Honestly? Two hours is excessive for almost any occasion, but just getting coffee... that’s extreme. If I was just one of your fiends (not ur bf) and you took that long to get ready for coffee, I’d be so freaking pissed off. His behavior is perfectly normal. He wants coffee now. Not two hours later. Also, expecting anyone to wait that long, is not respectful of their time.
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You were just going for coffee, not dinner at the Ritz. You didn't need to get that dolled up for coffee in my opinion and I guess your boyfriend didn't think so either.
I think it's something small and you both should get over it.
You've got five minutes to get ready. (and that's being generous)
Anything longer and I'll have to decide if I still want to go.
There is no way in hell I'd wait two hours to get ready for anything, let alone going out for coffee. I don't even see how that's possible.
I think you are going to have a lot of problems with men going forward unless you have your shit together when it's time to go.
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2 hours to get ready to go for coffee? You're fucking kidding right? For me and my girl to get ready for a formal charity event put on by the Prime Minister and the first lady, took an hour for my girlfriend and about 40 minutes for me.
2 fucking hours is entirely too long to get ready for anything.Try doing something he'd like to do where you would have to wait a long time. Like wait with him while he has a haircut. Then later go take your time to get ready for coffee. Now you have waited a long time for him so now when he waits for you he should be more patient.
Give it a give if you want and private message me how it goes im genuinely interested about it.
Good luck!You can't expect someone to wait that long for you. I would possibly do the same thing. It also sounds like you getting ready was something you were going to do anyways, so why would you be mad?
You took too long. If I were him I would probably do the same thing. 2 hours is a long time time for just coffee. No need to get all dolled up for just coffee. That's excessive even for an official date.
Time management is a nifty thing
Did he want to go before hand?
What a horrible boyfriend. Get a real man!
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