He complains more than me and I mean it's about minor things. He always has something wrong with him. EVERYDAY. He'll either say his head hurts, his stomach hurts, he's in pain, or that his legs are itchy. Today he said his head hurt right after taking a shower and he has no idea why. I told him to lay down and drink water and he texts me "oww" then yesterday he said his nose was blocked and I told him to steam the bathroom up and it'll probably help. He said he can't cause his mom will say that he's wasting hot water. He complains a lot these days about how his legs itch. I tell him to get itching cream or use corn starch. He acts like he doesn't want to use it. He says he's sick and when I tell him to take medicine he goes "I don't have any" it makes me annoyed cause it's like why don't you go buy some? You have a job and an easy life. His mom cooks for him everyday he doesn't have to clean. All he does is watch tv and sit on the couch most of the time other than work. (he's a works at a call center). It was annoying at first but I'm used of all this complaining now. I'm just wondering why is there something like EVERY DAY with him? My parents split and I have to cook and clean everyday. I never complain about minor things like a bruise or ache. I complain more about how badly people treat me. He can't relate cause I feel he's sheltered. He even says he is in a passive aggressive way by saying how they never fight etc. He cares way too much about his family ex: that hot water issue. His mom is a health freak and doesn't even approve of eating at night. He has to shower before dark. He still eats at night though but doesn't shower. by the way he's turning 25 in a couple of days..
And yes we are long distance. We only video chat, and text through KIK. We been together for 3 years.
He didn't even know about the steaming bathroom technique until I told him about it then he said that about his mom.