My boyfriend thinks I complain too much, but what else should I do?

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Sometimes my boyfriend does something I consider messed up (like breaking promises, cancelling plans, putting things off, etc). I end up getting upset and get mad at him. We end up having an argument/discussion. He gets really annoyed whenever this happens. Now he has even started to pull away, he even admitted he is starting to like me less because we always argue over "stupid pointless things". He is basically acting like I'm a nagging complaining girlfriend who expects way too much and gets mad over every little thing.

But I don't know what to do. I feel like he acts like a jerk/does messed up things and then he says I'm wrong for complaining! I am hurt by his mistake and I end up being the bad person, and get blamed for starting arguments.
My boyfriend thinks I complain too much, but what else should I do?
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