proposed and she said yes. I made a girl cry once. I didn't mean to. I apologized and gave her a hug.
I don't want to make any people cry and I don't. Of course if my honest opinion makes somebody cry, I won't mind. It would be her/his choice to start crying, because of an opinion, which I stand behind.
It depends, if it's fake crying (which is easy detect) I wouldn't care. If it's real crying, I wouldn't enjoy it, but that doesn't mean I'm going to join in on the tear shedding.
Nobody likes MAKING anyone cry. But yes, girls are more sensitive than guys so, guys do not exactly understand their feelings. Thus, they just leave it as such and not care much about it.
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If it's a beautiful girl that cries "Oh my gosh! I can't imagine what you're going though." If it's an average or below average girl "that's life. Suck it up. You girls whine for nothing.. Pff"
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It seems like there were enjoying it. Or telling to stop in a rude way. Or laughing at you. Or just leaving you. I know nobody cares but if you are dating someone I thought you should care when something really bad happens to them.
I don't like doing it but at least it lets me know she actually feels emotion, but if she continues to mistreat me I'm going to leave her even if she cries, I've only dated one girl in my life that cried when I left
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It makes me feel bad even if I did nothing wrong and she is just being over emotional. If I did something legitimately horrible to make her cry it kills me. It eats away at my soul. I never want to hurt my significant other like that.
I feel bad to see anyone cry and will try to help them in any way possible. It makes me feel bad about myself knowing that I made someone cry. Even if we had an argument I would always stop when tears start and try to find a way to suit both of us
It makes me feel sad to see a girl cry, If i know i make a
girl cry i want get to the bottom of things and make things
better between us.
If I care about her, it slightly hurts me. It makes me feel bad.
If I don't know her, I'm just like "You'll be okay."
Bad. Really bad. Unless they're happy tears. Like I proposed and she said yes. I made a girl cry once. I didn't mean to. I apologized and gave her a hug.
I still feel bad when I remember it.
I don't want to make any people cry and I don't. Of course if my honest opinion makes somebody cry, I won't mind. It would be her/his choice to start crying, because of an opinion, which I stand behind.
You shouldn't do that, and if you do, tell her you're sorry and cuddle her.
It would depend on the context and how much I felt it was my fault plus how real the tears were.
terrible... and 'most' really? surely you can give guys more credit than that. we aren't barbarians.
It makes me feel like dirt, unless it's a good cry like during a movie or out of joy
Your perception does not make reality, and what you were taught also doesn't make for reality.
Well it pisses me off or makes me feel bad depending on wheather I feel I've done wrong or not.
Good answer
It depends, if it's fake crying (which is easy detect) I wouldn't care. If it's real crying, I wouldn't enjoy it, but that doesn't mean I'm going to join in on the tear shedding.
Nobody likes MAKING anyone cry.
But yes, girls are more sensitive than guys so, guys do not exactly understand their feelings. Thus, they just leave it as such and not care much about it.
If it's a beautiful girl that cries "Oh my gosh! I can't imagine what you're going though."
If it's an average or below average girl "that's life. Suck it up. You girls whine for nothing.. Pff"
It seems like there were enjoying it. Or telling to stop in a rude way. Or laughing at you. Or just leaving you.
I know nobody cares but if you are dating someone I thought you should care when something really bad happens to them.
I don't like doing it but at least it lets me know she actually feels emotion, but if she continues to mistreat me I'm going to leave her even if she cries, I've only dated one girl in my life that cried when I left
I dont like it one bit. If she is crying because of me, I feel like a total shit.
Same
I think that's mean. I would never do that. It would break my heart. If she started to cry, I would cry, too.
Most of us guys try not to, but are clueless when it happens or may not know how to fix it at that time.