Hahaha that's not a healthy relationship if its all about one person and most men I've ever been romantically involved with never cared about what I needed or wanted, it was always about them.
Not true at in my past relationship in college I put in more effort in then that guy did and end up with broken break. since he did cheated and I dumped him right after. Now I am crazy girl to get bad boys out of my life.
Depends on where you are from, because where I live it's always about what men want and men can literally do whatever the heck they want whereas a woman even expressing her needs is judged heavily.
Blame the media, twilight, 50 shades of grey and other perfectly scripted movies, that indoctrinate the girls.
Entitlement knows no limits. Even Elliot Rodger had it. And not so many men know, that they should stand their ground.
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Because that's the way it's supposed to work, right? We're just suposed to be emotionless, self-reliant machines that cater to the women who choose us.
That seems to be the thought process of most women, anyway.
Because the man is the Provider The Protector. The Giver. t The one that supposed to make you feel safe. I need to know you got my back. No matter what.
If you're doing that, you're doing it wrong. You shouldn't even do that with friendships. Catering to the other person's needs while they couldn't care less about yours? Give me a break. It should always go both ways. If it's not, dump em.
Considering I'm her first love, I am making sure to meet all her needs and wants, to slowly teach her about caring for my partner's needs, this won't last forever though, unless she learns and does the same back
I mean, its always been that way. There are some few women out there that doesn't mind returning the favor, but true love is hard to find with over 3 billion people on the planet.
It all comes down to self-entitlement. It is hard wired into most females from a young age and a lot of women grow up thinking they are more deserving than what they actually are.
Ita always been that way courtship has always rested solely upon a man's shoulders to the point where if a woman puts the work in to get the man she wants she's looked down upon or seen as desperate.
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That's absolutely not true. A relationship is 50-50. Both people should feel happy and satisfied or else the relationship is doomed.
Hahaha that's not a healthy relationship if its all about one person and most men I've ever been romantically involved with never cared about what I needed or wanted, it was always about them.
Not true at in my past relationship in college I put in more effort in then that guy did and end up with broken break. since he did cheated and I dumped him right after. Now I am crazy girl to get bad boys out of my life.
Depends on where you are from, because where I live it's always about what men want and men can literally do whatever the heck they want whereas a woman even expressing her needs is judged heavily.
Where do you live cause I want to move there lol
Blame the media, twilight, 50 shades of grey and other perfectly scripted movies, that indoctrinate the girls.
Entitlement knows no limits. Even Elliot Rodger had it.
And not so many men know, that they should stand their ground.
Because that's the way it's supposed to work, right? We're just suposed to be emotionless, self-reliant machines that cater to the women who choose us.
That seems to be the thought process of most women, anyway.
Because the man is the Provider The Protector. The Giver. t
The one that supposed to make you feel safe.
I need to know you got my back. No matter what.
Is all of that way too chauvinistic.
If you're doing that, you're doing it wrong. You shouldn't even do that with friendships. Catering to the other person's needs while they couldn't care less about yours? Give me a break. It should always go both ways. If it's not, dump em.
If it seems like only the guy is trying to make the relationship last , run the fuck away from that girl u found the wrong person !!!
Because a lot of times the guy is easily replaceable. So they have to put in more effort to be kept.
Just like females 😉
Obviously not, as more relationships revolves around the girls wants and needs. Like the asked said. You can’t read or?
Haha, the divorced guy commented on here. Ya easily replaceable to wimp.
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Who are you texting to?
Considering I'm her first love, I am making sure to meet all her needs and wants, to slowly teach her about caring for my partner's needs, this won't last forever though, unless she learns and does the same back
I mean, its always been that way. There are some few women out there that doesn't mind returning the favor, but true love is hard to find with over 3 billion people on the planet.
Because the man wants to get laid so he kisses the woman's ass this will make her like him more and then he will ass as a reward of sorts.
Bunch of wusses.
By giving her what she wants, he can get everything he wants.
Because the males are usually ugly mfers so they gotta make up for it lulz
Why do you choose to date ugly men?
I don't, but if I did he'd probably be rich or a good protector
Because women hold the advantage in dating (usually). This is why men are turning away from relationships. It's one-sided.
MGTOW :P :)
It all comes down to self-entitlement. It is hard wired into most females from a young age and a lot of women grow up thinking they are more deserving than what they actually are.
Ita always been that way courtship has always rested solely upon a man's shoulders to the point where if a woman puts the work in to get the man she wants she's looked down upon or seen as desperate.
Because on average women have more men per capita chasing them than men do, so men have to do so because of the competition.
Because at least traditionally men are the protector and women are the ones being protected and pleased by the man