Can an atheist date a Christian girl?

I'm an atheist. She's Christian but sweeter then any girl I've metCan an atheist date a Christian girl?
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  • Of course. As long as you don't try and change each other then go for it. You two would make a cute couple.

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  • yeah for sure, as long as you guys respect each others religion

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  • Yes, but it depends on the two people. They have to fully accept and respect that about each other and each others beliefs. Also, if a long term relationship, you have to look at each of your views and most likely, have to compromise on some things. Example how to raise children etc.

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  • before atheist and christian... you are both humans first lol...

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What Girls Said 23

  • Can you? Sure.

    The question is if or not it'll work out.
    If she's preachy and can't accept other people not sharing her beliefs, then she's going to be a pain, pretty quickly. Likewise, if as an atheist, you value critical thinking skills and opposing bad ideas, you may struggle to not challenge her theism, which will make her resentful if she's either not bright enough to understand your arguments, or too indoctrinated to ever break her religious shackles.

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  • Could you date? That depends on her and how you both feel. I don't mean to sound negative, but I really don't think it will be a relationship that will go very far. The reason I say that is because your belief systems totally oppose each other. You will either not be able to talk about things in that area or you'll be fighting a lot because each of you will be trying to bring the other over to the same belief they are.

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  • Yes, but it may throw up issues long term. Like what happens with kids, and which belief system they are brought up with. Marriage itself might be an issue. Church or civil ceremony? Marriage at all?

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  • I'm Christian and married to an atheist. Works fine for us. He follows what Jesus' wanted quite a bit better than most Christians I know.

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  • Can it happen? Sure. But... it’s not like it’s super common. So don’t hold your breath. And have low expectations. Doesn’t mean you shouldn’t try at all though.

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  • Why not? But I would advise against it. In the long run there are lots of conflicting views and attitudes. At first it’s all rainbows and unicorns of course.

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  • I’m a Christian but would only date people of the same religion. We shall not be unequally yoked

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    • Technically jews, muslims and christians believe in the same god, the god of Abraham. Thats why they are called the abrahamitic religions. So even when you have a different religion, you still believe in the same god.

    • We all have different beliefs all together that are incompatible

    • Depends, within every religion there is a wide range of interpretations. Of course you will probably never be able to get along with a fundamentalist. But for these people a relationship with someone from another religion (or even a different group from the same religion) won't even be an option worth considering.

  • Maybe. It really depends. If she’s anything like April Kepner on grey’s anatomy I think trouble lies ahead.

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  • I am a Christian and I think I would date one but not marry him. I want a Christian guy too. I know many Christian girls who don't mind an Atheist partner.

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  • Yeah, I don't see why not. As long as the two people respect each others beliefs, I don't see the problem.

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  • Yeah as long as she doesn't push her beliefs on you.

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  • She's sweet BECAUSE she's a Christian. And yes, I don't see why not.

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    • Being a part of any religion doesn't make one sweet.

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  • Yeah like 80% of my friends are atheists it can work out i think

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  • I think it is doable but you'd have to agree how you're going to deal with kids etc.

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  • Depends on how trully religious she is.

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  • I don't see what's the problem here.

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  • As a Muslim, Id never be with any non-Muslim.

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  • Why not?

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  • Why are you asking if you *can*?

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  • I’m a Christian and I would not date unsaved guy

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  • If she's agreeable then why not.

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  • Of course they can

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  • Some are some aren't

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What Guys Said 48

  • The answer depends on mostly how intense your and her feelings towards Atheism/Christianity are.

    For instance, if y’all are trying to convert each other constantly, that could lead to some issues that grow over time. She may be wanting you to go to church as part of her “religious mission,” and you may want her to give up on religion, thinking it’s silly. (Sermons are often about spreading the word.) Likewise, if things got far enough to meet the family, if she comes from a Christian background, parents or whoever may very well disapprove.

    Even more so, if she is a pretty hardcore Catholic, that’ll leave to more issues down the line possibly. If she wants to marry in the church, you’d be either expected to convert and/or expected to raise any children you have as Catholic. Of course, this would likely be far down the line if things work out, but I just want to mention it.

    Even if she doesn’t want to marry in the church, it could lead to some issues if you have opposing morals. I. e. sex before marriage, prayer before a meal, how to raise children, abortion

    Do I think it’s doable? I would say yes, assuming you’re not referring to a very passionate or traditional Christian. However, if either of y’all are adamant, things may work out temporarily but lead to issues down the road.

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  • I don’t see why not, unless both are extreme and unreasonable in their viewpoints. If you’re an atheist and are dating a Christian person who is very strict/extreme in their beliefs, you probably aren’t going to have a healthy relationship at all. It really depends on how Christian she is and how extreme/adhering she is to her beliefs and also, how you are as well.

