My phone, my password, no one else has any need of it.
Having someone else's password is a sign of LACK of trust.
That said, it's up to the individual couple. If they BOTH are happy to share passwords, that is fine. If one wants to and the other doesn't, well then they don't.
I think my cell phone is my private possession and I don't like my husband to use it, but he knows the password and can use it if he is in need. His phone does't even have password protection and I never use it
Only if it’s willingly done with zero arm twisting. And if the spouse makes false accusations based on what they see then the deal is off. Some paranoid people can’t have access
I wouldn't share my password with anyone, but I'd surely show her my messages n stuff. If we break up or smth she'd have the password I may be using in over 10 different places.
I believe it does show trust. But also there shouldn't be anything on your phone that your partner can't see. If you have to hide something then your doing sonething wrong. So therefore i believe its ok to look at eaxh others phone. With internet now it makes it so easy to cheat & relationships aren't valued like they should be. And being able to have the opportunity to look at each others phones puts most suspicions to rest & give each other a sense of trust
Its not that am hiding something but I don't believe every part of our lives should be intertwined. We should have out own friends, hobbies , passwords and yes... separate bank accounts.
I won't be able to trust him enough to do that, what if he texts people on behalf of me? Does something that is a threat to me/ my job/ whatever. Smartphones are really dangerous things if misused by someone else.
Depends on the relationship and what boundaries are needed to keep your own sense of privacy and individuality. I think you should be able to trust your spouse enough to not need it.
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I have a lot of stupid stuff on my phone, so I wouldn't want to give someone my password...
My friends and I yell at each other and she might take things too seriously and stuff...
Plus the stupid things I search and my stupid tastes in memes and music.
No. It has nothing to do with trust. I see it as a mistrust. If I didn’t trust him I would ask for his password. He has his phone and I have mine. We have no reason to know each other’s passwords.
I wouldn’t care although I had one ex that instead of just asking me I was sleeping and he put my finger on my iPhone to open it I had nothing to hide but I was mad about how he went about it he had some Major trust issues.
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No.
My phone, my password, no one else has any need of it.
Having someone else's password is a sign of LACK of trust.
That said, it's up to the individual couple. If they BOTH are happy to share passwords, that is fine. If one wants to and the other doesn't, well then they don't.
I think my cell phone is my private possession and I don't like my husband to use it, but he knows the password and can use it if he is in need.
His phone does't even have password protection and I never use it
Only if it’s willingly done with zero arm twisting. And if the spouse makes false accusations based on what they see then the deal is off. Some paranoid people can’t have access
I wouldn't share my password with anyone, but I'd surely show her my messages n stuff. If we break up or smth she'd have the password I may be using in over 10 different places.
I believe it does show trust. But also there shouldn't be anything on your phone that your partner can't see. If you have to hide something then your doing sonething wrong. So therefore i believe its ok to look at eaxh others phone. With internet now it makes it so easy to cheat & relationships aren't valued like they should be. And being able to have the opportunity to look at each others phones puts most suspicions to rest & give each other a sense of trust
Hell no!
Its not that am hiding something but I don't believe every part of our lives should be intertwined. We should have out own friends, hobbies , passwords and yes... separate bank accounts.
I won't be able to trust him enough to do that, what if he texts people on behalf of me? Does something that is a threat to me/ my job/ whatever. Smartphones are really dangerous things if misused by someone else.
Depends on the relationship and what boundaries are needed to keep your own sense of privacy and individuality. I think you should be able to trust your spouse enough to not need it.
I have a lot of stupid stuff on my phone, so I wouldn't want to give someone my password...
My friends and I yell at each other and she might take things too seriously and stuff...
Plus the stupid things I search and my stupid tastes in memes and music.
Lol. Remind me of this quote
They shouldn't have to. But they could if they wanted to. Nothing is forced. It's all about trust. That's the beauty of it.
no it’s a invasion of privacy. you should trust one another enough not to go through their phones. without trust there’s nothing.
It actually shows more trust (and self control) to not go through each other's phones
Yep and it has nothing to do with trust, you my spouse might as well go through that shitty device I use to call people lol
No. It has nothing to do with trust. I see it as a mistrust. If I didn’t trust him I would ask for his password. He has his phone and I have mine. We have no reason to know each other’s passwords.
Lmfao only reason I have a lock is because my kid gets into my phone. I don’t give a shit if my boyfriend has my password or not
Yes! The same people who say it’s stupid are the same people getting cheated on.
No. If you trust your partner so little maybe you shouldn't be married
It was just a random question hun I’m not married thank you.
Just my opinion sweetie.
No problem
I wouldn’t care although I had one ex that instead of just asking me I was sleeping and he put my finger on my iPhone to open it I had nothing to hide but I was mad about how he went about it he had some Major trust issues.
No, sanding you password is the opposite of trust. It says very clearly we are watching eachother very closely because we do not trust each other