Could You Date an Atheist?

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acooke-13 · Accepted Answer

Definitely because I'm an atheist myself

Kas19 · Accepted Answer

I would prefer to date an atheist.

rjroy3 · Answer

I have before and could again. Tho I'll say they can't be the piece of shit atheists. There's simply not believing yourself and then there's having a chip on your shoulder, having to prove a point to others, and looking at/treating everyone as of they're stupid.

The latter is far too common. I remember being in college with an atheist who was failing the physics class we shared, but looked at me who was passing with an A, as if I was an idiot who couldn't think clearly.

That if only I was "smart" enough I'd believe what he believes. That's the sign of a zealot and usually some brainwashing. Atheists tend to have that attitude. That if you were smart enough you'd be atheist.

proNutro · Answer

Normally I’d say no. I believe in God and I’m an evangelical Christian. I met someone who I really really like and care about but he’s an atheist. He treats me so much better than the previous “Christian” guy I was with. I’m literally so much happier with this new guy so I don’t see it as a problem how I normally would.
He never forces things on me and I never force things on him. We’re both respectful towards each other.
So the answer is yes but only in this instance. Normally it’s a no.

DonkeyDan · Answer

I think if you are religious then it is beneficial to the future of the relationship to choose someone that shares your beliefs. Same as if you are not religious to choose someone that also chooses not to follow religion. Different belief systems and values in the same relationship could cause issues as time goes on.

BlacklightShade · Answer

"Do not be yoked together with unbelievers." -2 Cor 6 This way you don't have to challenge your beliefs.

KatherineCutie · Answer

To me it is not important if someone belives in god or not. The important thing is that somebody has something they can hold onto during difficult times. This might be a material thing, a person or for some it is religion. As long as my partner can gain personal stability and happiness, i am happy too.

Lliam · Answer

Absolutely. I'm not religious, so I would prefer it. I actually wouldn't want to deal with someone who was religious. Belief in God is okay, I guess. And I'm totally fine with spirituality but not religion.

007kingifrit · Answer

yes but while i am an atheist myself i would prefer to date a religious girl. they are happier. prefer the traditional gender roles i want. they have higher birth rates which suits my goals of a big family. and less likely to have annoying left wing activist bullshit to deal with

hannahjo022 · Answer

Eh depends on the person who is an atheist. I dated one and he was a HUGE ASSHOLE! I'm not a religious person. I also don't like talking about religion because people have so many different views and it can lead to huge arguments.

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

Yeah.

I don't believe in religion myself and I'd only want a partner who does the same, more likely to be the case with an atheist.

Agnostic or none-religion believing monotheist would be fine too, as I fall under the former.

igaveyouanickname · Answer

I am one. I prefer people who don't hold superstitious, magical, popular myths, or conspiracy theory views.

Ms_Vanderquack · Answer

I could only date an atheist. I have already had more than my share of crazy bullshit in my life, I’m not about to let any more in.

kc_4308 · Answer

No I believe in God would prefer a mate who has the same beliefs as me

onahole-san · Answer

I am an atheist personally, so it would be an easy decision to date someone like minded. I probably would not consider dating a serious Christian.

_Clara_ · Answer

If he doesn't interfere with my faith, it will. And my ex-boyfriend was also an atheist. There was no problem. We respected each other.

anniisa97 · Answer

Yeah, I've already done that. He didn't identify as an atheist, but he was very similar. He didn't deny the existence of God, but he didn't necessarily believe in God either.

slatyb · Answer

I only date atheists. Now I'm married to one. Almost all Seattle professionals are atheists. I'm not sure I have a Seattle friend that is religious.

Moimaris · Answer

I would love to have a partner who believes. However my heart was broken so hard from a Christian guy (ex fiancé ) that I look at someone’s heart

have_a_good_day · Answer

I'm an atheist but I really don't care. I avoid talking about religion or the absence thereof.  So I would find appreciation in a partner who is of the same mindset in regards to that.

SnakeBoop · Answer

Since I'm one, sure.  But it's more on how "toxic" the mindset is. Same with religious folks.

Bluemax · Answer

I certainly could. My wife and I are agnostics. I lean heavily in the direction of atheism. My wife leaned in the direction of theism.

zagor · Answer

As long as they weren't in-your-face about it, as that might cause conflict with some of my family. One of my bro-in-laws is, but he will go to church on Christmas with family and generally doesn't bring it up much.