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  • If they are both reasonable and willing to respect each other's ideas, and are willing to compromise in the right moments.

    My girlfriend and I have a lot of opposing views and beliefs, but we respect each other and are fully capable of discussing our opinions without animosity.

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  • Yes ofc. As long as you respect her and her religion. I'm a catholic myself, but I wouldn't mind dating someone whos an atheist or practices a different religion (or maybe I'm just desperate and have no standards anymore lol). The only problem I'd see with that is when you have kids. How are you gonna raise them and what are you gonna teach them?

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  • Why would you unless your only goal is to get down her pants?

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    • If I wanted to just get down her pants I wouldn't talk about dating her but banging her 😂

    • You have a point there. So what is your ulterior motive? To try to destroy her faith?

  • In theory, you could, but she is probably going to want to do church activities with you, and make god the center of the relationship. If you don't have a connection with god, that's going to be a problem.

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  • As an atheist you can still join her in all her religious beliefs but just not believe in it. I'm an atheist my self and have dated a Christian girl. She went to all sort of dumb stuff, but it was interesting to join even though I don't believe in it. If I get asked about my belief by the other people you just say "lets say I believe in my girl and that's all I'm going to say about my belief" and they will most of the time not dig anymore.

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  • Completely doable. Respect each other's beliefs and ALWAYS remain tolerant toward each other. Never mock or judge one another's choice of religion (or the lack thereof). You will be fine keeping to these guidelines.

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  • I know plenty of Christian girls who date those who don't subscribe to their faith. Although you may have to suck up being dragged to church every now and then haha

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  • Yes, small warning tho, since this is a christian question chances are that the guys: Atheistsaredumb and under_maps_of_twigs are going to reply to this question, they're most likely going to push christianity on you just ignore them

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  • As an athiest I couldn't ever see it working out. And if she was a true Christian, if she wasn't constantly trying to save your eternal soul than that would suggest she doesn't really care about you.

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  • This is one of those situations where you both need to use your head, not your heart, to make this decision. There is a lot you both need to think about. One of the biggest issues is if you end up a couple that wants children, do you raise them to be Christians or Atheists? They will be put in the position of "picking" Mom or Dad's beliefs. When they are very young, how do you teach them to believe in God while at the same time teach them there is no God. By the time they are old enough to even understand the dynamics of your situation, they won't have two parents they can go to with their questions. One parent will be left out and this is a subject that is too important to a family to have such a huge divide in such an important part of life. Find an Atheist...

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  • Atheists cannot date christian girls

    Go fap to to the theory of evolution like y'all normally do

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  • No. Back off lest you corrupt her. The Bible says Christians should not mingle with the heathens and to come out from among them.

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  • I mean does she like you? Honestly if you guys agree to disagree epistemically on philosophy of god, then it could work.

    I don't see why it's an issue if she likes you as a person.

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  • that obviously depends on both individuals and how much they can accept each other. i think long term, that might become a problem once in a while though.

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  • i take it you are accepting of her faith so the main question would be does she accept your lack of faith. if so then you are fine

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  • I am also an atheist and I wouldn't but people do. You need to consider what will happen if you marry and have children? Would you feel comfortable having your children baptized in the Christian church? Attending Sunday school and church with their mother? Would you go with them or stay home? What will you do about Christmas and Easter? These things don't have to be a huge problem but the could be. Also will her family accept you, or they the sort of Christians who believe that atheists are the worst of the worst?

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  • Of course, atheist can date anyone. But she'll probably drive you nuts with her constant talk about Jesus

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  • Yep. You can but believe me you are going to argue a lot about church. If you can handle that. You can do it man.

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  • Well depends
    Is she one of the sex after marriage Christians
    Then it might be a problem but not for her but for u xD

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  • Honestly I don't think so, there's always gonna be those moments where you look down on her or start to roll your eyes.

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  • It's doable but you just have to draw that line where you won't try to convince each other to change your beliefs.

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  • Yes because this way she can show you the love of God to mankind.
    But don't be pissed off if she doesn't want to have sex before marriage ;)

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  • I suppose it depends on how much of a dealbreaker both of you ascribe to that view.

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  • life values are what is important no matter what religion

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  • Im agnostic, not atheist. Im probably going to marry the christian lady I've been with for the last year or so.

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  • Yes absolutely as long as you both respect each other’s beliefs

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  • Yeah but it could become an issue later unless she isn’t that religious

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  • I did but it turned out she was just a massive hypocrite anyway.

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