she catfished you for 2 whole years. She had countless opportunities to tell you. Just stop talking to her she sounds creepy.
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That happened to me recently. It was sad, scary and I felt so stupid. I'm still trying to recover from that nightmare. It hurts, I think it's going to take a lot of time until I'm ok. But it will pass.
If I were you, I wouldn't forgive her. If she lied once, she could lie twice or even more. Don't trust her and don't talk to her. Move on, you'll find someone better. :)
Chill out people! It's up to you if you want to forgive her or not but everyone makes mistakes and deserve a second chance. She shouldn't have done that but it's up to you or you can move on and forget about her
Honestly if you’re only friends on the internet does it matter what she looks like? Or where she is? Ya it sucks to be lied to but it sounds like most of it was true
people who get catfished nowadays are stupid. if you start a relationship w someone online, make them prove everything at the beginning. otherwise assume you're being catfished so you don't get hurt.
We didn’t start a relationship. It was pretty well elaborated. We were only friends and she never thought of me as more than a friend (I think) so it’s not like she HAD to prove herself to me. Until now.
well that's fine, no problem forgiving her, you can decide whether you want to be with her now. most people catfish because they're afraid of being rejected by the other person, they don't mean any harm (some do with the stealing money and all)
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she catfished you for 2 whole years. She had countless opportunities to tell you. Just stop talking to her she sounds creepy.
That happened to me recently. It was sad, scary and I felt so stupid.
I'm still trying to recover from that nightmare. It hurts, I think it's going to take a lot of time until I'm ok. But it will pass.
If I were you, I wouldn't forgive her. If she lied once, she could lie twice or even more.
Don't trust her and don't talk to her. Move on, you'll find someone better. :)
One of the perils of getting too close to a stranger on the interwebz. Forgive her/him for your own peace of mind but move on.
Chill out people! It's up to you if you want to forgive her or not but everyone makes mistakes and deserve a second chance. She shouldn't have done that but it's up to you or you can move on and forget about her
Forgive if you can. And block her out of your life. This was a nasty thing to do. She'd be still doing it but for the fact you were going to meet her.
Honestly if you’re only friends on the internet does it matter what she looks like? Or where she is? Ya it sucks to be lied to but it sounds like most of it was true
Find out why she did it. If you don't like her reasoning, forgive her (or don't) and move on.
I think the mature thing to do would be to forgive and forget, but definitely find somebody else.
I'm the type that would easily forgive someone. I would at least try to stay friends, since you two are already close.
I don't think you can trust her
How do you know she's telling the truth this time?
Once a liar, always a liar
no she lied to you she not honest person, i think the people who do this the worse of the worse play with peoples minds hearts and very selfish
@iliamilik it means he's pissed off that you trying to move on and obviously still has feelings but mad
Yeah you're right thanks!
as a guy that was an irrational emotional response. Would that ever lift and he unblocks?
@iliamilik yes he will he's only blocked you 2 try get your attention wait a few days bet he contacts you lol just a guess
@iliamilik What’s wrong with you? Make your own damn post.
Do you love her? If yes, give her a second chance. If not, move on. Forgiveness can't be forced. So it is up to you.
Well she is young and probably confused about life. Forgive but move on.
Dont let her be in your life. Move on to someone else. She is low and fake you should be with a women who respects you and doesn't lie to you.
people who get catfished nowadays are stupid. if you start a relationship w someone online, make them prove everything at the beginning. otherwise assume you're being catfished so you don't get hurt.
and yes go ahead and forgive her because she handled it well
We didn’t start a relationship. It was pretty well elaborated. We were only friends and she never thought of me as more than a friend (I think) so it’s not like she HAD to prove herself to me. Until now.
Being stupid would be if I actually dated her and she came up with excuses
well that's fine, no problem forgiving her, you can decide whether you want to be with her now. most people catfish because they're afraid of being rejected by the other person, they don't mean any harm (some do with the stealing money and all)
Well I did send her gift cards for her birthdays even though she kept insisting that she didn’t want to take them.
Anyway, I don’t think it’s stupid for someone to be catfished because people can be pretty damn clever at it. You never know how smart people can be
rachel a catfish
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Always try to understand someone's situation before you judge them.
Fuck no. You're a fool to even be carrying on like this in the first place. You can't have a relationship with someone without actually MEETING them.
People with mental health problems need professional help. You can't give her that so cut contact.
if there werent any romantic feelings then maybe you should move on
I’d go and have sex with her and knock her up. That would teach her.