CharlieHes · Answer

Well considering my two best friends are Athiests, sure. We would have arguments but what's important is being able to put them aside and to look beyond them when necessary.

QuestionHavr · Answer

I have, not too much different than dating the religious men I've dated.  Religious men & women will cheat just as much as the atheist men & women.

OddBeMe · Answer

As an atheist I can say most of us are pretty cool with it. We’re not virulent or petty. We mostly stay in the background at religious functions and just go with the flow.

Aquariusmystery · Answer

Depends on the individual but probably not. I’m a Catholic and most atheists just take joy in telling me I’m delusional or stupid. They don’t respect my beliefs

DarkWinterNights · Answer

No probably not. There are some fundamentals I feel a couple needs to agree on or it will cause too many issues with a long term relationship.

pjf1958 · Answer

No, but I could be friends with an agnostic individual.

Cherry234 · Answer

Yeah I could. I'm not going to force my religion on anyone or force anyone to go to church

genericname85 · Answer

I'd prefer to date one, cause I'm an atheist myself.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

I sure as fuck hope so!! Who needs all that religion bullshit shoved down your throat 24/7?

crmoore · Answer

As someone who is agnostic, I think I'd have an easier time dating an atheist than someone who is decently religious.

Pj1981 · Answer

I may not have the same beliefs but I also wouldn't judge someone for their religious beliefs and I would most likely date one

nickaboy · Answer

As I am myself I could. But I could also date a Christian. I'm open to changing my believes when there is proof at this moment devil and his demons is plausable God is impossible

Phoenix98 · Answer

Probably not just because it'd cause issues down the line.

eminde · Answer

Sure I can But it’ll be filled with endless debates and arguments

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

If she's not so judgmental about my belief and family then i'm good. My family is open to that by the way

ChubbyKing · Answer

Sure, I'm agnostic so really I'm not bothered by anyone's religious views but an atheist is less likely to annoy me by trying to make me change my views to theirs since they're already some what similar

Slymenstra · Answer

Theist, atheist, anyone concerned overmuch with either magic sky people, OR their pride in not believing in one, during initial stages of dating, is all the same color of flag, to me: red.

monkeynutts · Answer

Yeah, it’s cool, you can’t force religion onto people.

MsElizabeth96 · Answer

I Did it out of what I felt to be necesity, woikd bit advise it

Dchrls78104 · Answer

No, I could not. I'm a Christian; the dissimilarity between us would be too great.

lasher010 · Answer

Yes its possible. The marriage ceremony may turn out a little lackluster though.

chriscdi · Answer

Yea as long as they don't mess with my religion it's all good

worldscolide · Answer

Sure. Incidentally my wife agrees, she's a Christian that married an atheist

ChocoBat · Answer

Not just an atheist, I guess I'm technically an atheist but I don't like "atheists", the basis of your morals and beliefs cannot be not believing in something, you still need a solid worldview, a moral compass, structure.

BeachLuvR97 · Answer

Yes, I could; as long as they aren't angry at the world. I used to be an atheist, myself, so I understand them.

Unicorn_lover_2002 · Answer

I personally dont think religion has anything to do with a relationship as long as they dont push me into believing what they're into

Anonymous · Answer

My ex was *technically* an atheist when we met and had started going to church by the time we go together. So long as they showed some interest I would.

Kontrvnote · Answer

Yes, as far as she respects my beliefs and is not being judgmental I would.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Sure; why not? As long as they don't try to convert me.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm not in to any religion or any imaginary friends...

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Yes definitely 100%  where do I sign?

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, because atheists are more moral than religious people.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes if he can respect me and not so radical (I’m Christian and I can respect all the religions including Atheists)

David_Bayer · Answer

I am an atheist and I would date Muslim, Christian or even satanic priest

Slim57 · Answer

No a Christian or Atheist are too extremes I don't want to deal with

michol123 · Answer

Why would I date someone who listens to the voices in their head more than me, so I’m good at dating a atheist

Anonymous · Answer

I don’t know... Most atheists I know always insult people who are religious and say offensive things about God. I had a atheist friend tell me that Jesus looked like a crackhead.

the_kisses_of_sun · Answer

No! As a believer, I know I will be giving account on my reasons of marrying an atheist on the Day of Judgement.

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